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Hi guys - Yes I got hooked by the CR novia. Divorced in my mid 50's I was having fun in CR in Fall 2021 after the country reopened from covid. I was enjoying my time with a 29yr old SL day girl. Right away before Xmas her grandfather "died" but she didn't ask for money. I felt bad because of covid phucking up her cash flow and decided to play captain save a ho. Went down to SL every month or two in 2022 and had a good time with her. When I was back in US I found she was always running into her monthly emergencias, son needs money for school, medical bills, food, rent, washing machine died, mom in hospital, etc... Was paying her rent every month for about 6 months so she didn't have to sell her ass at the SL. Said she didn't want to do that anymore. Seems she had been doing it for a while. There is a photo of her on CRT from 2015-2016 I think.. Was friends with her on FB. Always sending me smiling sometimes nude photos on whatsapp. But always a little doubt ringing in the back of my head. Always asking me to western union her (in her mom's name because she couldn't use WU in her name... I figured out later she got blocked for some reason..) for rent money plus emergencies plus needs money to go out with friends to dinner etc.. Into me for about $5k total. Not much money but annoying with frequency. Honestly I did like her and it felt good to help someone who gave positive feedback. I was a captain.. Finally after I was on vacation in NYC and she was messaging me to find a western union office to send her money I got sick of her shit and shut her off. She cried and whined. Was so sad. I ignored her and it stopped for a bit. Went down to CR a few months later and didn't see her. Had fun without. Every few months she would reach out but I ignored. Then I got a message from her just before my last trip in Feb 2024. Replied and got back in touch. She was so excited to see me... blah blah blah. BUT, she needed money for her son's school clothes and her baby daddy wouldn't help. I send her $200 but said no more. Next week I went to SL and hooked up with her a few times along with some other ticas. While I was there we went out to dinner at La Esquina de Buenos Aires and took her shopping for clothes. She was all lovey. I also told her I wasn't sending her any more money from the US once I went home. She asked me to repeat what I said, so I repeated it. We will have fun and I will be generous while I am in CR but no Western Union when I am home. She kind of accepted it.
So, fast forward a month after I get back and she is asking me for money. Needs money for vet bill her dog is going to die.. Needs money for her medical bills....blah blah blah. I tell her no. She hangs in there and asks again a month or two later. Needs money for medical bill for her son. I tell her he should be covered under the national insurance (CAJA). She spins some BS about how not everything is covered... I tell her no.
Fast forward another month.
It began to occur to me. She never posted about her emergencies on Facebook. Just life as usual. I looked back prior years. No mention of her grandfather dying or any of the other emergencias.
Currently she is sending me nude photos and professing her love to me. But now she says she is being kicked out of her rental home because it is being sold. She needs to rent a new home but doesn't have the money to pay the deposit. I said no. I checked facebook. No mention of having to move. Just regular stuff.
Anyway, she is asking me for money right now and I am saying no. She is ramping it up swearing she will never ask again. Answer is still no.
We are the target fellas. Be aware. It's their home field. They have played this game far longer than we have played our side. They are good at it. The only way to win is to refuse to play unless you are there in CR getting benefit for your payment. Cheers.

Can you send me some money? you don't even have to hit the WU I can take Zelle or cashapp

a sucker gets off the plane every hour

JugglinPimp

You're not the first nor will you be the last.
( She hangs out at the SL). Had one of the recently hit me up for 5000 for a new roof, worked her way down to 500 for a tarp and pales. Got tired of playing along and blocked her.
they're always looking for that American ATM

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Never paying cein

I've known a Colombian SW for 2 years come October. Last year, we spent about a week together on vacation in April. I saw her again in July in another country, and in between she asked for money for her sobrino's birthday party. Now, I actually knew prior to seeing her in April, when his birthday was. I was also able to verify the party taking place. Honestly, as his madrina, she probably takes better care of the little K*D than his mom does. But I told her... very bluntly, that I wouldn't be sending anymore money at all, and I would provide money only the next time we were in physical proximity. She hasn't asked me for money since, and we still chat, though not as often as we used to. I think she understood and believed I would not send anymore money, but I also know she continues to be a sex worker to this very day.

Things become more difficult if you are invested in the relationship. If you have a non refundable plane ticket to see her, and she asks for money between now and the flight, then you are between a rock and a hard place, because if you cancel the flight you are not getting your money back either. If you don't have a future date set, then I would just block her and move on to the next girl. There are plenty of girls out there... you don't have to be dead set on one in particular, especially if the one in question doesn't know how to take no for an answer.

I hate to rub salt in the wound, but the money you send to these Chicas often goes to their lazy, unemployed by choice boyfriends.

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The most dangerous adversaries are the ones that come with a smile instead of a sword

ok brother that's some real. don't send money. unless you get that grind