Radigdog wrote:
barcelo tambor resort, what my chances of finding local female company would be there, or did I book at the wrong place?
It's a great resort for rest and relaxation (from what I heard), but definitely the wrong place to look for pay for play.
It's in the middle of nowhere. Not really, but for our purposes, it is. It's on the peninsula on the southwest part of Costa Rica. You need to drive a long ways from San Jose then take a ferry.

If you are going during the rainy season (April-Oct), God be with you.

Hope you have a 4x4.
If you can change your reservations, do so ASAP. This is not a place for your first(?) trip. Stay in San Jose. There are plenty of good hotels but you will not find them through Expedia or Travelocity.

Book Hotel Del Rey (aka grown man's disneyland), Sportsmen's Lodge, or Hotel Presidente.
www.delreyhotel.com
www.sportsmenscr.com
www.hotel-presidente.com