These girls are professional; not professional in the sense of a physician or architect but professional in the sense that this is how they survive. And they know how to survive and sometime thrive. They are innately cunning, astute and shrewd.
Along with the innate skills, they have developed an informal training system that can sharpen those skills. They learn the nature of men very well.
They can size us up much better than we can size them up. And then they learn quickly how to titillate and stimulate our basic and fundamental desires.
They know the questions to whisper, where to touch, and how to keep you and me on the edge. If they did not know how to do that, there would be a bounty on them.
If we the capability to size them up the way they size us up, you would know this is a fantasy and, at the root of the fantasy is money.
Based on reading the above threads, the not-emotionally involved brother mongers see it clearly.
These women know how to play on controlling your little head not the big one and it is their ability to do so that gives them power over men and power that opens your wallet. She wants the security and that money brings.
You wrote, “she's NEVER asked me for a dime, she's never given me any grief whatsoever.â€
But you also wrote, “....money is never discussed before I arrive, when I arrive, during my stay but Yes, I give her a reasonable amount when I depart. I know you are all dying to know what reasonable is. It was $300/day first time, $400/day since then.â€
She doesn’t have to discuss money because you are giving her exceptionally high compensation.
In Costa Rica, $300 to $400 a month is considered a living wage. Obviously not a great wage but you would be surprised to learn how many people earn that amount in a month and still manage to make ends meet. A housekeeper would work all day, 12 + hours a day, six days a week for that amount of money.
I believe you could compare it to $2000 a month in the US. Obviously at the low end of the pay scale but a lot of people live off that amount in the US and manage to make ends meet.
If you did not give her any funds upon your departure be assured that she would ask for some. It might not be as you walk out the door but it would come. Might be a sick mother, the rent’s due, electricity is turned off . . . something, but the RFM would come.
When you are not around she has another. The sun comes up in the east and sets in the west. When you are not around she has another. No matter how much we want it to come up in the west and set in the east; it will still come up in the east.
It is in the culture. When you are not around she has another.
Just as we are susceptible to attractive and captivating woman, she is susceptible to the lure of money and all it can buy including security. Along with her security comes your insecurity.
Not a criticism of you but voices of experience.