www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Offer declined. But what would your daughters say if they knew you went to Monger with girls their own age and maybe even younger(over 18 of course)?

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Women are Property, treat them as such.

They would be devastated and that is why I do not tell them and "lie" to them. Now you are going to require your son to lie to his fiancee. Goes like this, "Hey Sweetie, how was your trip with your Dad?". What would you have your son say? Will he tell his friends of the trip or will you swear him to secrecy? Young men talk! It will get out?

My offer stands if you change your mind.

Have a Great Day,

Dave

That is the difference between you and I. I am honest with my son what kind of "services" they offer. Some of you think the idea is great and see the fun in it and some of you hate it. As far as his fiancee goes I told her the truth that he will behave. I told him he will get drunk, made fun of, etc. so there is no lying to her as well. Most of all it will be a fun trip.

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Women are Property, treat them as such.

Well then, good luck! Sometimes, people have to learn the hard way.

Have a Great Day,

Dave

I wish my dad wouldve done that for me...I come from a small town and married my high school sweetheart because ( i thought there was no other woman out there). So I married this girl whom I thought walked on water....fast forward 5 yrs....Im working 3 jobs trying to support her buyinng sprees....buying new cars cash, taking all her family to Disneyland and me being stuck working because Im soo in love with this beautiful chick...Im thinking "Wow she is great..." Im soo lucky to have her....Then one day she comes in the living room sits next to me and says...."You know I got married young and have never experience what my friends are doing now." "Would it hurt your feelings if I got a place of my own for a awhile" Im such a dumbass I say sure why not take the check book and get the deposit and buy furnishings take some time and get back with me in six months...after all you do say that you love me....
Well lo and behold 6 months later she slaps me with divorce papers....Im so devastated I can hardly function, I cant work, I cant sleep, Im driving around her place day and night, stalking the place, threatning to kill her and her new boyfriend.Constantly calling her to come back.....Then one a friend of mine says " hey what you need is a trip to Mexico....I get some hot chica and grudge Phuck the hell out of her....When we are driving back I thinking you know what , its time to move on....So the next weekend I do the same thing...this goes on for 6 months and then my EX starts calling wanting to know whats up....i say ,"Go Phuck yourself you phucking cunt".
I was 25 when all that happened and If I wouldve known there was a place like CR I wouldve gone there...If someone wouldve coached me Yeah, I probably wouldve let her go very early instead of me ending up in jail for PI, and losing all the jobs I had....I mean I hit rock bottom sleeping in friends closets, no money, I went from riches to nothing in the bank ....
So it may be morally wrong but for others it may feel right ...I wish I wouldve had the option but I didnt...I married this chick I thought I would die with....So if my dad were to be alive I wouldve said "thanks dad aleast I wouldve known I can pick up another chick" because when your that age youre insecure and you get feelings hurt easily....You ever wonder why these young guys lose it and go postal. its because there is no one helping with the healing process. I couldve been one of those guys if my friend hadnt taken me mongering...it opened doors for me...it made me aware that there are women out there that actually want me, maybe women that are wanting to take my money but aleast they helped me heal...There are women out there that actually fell for me, but I called the shots...
This may have no bearing on the topic at hand but if my dad wouldve said "hey come here son there are other women out, there dont sale yourself short " "Find out whats out there then do what you want" ... I wouldve listened... I listened to my friend and it been good ever since...Imay have a void in my life but I m extremely happy....This weekend Im going to Mexico to visit my favorita.....

I have to agree with hardwoodjoe. I also got married young, thinking that it was the only woman I would ever find. The ring went on and the legs clinched shut, we had sex a whole 5 times in the 3 years we were married. I was miserable, she was also. She took every bit of savings I had and blew it on useless junk in the last year of our marriage as she knew she was done with me before I knew she was done with me. Spent several months going to marriage counseling only to realize things were worse than they seemed yet I still tried to hang out because quite honestly I did not know any different. Booked a flight to CR to go surfing and try and clear my mind, found out about the mongering side of CR and detoured to San Jose for 2 days of my first trip and dove right into bed with Valentina and Leena from HLH. Had been over a year since I had phucked my wife. Found out while I was down on my trip my wife had her boss over at the house phucking her brains out. But instead of freaking out I was cool with it. (would still repeatedly punch that Phuck in the face for doing it in my bed). She thought she was slick and I knew nothing and would still chase her and play her games of "I want try and make things work". Instead when she asked how my trip was my response was "My trip was fantastic, you have a week to pack your shit and get out". It was learning about the monger scene that helped me to realize how dumb it was to chase after one woman, especially when she could care less about you. I could of only wished someone would of showed me that there are places like Costa Rica in this world before I had got married. It would of saved me years of stress and heartache and countless thousands of dollars.

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Not banned yet...

well...this thread got deep pretty quickly...anyway somebody asked about it so...my pops and I have been to CR (and other venues) many times and shared the same chicas...on different nights of course!

kr

Last 30 years or so, it seems like parenthood has evolved for both moms and dads and their K*ds in the USA, don't know about other countries. Maybe before then, but that's when I think it kind of changed.

There are the parents that still maintain the traditional relationships that the older guys here will remember as the way they were raised; and then there is the newer wave of parents, the "cool mom" or "cool dad", that are less "don't cross the line" and more friendship oriented, buddy-buddy, we're partners, pals, maybe even equals to some extent.

No opinion as to which is better, nobody else's biz how you raise your K*ds, and so I am not taking sides with Malepig or Dave for that reason

But I would venture to say that the traditionalists would never get into this siutation if he was 22 or 35.

Maybe I am too parochial, but just my two cents into this sensitive thread.

i consider myself pretty liberal when it comes to how i raised my K*ds. didn't raise them w religion. tell them the truth about drugs and life issues. but i don't think i could do this.
maybe thats why some of us got baby girls. or was that payback?

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im way deep into nothing special
riding the crest of a wave breaking just west of hollywood

Damn. HardwoodJoe and Seawub are bringing some realness to the forefront! I can relate to both tales. That said, there are some advantages to mongering. For one thing, it equalizes the "game." Most men are married and are encouraged to do so because "it's the right thing to do' or 'we're not getting any younger, so..." When long term relation-shits or marriages break up the guys are usually despondent and a total wreck. They haven't had pu*sy in ages, their self-esteem is in the toilet and they have little to no money after legal fees(hers and yours), alimony, Ch*ld support, and a host of other life altering setbacks. I think the best medicine is to monger. That way a man avoids the commitments and expectations that got him in trouble in the first place. No shrinks, no Oprah, no Dr. Phil books or videos can help you like one hour of rolling in the hay with a gorgeous lady that suits your taste in the gulch or elsewhere.

Not long after, you realize the scam, the hoax that passes for relation-shits with women today. You soon come to the sensible realization: They have options, while you as a man have terminal responsibilities. Not for me, not anymore. You see, mongering is ultimately about freedom. The freedom to go anywhere in the world and enjoy the pleasure(s) that women provide. I pay for it but I'll gladly continue knowing that every man I know does too! The difference is that what I pay is sooo much cheaper and the price is indicated up front.

I think the guys who appreciate this game the most are the dudes who have been through the agony and the pain of it all. They know the score, the price and most importantly, they know that "love" is a figment of determined imagination.

Malepig: your son ain't ready for this game. He's young and naive. Allow him to be so. Why corrupt his nuptials/mind with "this thing" of ours? If he believes love lasts a lifetime , let him believe that without the mongered influence of his jaded old man.

That's my .02 for what it's worth.

Otherwise, do your thing. I ain't mad.

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Yo, I'm off on a Jett/relaxed to the monger set/
Got the chica pro-flo headed out the doe/
Got cien dollar bills-n-bags for my Del Rey shags/
Scoping out Tica heels wit the flaca feels/
No novia para me cause its extra fee, not "free"/
Gonna get a Pura Vida meeta not a gringa skeeza/
Dis is how it goes wit hoes in Santa Joe's/
No need for the true player/just a true payer
Ya dig?

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If you let the devil ride, he's gonna want to drive

How do you know this is not the goal? 22 is way to young to be engaged. 42 is way to young to be engaged, imho. Any decent father would take his son mongering, engaged or otherwise. This would achieve some perspective. Make him realize that the golden vagina his son sees will be an empty black hole soon enough. On a singular mission to take away every dime his son could earn and every shred of dignity his son could have. If only my father had done the same before I got married, how much better my life would be.

Golden vaginas and empty black holes this thread is the best

MaleP,

I also see no issue here.. Yes your the role model but your son is now 22, You taking him to CR to me is no different from throwing him a batchlor party, its all done for fun. I hope you and your son are still there for my superBowl party at HLH.

Hotel little Havana and Nick Mirror’s

Present

A Pre-SuperBowl Bash



When: February 1st, 2013

Where: Hotel little Havana

Time: 6:00pm – 10:00pm

For The ladies:

$100.00 Prize – best cheerleader outfit.

$100.00 Prize – Best bra and panties combination.

For the fella’s:

One hour free room rental with 2 guest of your choosing - Superbowl Trivia

One hour free room rental with a guest of your choice – SuperBowl Trivia

Really? A mongering trip can actually save young men from making decisions they regret? Young people make bad decisions because they are young. Not because they didn't monger.

Last time I had an intelligent conversation with a 22 year old was when I was 22.