Redfield10 wrote:
1. Assuming Cocal is full, any other recommendations for nearby girl friendly hotels
Mango Mar is next door, but make sure they are allowing girls in that weekend. Poseidon is a couple of blocks north...inexpensive and a great resturant. Morgan's Cove is on the south end of the beach but a nice place. Hotel 9 is even farther south...smaller and great service. Cancions del Mar is on the north end near the Copacabana which are both girl friendly with Cancions being an all-suite hotel while Copa is a swinger place. On the far north end is Croc's Casino and Resort which is now girl friendly.
Redfield10 wrote:
2. If I arrive that Friday around 10-12 AM, is it best to go to Jaco right from the airport and what is the best way( I don't mind paying a reasonable amount.....no cheap bus etc.
<edited to reflect 10am> For sure, arriving that early you have a lot you can do in Jaco including a croc tour or even a zip line on the way into Jaco if your transport guy can do that for you. Lot of ways to get there that early as well including the regular bus, Interbus from one of the nearby hotels or private transport/taxi. Runs from $5-$100.
Redfield10 wrote:
3. I'm thinking Friday and Sat night in Jaco (seeing Cocal) and then the final three back at SL or Amistad.
In my opinion, I think that is your best plan. You get the best two nights in Jaco and skip the slower ones with the daytime action and DR at night back in San Jose on Sun-Tue. If you book three nights at Amistad, I think they are still offering the ride from Jaco for free but might check with them on that. Jim at Zona2 has a new van guy so he might be able to cut you a deal on the transport and three nights as well. You can always use the bus or even Interbus for that transfer to save $ over private transport.
Hope that helps and if I can be of more assistants, just let me know here or by PM! Good luck and hope you have a great trip.