1. You wont find "normal" dating on Cupid, Seeking, Badoo, or Tinder. Just part-timers to shy or lazy to work the regular venues. On Cupid especially they are looking for RFM daddies.
2. You wont find "normal" dating unless you speak Spanish.
3. You wont find "normal" dating unless you visit 12+ times a year or live here.
4. If you speak Spanish AND live here, your "normal" date will be within 5 years of your age and 10% of your body weight. They will have Ch*ldren and a large extended family. Your resources will be viewed as "shared" and is the case in most Latin families.
YBNormal?
Visit often, learn as much Spanish as you can, develop non-mongering interests and you might develop contacts and friendships that rarely turn into discrete arrangements. Most likely, you will develop gringo friends and a separate contact list filled with p4p local chicas that would never see a tourist. I didn't make the rules, I just play by them.
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