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First off, I ask readers to suspend disbelief and give the lady in question here the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty and all that.

Secondly, I appreciate the security at the Sportsmen's Lodge and am happy they protect their guests.

Sadly, a bad choice by a chica, the SL policy and my desire to be with said chica are about tocollide.

The girl in question brought a newbie chica with her to do a 3 way. The newbie chica robbed the gringo. I don't know what was taken.

I do know that the girl with whom I want to spend time is known to me, has never robbed me and in fact does everything in her power to avoid problems with the SL, because she needs the work and enjoys access to the hotel and its guests. Or did. She has now been banned for life from the SL.

Now, to be fair to the SL, I haven't yet spoken with them about this. Frankly, I am unsure that any discussion would do any good; Manfred has gotten quite serious since being promoted to manager.

So, I'm seeking advice. Which of the following would you do, if you wanted to be with a certain lady but she's banned from your hotel?

1. Try to negotiate on her behalf with the management at the SL?

2. Book an alternate room for the activities but still stay at the SL?

3. Forget the bitch and move on.

4. Or... ?

Just putting this out there, so hobbyists more experienced and less charitable than I can comment.

Again, this is no reflection on the SL, which remains my first hotel of choice when I come to C.R. to play.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

I would either move onto another chica, or if I really wanted to be with her I would just go grab a room at hotel Asia or some other short term room location.

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Not banned yet...

As far as I'm concerned it's zero tolerance for thieves and I'm glad the SL has taken this stance. EC, with so many chicas to chose from I think you should move on to other chicas and forget about her. If she stole from one gringo she will steal from you if conditions are right.

Hank, I think you missed something in my original post.

The lady with whom I want to spend time is a friend and a known performer. I want to be with her. More importantly, I do not believe it was she who stole from the gringo. The way I understand it, the second girl in the threesome was a newbie, first time at the SL on my friend's recommendation. Sadly, since both girls were in the room when the gringo was robbed, the shit has slopped onto my friend. And again, I would trust this one with safe open. Her Mom (whom I have met) is blind, the girl really needs the work and wants to avoid trouble with the SL, etc. So the girl I want to be with isn't the thief.

I think what I will do if I want to be with her is to get a room nearby. Phuck the Asia...I haven't had that many immunizations, but a room at the Castillo or Amistad isn't out of the question.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

If I were in your shoes, I would not go to bat for this working chica... no matter how much chemistry you think you may have with her. Bill & staff have a difficult job keeping SL "safe" for its guests, so why make it any more difficult for them? I know from personal experience that Bill goes above and beyond when it comes to standing behind his guarantee of safety and security for his guests. So, I guess my choice would be #3...move on. If you can't live with this, then find another hotel where the young lady is not banned.

Blue Devil, thanks.

Again, and I must repeat this: My problem here is NOT (shouting intentional) with the SL or its policies. I myself have benefited in the past from Bill's concern for security and safety.

It's not about chemistry with the chica. There are plenty of girls with whom I have "chemistry," but very few in whom I trust. This one, I trust. I don't believe she stole from anyone; she has too much to lose, were she to steal from a guest. Also, she's well known at the SL and has worked from there for over 6 years. She didn't rob anybody, but she did choose her menage-a-trois companion-ette badly.

I guess some of this offends my sense of fair play. And speaking selfishly, I don't care if she gets admitted to the SL to work with anyone else. I just want her to work for me where I am staying, without having to incur extra expense.

Had I not known this girl as long as I have, had I not met her family, had I not spoken with her several times outside the SL, I might not believe her story. I do believe.

Your points are well-taken however. My relationship with the SL is as important, probably more important than any friendship with any chica. Still...

I think I will get an off-site room if I want to be with this girl. I will not bother discussing this with Bill or Manfred; they have neough on their respective plates as it is.

Thanks for the replies, all.

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Off site room. Sorry my friend...but....the old saying applies...."birds of a feather, flock together". You bring in a partner or newbie, you have to be responsible for the outcome... Just my two cents

I paid attention that day in reading comprehension and El Ciego and understand what you are saying. Classy move by asking in this situation and you not being a newbie I am sure you know how to evaluate a situation. I have been in similar situations before and even though I knew it might have risks, I protected myself. Seems like the solution is to get another spot and see how this one goes. Good luck with the situation and hope it works out for you.

After closing, tip the security and I am sure they won't find her on the banned list.

What a brilliant solution.

Take a person who is most likely scratching out a living and offer him money to subvert the rules established by his boss therefore putting his job on the line.

Sad to see the the "ugly American" is alive and well and still sees the solution to all his problems when dealing with people in a third world country is to throw some dollars around.

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Alex Levine

EC, I have read your posts over the years and deduce you to be a rational person who is capable of judging someone. Since you are sure the girl is not a thief and you like to be with her you will just have to give up staying at the SL and choose one of the surrounding chica friendly hotels for your stay.

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HAMLET

Rascal, tienes razon. You're right. If nothing else, the lady is guilty of bad judgement.

One interesting side-effect of this was the lack of a "post-tragedy RFM." In fact, I repeatedly offered her money to tie her over, but she politely refused, saying my words with Bill would go farther to help her than a cash infusion. I am frankly, shocked.

I.D. - No, and you know me if by reputation if nothing else. I understand that the suggestion was made with good intention, but I'd never cause any security person, room maid, bartender or desk clerk to "go easy on the rules" just so I could get what I want at that moment. I don't work that way; her renewed grace at the SL would have to be an open and honest thing. I stopped sneaking girls into my room when I was...er, well a few years younger. (And my wife didn't even wake up...haw haw).

SoftBob/Isra... Yep. I already thought about changing my reservations, except for a few things. The SL is much more convenient for me on a variety of fronts: restaurant/bar on premises where the chica members can meet me, I truly like and respect the staff there from room maids who have been there almost since the hotel opened, to Ballardo and the security guys, to the front office staff and Bill himself. I know the hotel and neighborhood very well and feel comfortable there.

While the SL won't miss a few days of my stay from their bottom line, it is sad to think that I'll probably have to live for at least a few nights outside the SL. Ah well, I've been looking for an excuse to try the Dunn Inn anyway, and I do enjoy staying at both La Amistad and the Castillo. Hell, the Hemingway is starting to shape up into a fine little hotel... so there are options.

Thanks everyone for the well-considered comments. I do appreciate all responses.

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

I never suggested or thought you would part of such a scheme.



We differ on that point.

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Only Irish coffee provides in a single glass all four
essential food groups:
alcohol, caffeine, sugar and fat.
Alex Levine

i suggest a brilliant disguise

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I am somewhat of a different mind set.

You seem like you really like her as a person, and she needs help. If she has a history of no problems in the "over six years" she has worked there, a conversation with Bill, when you get on the ground, would not be out of line. If possible have her meet with you, and Bill, so he can listen to her side of the events.

It may also help to post her name so others could also vouch for her (of course clear it with her first), if that is how they feel.

To me, taking with someone, and listening to the response, is never really out of line. After your input honor Bill's point of view.

You have the opportunity to help someone you believe in, IMO do not waste the opportunity, you could be a life changer for someone who you believe deserves it.

As one of our crew members told me, "Did it cost you money? Did it hurt you? Then what is the problem??"

Get out of your head and into your heart and you will find the answer that is right for you, phuck what I think.

health & happiness to all.............

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