Hello Colonel,
I still remember asking you if that was your last name and you were a colonel in the military and after laughing for a few minutes you 'splained that handle...
I sent you a PM.
Now for you naive gullible newbies :
You do not...I REPEAT...you do not "fall in love".
You fall in delusion...
You've been watching too many of those old falling in love 1950's movies, get over it...STOP DOING THAT!!!
Your parents fell in love, that's how you got here.
Normal people in normal relationships fall in love over time, and issues like trust, appreciation, respect and mutual understanding come into play.
To use an analogy, back in my ancient working days in Florida, I had a habit of falling in love with hot sports cars.
My punishment was they were expensive, loved gas and much higher insurance costs, maintenance costs, and a ticket or two every year...
But if I was traveling and rented a car, you know, it was just temporary transportation, I did not fall in love with a rental car even if I upgraded to a hot car, it wasn't mine and it would never be mine but it served it's purpose, providing a ride...that's what hoz do...
You do not...you cannot..."fall in love" with a ho.
She falls in love with your bank account.
These are hoz, accept it, enjoy it for what it is.
They could care less about you, argument over, period. You are an ATM machine with hands, mouth, a tongue and a deek to them...get it??? IT'S AN ACT...IT'S A MIRAGE!!!
These girls are amazing actresses, you could pluck them from San Jose or Jaco and parachute them into Hollywood and in two years all would have Oscars...
Don't do these things!!!
That's all I got....