PVD John wrote:
I came to Jaco to celebrate my birthday. I don't do this very often, but thought I was familiar with the rules from all the research I had done.
I went to the Hotel Cocal. Most of the girls there were cheap whores, but there was one girl who seemed really nice.
We agreed to go back to my place. All along the way, and even after we arrived, she asked if we could get drugs. I said I don't do hard drugs. She offered some weed. I said I already had some, but she still offered to get more.
Bitch spent most of the time in the bathroom doing rails. Each time she came out she was more fidgety and nervous.
She ran into the bathroom. Came out and said "I get the weed" and ran out the door.
I gave it a minute. Then I checked my wallet. Empty.
Looked outside to see not a person in sight.
Went back to Hotel Cocal to report one of their regulars is a crook. Was told by the staff that what happens between you and any girl is up to you. They are not responsible. I should contact the police.
Went to the police station. 3 miles away. Had to take a cab even though this bitch just took all of my money. Was told there was nothing there could do. Go back to Cocal and ask for a manager.
Went back to Cocal. Manager "just left". Come back tomorrow.
Up until now, I always thought Costa Rica was this utopian place where anything goes. Now I realize that "bad behavior" is merely tolerated by locals. If you choose to engage in prostitution or any illicit activities, they will do absolutley nothing to help you. They won't even file a police report.
Don't believe the hype you read on this website. Prostitution is mostly legal, but highly scorned by locals. If you engage in prostitution, you will be treated like scum.
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During the evening, I would often go outside whenever I was feeling overwhelmed. I noticed that when the girls came in, they would simply check their bags and charge $1. After this whole situation, I noticed policy suddenly changed and they are once again collecting ID's at the door.
I was welcome to come back tomorrow to see if she comes back. If she's smart, she should take the weekend off. They asked what I wanted to do if I found her. I don't know. I'll be home in 4 days. Phuck her, throw her in jail, I guess.
Dumb druggie bitch. I would have just given you the money.
There is so much fail here I had to quote your entire post.
First, the initial time the girl mentioned drugs you should have bailed.
Secondly, you don't mention where you stayed. Obvio there was no front gate security. A rental house?
Third, she was in the bathroom "doing rails"? Coke? And you didn't toss her out?
Fourth, and most critical - your money wasn't locked up while you had a stranger in your place (wherever it was)? No safe?
To recap, you had an admitted drug user* in your place, doing drugs*, with your cash unsecured and you expected a different outcome?
Then you paint every working girl with the same brush. And expect the Cocal to take responsibility for your actions offsite?
*Other than weed. Apparently every girl, working or not, in CR smokes weed.
Lastly:
PVD John wrote:
Up until now, I always thought Costa Rica was this utopian place where anything goes. Now I realize that "bad behavior" is merely tolerated by locals. If you choose to engage in prostitution or any illicit activities, they will do absolutley nothing to help you. They won't even file a police report.
Don't believe the hype you read on this website. Prostitution is mostly legal, but highly scorned by locals. If you engage in prostitution, you will be treated like scum.
Actually, prostitution is completely legal** but if you think "everything goes" in Costa Rica (especially for a gringo) you were dead wrong before you got robbed. Costa Rica has laws - lots and lots of laws that their corrupt politicians, police, and courts gleefully apply to gringos (for reference, see Cuba Dave).
But in your case, any victim of petty theft would be in the same position, Tico, gringo, whoever. Even in the US the victim of petty theft by a drug using prostitute they invited into their life isn't going to get sympathy from anyone. And in CR, an aggrieved foreign tourist with that complaint is barely going to get a yawn.
**In my observation, Ticos have a 'live and let live' attitude towards girls engaged in prostitution (especially in the current fiscal crisis) but but a barely tolerant attitude towards obnoxious tourists (of any type).