Phoenix Rising wrote:
GetRhythm wrote:
Should any girl whom despite the supposed 'connection' you have, is only with you - bottom line - because you're paying her to be, mean that much to that you shouldn't be willing to share among your bros if they happen to express an interest? You tell me...
A worthy topic of discussion for the rank and file here at the Wifing Up Doesnt Suck Club!
There was a thread on ISOC on this topic called I think the "Do not touch" or "Hands - Off" List i think that addressed this question...
JimmyDR and his very hardcore cronies appear to have taken the view that any guy who got into any "emotional" connection with a P4P chica is a moron. And that any such guy that doesnt want you to do "HIS" chica is a subject of derision and contempt, and the sooner he is showed the error of his thinking the better. That's fine if you take the tack the these girls are nothing but soulless Phuck dolls...but not everyone feels this way.
Many of us like to actually talk to a chica a little...sometimes we wanna say more than "Ill pay you 500 pesos for an a hour of anal." Its just another way to play the game...making it a little less BORING quite frankly. Sure much of the time there is not a whole lot there. But sometimes you are quite surprised. I actually had a conversation about Nietzche with a chica at the Blue Marlin years ago...reported on here in one of my early trips. (Of course that was a deal breaker
) Some of us are open to experience a little more stimulus than say, Barbie's BJ... thats why we are members here...
So having said that, if you see a chica you like who is in a wifed up situation with another guy, how do respond?
Some guys on ISOC said it depended on how tight they were with the guy in question...
Klockman and others made a point on the thread that if the guy and the chic were obviously diggin each other why cockblock the guy and Phuck it up? Plenty of chica in the sea.
GR remembers an incident at the Medellin Mansion where he acquired a chica's number when said chica was a guest of another monger (a non MM girl) and a spirited debate of "monger etiquette" ensued. Was he wrong to get the number?
Ultimately I think it all depends on the chica. Many chicas when they are wifed up will refuse to do their "husband's" friends... at least when the husband is in town. Im sure this mostly has has to do with dinero preservation...as she doesnt want to risk pissing the guy off and ending the money flow.
I like to wife up for sure, but the overwhelming majority of the time I am passing around and sharing the lovelies amonst friends...sometimes I offer up the wife...if she's game. But if a guy is wifed up pretty solid with a chica I dug, I would go to the guy and ask him for contact info...if he's not down to share I respect that... and I would not whine, complain or get pissed off about his feelings.... Chances are the marriage would run its course and Id be good to go at a later date
There are several gents that I've met and befriended during my short time in this hobby, and if they've developed a connection with a girl that I've yet to be with, I see no problems hunting elsewhere.
I only have two regrets, one girl made my "no fly" or "touche pas" list after I agreed with her best friend to only be with one of them. Since then, her star has risen considerably and when she swung by my room last trip, she hinted that it was weird we hadn't, ummm dated. My second regret is a girl who's very close to 2 CRT'ers, I assume they each know the other guys fishing their private stock but in any case, I've kept their confidence and not gone there so to speak.
Most of the chicas that guys wife up with, I wouldn't want anyways, to each his own, I guess.
My touche pas list is entirely MDE girls and currently has 7 names, although I did receive an e-mail today from the guy that asked me to not phuck his novia saying they had broken up. It'll still be weird to see her around the MM without my buddy but hey, thems the breaks. Of the 7 girls I agreed not to sample, 4 of them are on the list because of other chicas not mongers.
As for poaching, I subscribe to the rule that if the MM invites a girl, she's welcome to work and pass out her number till she can't walk anymore. But if a guy has made a specific request thereby assuring the girl of work, it's not not cool for another guy to ask for her number, nor is it cool for her to use your invite to book future work. It's happened to me several times (I don't invite fuglies) and once a guy does it, he's nothing to me.
It's just not cool
Just as a side note, I've never asked another monger to not pursue a girl I've been with. I was asked once about how a girl behaves in private, I gave an honest assessment, guy took her anyways, then wanted to bitch to me later when she did exactly what I indicated she would. We all think with our dicks, but sometimes a sober pause can be beneficial.
Non-pros, family members of p4p girls (unless indicated as eligible) are simply out of bounds...AFAIC
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maybe I should direct them to this forum as we have plenty of puppies here searching for love!)
once said,just "reflect her feelings" ...isn't that all they REALLY want us to do? 
.. Chica that I know and have repeated with a number of times calls in the afternoon, I am walking taking in the sites. She says I have a problem 
. I am thinking oh boy what could this be an how does she think I can help. I say what’s the problem, she says I am horny and want to see you, can I come over! I’m like really. She says I am shopping in town with my son and is going to have some relative take him for a little bit and come over. Half hour later she is at my hotel attacking me.
