Kccostarica wrote:
You have to keep Hotel Castillio within the perspective of a $60 a night hotel.
You can just about stay in the suite at Castillo for $60 a night with CRT card. The standard rooms are around $40. I have always felt like Castillo is an excellent value for the money.
Zebra wrote:
I suppose the last sentence in Pacifica55's post above pretty much says it all.
It always surprises me how mongering men get caught up in that of situation of falling for a girl they have to "protect". Now I don't know what the situation is between this bartender and her guy so I'm really not talking about that. Although regarding that situation, how in the hell am I supposed to get respect from a girl if I'm always sitting at the end of the bar while she's working... I wonder if she'll get just a little tired of me and wish I had a little something more going on with my life. Hell, that might make her find other guys more interesting... But I digress.
What I am curious about is something I see guys do but cannot tell if it is a biological or learned compulsion. Is it even just some kind of insecure thing born of our own lack of success at home? I do not know. Let me ask a couple questions. Why in an environment where we have loads of girls available to us at literally our beckon call would we want to settle for just one girl, (especially a hooker)? Why would we become "protective" of our relationship with a girl that required no effort on our part to develop a relationship other than exchanging money for service? Why did most of us start mongering in the first place, to find love? I know we are all susceptible to our feelings; and I have always thought we take with us into this hobby whatever pathologies we suffer from at home. To that end I believe an insecure guy from the US will more than likely get caught up in the "does she like me" or "she's my hooker girlfriend" or the need to live in the illusion that "we have something special between us". It's an approval thing that's probably pretty normal but if we aren't over it by the time we have hookers galore available it can become a slippery slope. I have seen guys accuse other guys of making a move on their "novia" and it seems really desperate and insecure, especially if it was just in the jealous guy's imagination. So why would we ever want to fall into that trap of trying to be protective over hookers of all creatures? I guess it's hard enough to have a complete grasp of reality in a normal relationship when feelings are involved then when you throw all the dynamics of being around hookers.....