www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Yes, but don't forget that her Tico boyfriend (chulo) has priority!


I must be an unlucky SOB! I have exchanged email with three of them, and most of the time, they seemed to be written in another language but Spanish.
Romantic!? Well, if reading about "problemas" is romantic to you, then yes, there's a lot of romance in them!


Come on Mister Ciego, there's plenty of people to practice your spanish over the phone in your own backyard, and it wouldn't cost you a penny. Just check your phone book and dial any Spanish surname in it.


Just get an stuffed puppy, at least it won't laugh behind your back and call you "gringo tonto" which by the way, sounds better than in Cuba where they'd call you "gringo comemierda"!
It's just a matter of time before one of those "man in love" finds his "novia" all over another gringo in the bar and starts a fight.
Guys, don't forget that they are timeshare novias. When your time is up, check out because as soon as you do, somebody else will be checking in!

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Yeah they DO laugh, you're right. A few of my regulars don't mind talking to me about their work. They love to brag about how they get over on some guys. This one paid 300 for an hour, that one - leche muy rapido, another just wanted company, no sexo. I'm sure there's plenty BS in there. But some of it is true. A married wingman I brought down didn't want to do anything that constituted a breach of his marriage vows so he only "had sex like a former president" The girls think it's hysterical.

Anyway, for the edification of the masses, I think this link below

https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=1957x[url]

would be useful for further study on this topic - one of my favorites and thanks to PacoLoco for sharing this one with me earlier this year.[/url][url][/url]

PS booked a trip for this Sunday three nights at the SL if anyone is around


PHX

Gypsy, how about a gun fight?

A.M. Costa Rica article today...

U.S. citizen held after gunplay

By the A.M. Costa Rica staff

A U.S. citizen with the last name of Forty and a Costa Rican taxi driver were jailed after shooting broke out near a bar in Barrio Cristo Rey.

Police said the object of the dispute was a woman in the bar and that police received a report of two men shooting it out in the street. No one was wounded.

Fuerza Pública officers detained Forty and then found that the other man, identified by the last names of Caravaca Matarrita had an unlicensed .38-caliber handgun in his public transportation vehicle.

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"i'm in love with a whore and i don't even know it." - Traylor Park

Really a lot of interesting points & variety of views here . I am more opinionated here than in real life down in CR. When I see men under these chicas spells I just tell them to be careful & do your homework since most situations of getting involved with what ever we call them have sad out comes.

Who are we to judge another or dash someone else’s hopes & dreams when many are doing the best they know how to? It might be wise to follow what you would tell your own son to do in these situations but as we know many times it is easier to not practice what we preach . If one wants to pursue these chicas like a real true Novia I would think staying on the side of caution with the economic situation would be the smart thing to do. Hire a PI if you think you have something special going on & prove it to yourself. Most men will not do this from what I have seen because they do not want to find out the truth so they can live the fantasy a little longer .

I have seen so much of the story Lee posted about to make one want to throw up but that is their business. I do try to stay considerate of others & try not to mess up the pricing structure etc. but then again who are we to try to tell someone else how to spend their $$ . It is good common sense to really listen to the experienced men that live there & have seen far more than most & have a better overall feel for the games that are played.

As far as these women sleeping with other men & having local boyfriends or husbands what else is new? This has happened to me with regular Gringas in the good old USA also with women nobody I knew of would ever think was a puta. Most of us are little better from what I know . I am just happy I always did my homework with all of them so at least I knew the truth & knew how to play with each different one on the same level playing field that she put forth. It saved me a fortune & helped me keep what little sanity I have left . The sad reality of the truth is it left me with little trust in all women but thank God I always kept a ray of hope around to keep living by. Don't let this reality ruin your life & make you a complete cynic is what a good friend advised me. I am happy I took that advise .

As one guy told me once we are all born to live but not all are born to be alive . Another guy told me life is not about living for every breath we take but about living for the few breathless moments that blow us all away. Who really knows but life is too short to dash all of ones dreams that I hope we all live for. Having fun & being happy are priceless situations so to each his own. The real value of this board is sharing information that may help each other & hopefully not to grind axes & blame others for the problems in this life we may encounter.

One thing for sure no matter what we say or do with other men is generally going to change what he does anyway. He will almost always do what he feels he has to do & pay the price he sets himself up for. I just hope everyone can live OK with whatever they do. At least some men here think enough of his fellow man to try to give what he feels is helpful advice instead of being YES men.

It is a hard thing to do to not want to believe that the good Chica fairy does not exist as she comes in our room to help us through another fun filled evening ! If all of the above quailifies me as a guy with lots of problems then so be it since I enjoy the hell out of all my problems !

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

I have finally read this post, start to end.

How about this: Before you choose to send money to a girl, you have to have five 1 hour conversations with your priest, rabbie, therapist, or best freind? Then, if you want to, knock yourself out.

If you decide you want to be in a relationship with a working girl/former working girl, you need to have ten conversations with above mentioned people?

If you decide you want to see your business to move to CR to be with a working girl/former working girl, twenty hours with said invested people?

If you want to buy a working girl girl anything more than the average price of a TLN, then also ten hours.....


Get my drift? Yes, we need to have enough fantasy and blindness to for a long enough period of time to have it be powerful, and sure, adult men can choose to do anyting they want with their lives. But you need to make your decisions based upon your own HONEST and REAL assesment of your own goals, dreams and values.

I think it is quoting day for me. To paraphase: There are two things a man must figure out in life. Where am I going? and Who is going with me? If you reverse the order, your Screwed....

Now go out there and have fun..

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Lou Reed

Psych,
Nice last quote. I know monday i'll be going to the dungeon, but since you won't be there, i guess i will have to go by myself. i feel you have trained me sufficently to set forth on my own!
Squid

Rub it in!!! Have a great time,and fill me on your trip!!

Take Erica and whoever eles you find cute, but Tamara or the cute blonde isgood. Erica is not the best looking there,but unmatched BBBJ,and great in oral threesomes.

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Lou Reed

I am not even sure if I should pipe up on this thread. The board has been that way since I joined a year ago. Granted that is why I joined to learn the reality of CR. I try not to comment on how I am stuck on one chica. But now I am perplexed. What should I call the girl that charges you for time but not me? Even she has commented the label “novia” makes her uneasy. I have always been a believer that you pay one way or another. And I hear your thoughts now. You must buy her stuff or she really is setting you up for the big kill or really must want to come to the US bad. Other than meals I can’t get her to buy anything. She won’t go to the mall, she does not ask for anything, she won’t take my money and seems to be in no hurry to come here despite offers of plane tickets and visa. I did actually leave some money in her apartment to find after I went back to the states. But it was less than what I know she gets for just a couple of hours in the DR. I know how much my phone bill is with calling cards a month so hers is got to be double since I know she does not use cards. In fact her last bill was over 300 she said. And no she did not take my offer on paying it for her.

So what should I call her? Or should I keep calling her novia and myself lucky? Or am I just stupid?

Azcentral,
You have proven the point that if a girl REALLY cares about you the money, other monetary things or a visa mean nothing to her. She sees you as someone she can love. You are no longer a walking ATM machine like the guys she goes to bed with for money.

This is how they differentiate between guys they use for economics and a guy they will give their love to. There is a big difference in their eyes between these two categories.

It might all fall apart someday but I would say she really does care for you.

Good luck,
Wit

Wit,
I owe alot of cudos to you and others here that have answered my PM's in the past. I remember yours a year ago said just keep asking the same questions over and over to see if the response stays the same. Sofar the answers have always been consistant. Thanks again to you and the other believers that think just maybe it could be more.

I will continue to keep my big head infront of the little one and see how it goes.

Azcentral:

Interesting parallel. A few weeks ago Berk was being chastised for having a couple of friends that are working girls that he did not sleep with just visited, took out , went shopping with and sit in their apartment and had long conversations with. Small financial aid but no sex. You on the other hand are afraid of being chastised for having a friend with benefits. Just another indication that San Jose can offer whatever you're looking for.

Travelingman is concerned that were highlighting the darker side of San Jose too much. CRT is just a great big huge neon sign on the Internet saying normally can't get laid thank you tool old are too ugly for younger girls. Come on down to San Jose where for the price of a couple of video games you can spend the night with a beautiful young girl. Feel obligated to inform that there may be harmful side effects.

Now to get back to this parallel between you and Berk. In his case he was being chastised for letting two working girls use him as a source of unearned income when in reality he had a couple of friends he was doing some nice things for. Literally just a matter of perspective. Who's to say if they're taking advantage of him are his buying friendship only the people in that relationship can truly answer that. You on the other hand are having a relationship with a lady who happens to be a working girl. Is she looking at you as a long-term investment or are you just someone she chose to be herself with. Only she knows and only time will tell. It could be your the villain having knowingly or unknowingly presented yourself to her as a potential way out the life she's living. Only you know the answer to that.

It was an old movie that I barely remember but as I recall the plot was about a call girl who was using a guy by leading him to believe he was her boyfriend. In reality she was telling her family he was her rich fiancé and was helping support her till they got married as a cover story for her actual income. Could be?

Lee

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Really don't care if I get chastised, I just try to keep positive about things and take critisism for what it is. Basicly opinions are like assholes and everybody has one.

I took the Darker side to mean negative. I have seen alot of bashing on members for expressing their opinions of caring.

True only time will tell.

Her family does not know about me. She thinks that would be hard for her to explain to them if I was to leave her.

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AZ,

It sounds like you have a great deal. I'd play right along until something negative happens. My only concern would be knowing that she is banging OTHER guys for dinero inbetween sex with you. That might kind of sour things for me. No... not in a jealous way... but I'd confused as to why the free sex??? Something is on her mind.

My personal motto that I have lived by for the brunt of 30 years is "If it seems too good to be true. It usually is." This has kep A LOT of things in perspective for me.

I'd also constantly monitor the situation, because only she knows the ultimate plan.

BTW... here's a better idea. Develop YOUR OWN plan. Use her for what she is and keep things in total perspective. She is a prostitute and you are getting free sex. Have a ball with her!!!! Literally. And, whatever you do... never let her know how much money you REALLY have.

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Maybe it is because I let my VIP membership lasp, but I haven't heard of many of these PDS (Poor Dumb Saps) who think they have found their true love at 60 dollars a shot. About a year ago I would log on here and read all the stories of guys in love with "the Del Re Debs". The relationshipship would always follow the same trajectory: As follows:

1) Guys, guess what happened to me on my 1, 2, 3 trip to Paradise??? We had the most amazing sex, I saw into her soul, blah, blah, blah.

2) Okay, she is differnet, she is only doing this because of her sick mother, father, father-in-law, baby, baby's second cousin etc, etc.

3) Okay, I love her; yes it may seem sudden, but I love her and gawl dang it, we are going to get married.

4) How could you ass-holes be so mean to me and my novia, you don't know her!!!!

5) Okay, so I sent money. Her sick mother, father, father-in-law, baby, baby's second cousin needs medicine.

6) Alright I admit it I have been sending (Pick a figure) to my novia so she wouldn't have to work and she could take care of her sick mother, father, father-in-law, baby, baby's second cousin.

7) Shock, awe, whatever, I just saw a picture of mi novia at the CRT Annual Gala Anniverary Party. I had no idea she was so flexible!!!!

Oh poor me, why didn't I see that trying to romance a women that turns numerous tricks a night might not be problematic.

Anyway, like I said before, I don't see too many posters telling the same ole tale anymore, so maybe they have gotten smarter.

Same ole story, the players just change. Of course, this is just my opinion.......