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I'm going to be in Jaco for two weeks over christmas with my cute, but autistic ten year old. Last year went with the SO and was able to scam out for a couple of hours at night to "check my email" at the BB. My Ch*ld gets very, very anxious with any taste of abandonment. Would like to introduce her to a companion to hand with her at the pool during the day...eventually I could disappear for a few hours at night.

Ideal would be a girl I could do at night who had a younger sister who would watch my Ch*ld! Any suggestions. Yes, my spanish is excellent.

double post, sorry.

Well it is your Ch*ld, but with all due respect, I wouldn't do that!!! I would not totally rule out the possibility of a kidnapping under those circumstances. Ticos are very good a taking advantage of easy opportunities when they present themselves.

There is a professional service out there that would be a lot more trustworthy with your Ch*ld. I will find the info on them if you are interested.

I was thinking like a 15 year old high school student would would sit around the pool with her, maybe watch some teevee at the hotel...I think the possibility of kidnapping is low

Yeah, you got that right!

Just ball busting you! Actually, I don't think your idea is so far out there. I just wouldn't look to the younger sister of a hooker as the best references to use. In fact, I'd steer as far clear of 15 year old girls and my sexual activities as possible. Kidnapping may be one concern, but I'd also be a bit concerned about some trumped up charges of impropriety with the und***ge girl and attempts at blackmail. I realize you're not talking about doing anything like that with the younger sister but she'll know what you're up to with big sis and probably had a front row seat in learning various ways to scam old gringos. It would probably be better to just keep your business arrangements with any sitter at arms length and totally seperate from your more nefarious activities.

Perhaps, you could ask through your hotel's manager if he knew a reliable local girl who'd be willing to watch your daughter for a reasonable fee (probably much cheaper than babysitters at home). The one he'd get would be much more likely to be a hardworking and honest church-going girl than one who is likely to be in training to be a hooker like big sis. You might even wind up with his own daughter, or perhaps one of the hotel maids moonlighting for extra cash or the daughter or sister of a maid and you could then be much more certain that she wouldn't do anything to screw it up. Not that it would be a complete guarantee but anyone somehow connected with the hotel would do their best not to do anything that would get back to the manager and thus endanger their job (or sister's, mother's or father's job).

Kccostarica........ The idea that his Ch*ld may be kidnapped is an overaction to say the least unless you can provide some information as to the "kidnapping" of American Ch*ldren on vacation with a parent while in CR. I am sure I am not the only one on here who is completely unaware of such a problem (probably because it doesn't exist).

Berk.....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

You certainly wouldn't want to take an autistic 10 year old girl and place her with a local who wasn't fluent in English not to mention someone who is completely ignorant of what autism is. What would the Ch*ld's mother say?

Berk.....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Why are we putting an asterix in the word ch*ld? Is that some kind of forbidden word? Regarding the Ch*ld's mother (who is also my wife), I think she would relieved on some level if the ch@ld were kidnapped...we're going down there alone basically so she can get rid of us for a couple of weeks!

Autismo, autistica...the typical high school girl knows basically what that means.

Kidnapping in Jaco...I think the possibility of that would be pretty phucking remote. Ever read the "Ransom of Red Chief" by O. Henry?

No emoticons...

Is this statement a joke?

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

I was wondering the same thing. ???????????

Mr Berk my dear friend, if I am not mistaken are you not one of the "why take the risk" people from the other thread?

Your point is well taken, it might be a stretch. Personally I would rather take risks with my own personal safety than that of my Ch*ld's, but that is just me.

One thing I think we can all agree is that Costa Ricans are somewhat cunning at taking advantage of easy opportunities. There is no FBI here if your Ch*ld is kidnapped. We also all know how greedy a puta can be. We all know instances of guys that have been victims of crimes (all the way to murder) by putas. I don't see where it is all that far fetched. While kidnappings are not the norm here, neither is it the norm for a monger to show up with a K*D on a monger trip (I have never heard of that either). There are many a puta that will look for some way to exploit a such a vulnerability. Am I wrong about that?

Tell me realisticly: Is it more likely a puta will show up with a sister or another puta on a puta trip? Sister? Yeah right! Chances are you end up with another kind of sister, a puta sister. Put to putas together, give them the upper hand and who is to say what could happen?

I am certainly not questioning the judgment of the original poster. I can't judge because I don't know all the circumstances. I am just suggesting that it might be a better idea to get someone with a little higher level of accountability and perhaps with insurance. I think he would be surprised to know how affordable it is. You can always check with your hotel, they should be able to give you a recommendation.

Admin, don't hate me, I am sorry. I think I am editing and I end up with a separate post.

I have no idea what this is in reference to.




Make up your mind. Stretch.... yes, no, yes, no. We are not talking the jungles of Colombia.

You have an over active imagination.



Kidnapping is NOT one of them though. To imply that a local would even consider kidnapping a Ch*ld is ludicrous.

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

In CR... I doubt it seriously. Even so, hearing/knowing the specifics of a special needs Ch*ld and how to deal with a special needs Ch*ld are 2 very different things.

Berk.....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Gee Berk, just a little argumentative tonight? If you were not part of the “better safe than sorry”, “why take the chance” crowd in the taxi debate than I apologize and I stand corrected.

I think if you READ my statements, you will see that I was referring specifically to kidnapping at one point, at another point I was discussing a wider variety of criminal opportunities or who the hell knows what else. If I was unclear, then I extend my most sincere apologies.


So let me get this straight, you think it is a good idea to have a puta involved in the care of his Ch*ld? After all that is the point. If you want to spend your time dissecting semantics’, have fun, but it is beside the point. Either it is a good idea, one where he should feel secure with his child’s safety or it is not. I personally would be VERY concerned if it was my daughter. Maybe some feel otherwise and I respect that, but I stand by my advice. I don’t think it is a very good idea. I can’t imagine any benefit to mixing those two things together.