I have been reading through this thread and am confused:
Some of the posters say they are not misogynists but their writings indicate otherwise. Others are quietly showing they are.
Regardless;
Independent of your life’s experiences if you think that ALL women have ulterior motives in what they do and how they act then perhaps the reasons for your outlook on women are due to how you conduct yourself when with them. Bad Boy / Nice guy concepts aside. Most women I know and some guys are able to figure out someone’s attitude towards the opposite sex after a few meetings. From there they decide whether the relationship is worth pursuing. Outwardly you may be the greatest person in the world but, without knowing it, you show your true colors at the same time. Women see this.
Most people have sex because they enjoy it and use sex as an indicator of whether they will be happy with that person, in addition to the other aspects of relationships. P4P aside. But great sex does not mean a great relationship. At the same time mediocre sex does not make for good relationships. In many of my relationships the sex got better the more we got to know each other and the more time we spent together.
With P4P I have had sex that was fantastic but I would not want to be with the woman for the rest of my life. At the same time I have had good sex and thought maybe there could be something more here. Of course I have had bad performers but there was something about her that made me think there was something there worth pursuing. (
Fortunately my flight was the next day 
) I think that many of the P4P women think that if they perform great sex that is all the man is looking for in a relationship. A few of them think otherwise. Either way that is their take on ALL men just as some of the posters here think ALL women have ulterior motives.
For me I’ll take my chances with women. I’ve found that just being myself works most of the time and if it doesn’t then it wasn’t meant to be. I enjoy their company, their different take on life, the perfumes they wear, the way they dress and their quirky mannerisms. Does it drive me crazy sometimes, hell yes, but I would rather be driven crazy than be with out one.
After injecting my $0.02 worth here is just a little about me;
I would be considered the “nice guy†and am not in a relationship as of this writing. However there are quite a few women in my life that I enjoy the benefits of. Some are for free others are P4P.