Sorry to come down so hard on you, but I am just trying bring you back to Earth. I wouldn't be living here if I didn't have a better social life here than in the USA (or Canada). Having said that, I think your expectations of Latinas is unreasonably high. There's nothing magical about brown skin and speaking Spanish.
Latinas aren't the same as Gringas. Okay, so far so good. You will have a larger selection of interested and attractive females here. Also good. Will you be able to tell a keeper from a scammer? Not if you are in a hurry. Not if you can't speak Spanish (usually).
To humanize this, let me tell a story. I met a pretty, cheerful girl in the gulch who seemed to be what I was looking for. We saw each other on a pay basis several times but she made it clear she would be happy to give up the biz and be my gf, and I was considering it but realized she was going to be more than I could handle in numerous ways, so I was ready to move on. I explained to her that preferred just to be friends, not novios, and it just so happened we were in the NY bar and I noticed a gringo looking at her like a starving shark looking at a baby seal. I told her that I wasn't interested in company that night but that THIS guy seemed very interested. She asked if I was SURE it was ok and I said, no problem, babe, go for it.
Well, fast forward 3 months and they are engaged. Fast forward 3 more months and they are married (in Costa Rica). Fast forward 6 more months, she's pregnant but won't move to Texas (his home). He's paying for a house for her and 1 of her 3 K*ds (the other 2 don't like him and won't live with him). He calls her 3 times a day from Texas begging her to come to the USA. She won't go. She's not working anymore, but she feels like a prisoner. She's in love, he's in love. He's sending her DVDs of his beautiful home and boats in Texas. She watches him talk about how he's going to remodel, bla bla bla and she's not remotely considering moving to Texas.
He got his trophy wife. She's in love with him. But she is totally afraid to move to the USA and just won't go. Now he's going to have a K*D and wife in Costa Rica, and he doesn't want to move HERE.
Okay, so you can get your 'novia' to promise to move to Canada. Will she keep her promise? If she keeps her promise, will she be happy there? MY POINT is that unless you really get to know somebody, and I mean REALLY, you have more potential hazzards here than trying your luck at home where culture and language aren't so different. If you are willing to take the time and expend the effort, you can find wonderful women here, but it's NO SLAM DUNK.
I live here so obviously I must like Latinas. But I LIVE here and I STILL haven't found Miss Correcto. This is after almost 3 years. I am still kissing frogs to find the princess. Luckily, I enjoy kissing frogs.
_________________ "The only normal people are those you don't know very well." Joe Ancis
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