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PostPosted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 8:43 pm 
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What did it say?


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Greengo, what were you drinking when you wrote that? Hundred year old Absinthe laced with double wormwood? Whatever it is, I want some.

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basically, it said you're phucked in
CR if some little darling wants your house.

the topic's author advises fleeing north to Nicaland.

can't say i'd disagree

http://www.amcostarica.com/morenews2.htm

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At first I thought that if this happened to me (assuming I was living in CR) and I was renting, I would just leave and let the bitch find a way to pay the rent and utilities herself. I would, however, probably be out any personal possessions that were in the apartment.

Until I read this part of the article
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...The men are then legally responsible for providing the upkeep for the woman, her dependents and the house until the case is resolved....


WTF?!! NO phucking WAY would I let some chica live with me then, considering how long it takes the CR legal system to resolve anything.

Guys always say "rent, don't buy" when it comes to chicas. I guess that now one shouldn't even lease :shock: .


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 02, 2008 6:18 pm 
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By Elise Sonray
of the A.M. Costa Rica staff

After a year of harsher laws against perpetrators of domestic violence, an analysis group announced mixed results at the supreme court Monday afternoon. Principal coordinators of the commission said the law still needs a lot of analysis and
Ms. Gomez
Maria Elena Gómez
revisions and that there continues to be a great number of domestic violence cases.

A problem reported by the expat community with this law, is that a woman living in a man's house can kick him out if she alleges physical abuse. The coordinator of the law study, Maria Elena Gómez Cortés, who analyzed the law for a year, said Monday that she had no knowledge of women falsely accusing men in violent incidents.

Although police legally forcing a man away from his house was already practiced in Costa Rica,
cases have greatly increased since the law was put into place,
A.M. Costa Rica has reported. The newspaper has also said that some women use the law for extortion.

“I have no knowledge of these kinds of cases,” said Ms. Gómez, when asked about women falsely accusing men of abuse. Ms. Gómez said that if there was any sort of doubt in a case, a team of social workers and psychologists would investigate the accusations. Ms. Gómez added that the law was still being revised and that more analysis would have to be done.

A woman can only accuse a man of domestic violence if they are currently married or live together, said Ms. Gómez. If a couple is divorced, the law no longer protects the woman, she added.

Expats say that the problem is the long delay between being kicked out of the house and a court case to present the facts of the situation. The law only covers women, and many Costa Ricans, including police officers, have been kicked out of their homes just on the word of their female companion.

The men are then legally responsible for providing the upkeep for the woman, her dependents and the house until the case is resolved.

The legislature approved the Ley de Penalización de la Violencia Contra las Mujeres in April 2007. Approval came after a series of high-profile cases in which women were killed by their companions.

After the passing of the law, the Poder Judicial hired 77 new professionals and 80 support employees including public defenders, investigators, social workers and psychologists, among others, to carry out the new law, said a court spokeswoman. Officials approved a 2.9 billion colon ( about 5.7 million) budget for 2008.

In July, Poder Judicial and the Universidad de Costa Rica will give 10 training courses aimed at 310 judges, public defenders and prosecutors, said Jeannette Arias Meza, who works in the gender unit.

Ms. Gómez said one of the biggest obstacles in the way of the law are the emotional and physical companionship needed by a woman who has been physically or emotionally abused. She said it was helpful if female lawyers accompanied women to court.

Other obstacles in the law, said Ms. Gómez, are the investigation protocols in domestic violence cases. “A domestic violence case is not the same as any other case,” she said, “there are many facets to these cases.”

“Without a doubt the law will help victims of violence,” said Ms. Arias. The session was held at the Corte Suprema de la Justicia.


Seems to me A.M. Costa Rica reports that the number of cases have increased, but given these things are public knowledge, A.M. Costa Rica has not provided any concrete numbers. Seems possible such a thing can happen, but seems too that A.M. Costa Rica is sensationalizing.

Yes, the risk is there, but I'm not sure it is a huge risk. It is certainly scary. I guess it depends on the relationship. If she is nutz, best to invite a bunch of friends over, send her to the store, while she is away put all her things outside and when she returns tell her it is over (friends to witness no violence). Sometimes we just have to take care of ourselves the best way possible.... depending on the situation.


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Most of Nicaragua is hot, Economy sucks, Politics interesting.

I agree with visiting, renting, and enjoying.

Great history that reflects Central America as though Nicaragua was next years American Idol winner.


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Greengo wrote:
If page three of todays AM Costa Rica ,...July 1 page three.....doesnt give you the fleeing this goatshed with your flametop 58 duct taped to your back ..skirting Airrecu to freedom and a cold Victoria.... on the back of a Nica border cycle ....moment ...... then you have the good fortune and sense to be a renter "and' a "bang" disciple. :) Like most of the frivolous and wacky lunatic "laws" and programs that target income and property in pairofdice "we" my gringo friends have the "only big" bulls eyes legislated on our fat asses :lol: Rest easy "rescuers," your good deeds wont go unpunished in pairofdice. Where do i sign? yuk yuk :lol: :lol:


I prefer Nica Libras. Victoria is good. Avoid Tona as it is drug laced at most bars. So you ask yourself, (Talking Heads), whats a Nica Libra?

Answer is.... Aged sipping rum without ice. Ice is not available. Rum is better without ice.

It is aged sipping Rum...

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Mr. Florida,

Would you confirm the official days range near the end of October to celebrate in Costa Rica? I will book my flight & make plans accordingly.

I believe the hotels, bars, and clubs in CR are waiting for your decree this year to schedule happy hours, special parties, BBQ's, Fishing Trips, Chica Staffing, Scheduling beer, wine, and spirits delivery, Menu planning, etc.

Thank you kind Sir,

Elroy

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I can do CR without a wingman!

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Greengo wrote:
Its here, its real, very organized, alive and kicking like a georgia mule in Heredia gringo enclaves like Real Santa Maria (old and new). The ways to strip you of assets, sanity, health etc here in pairofdice would make a palm beach divorce lawyer blush in admiration. :roll:


Greengo,

Your posts illuminate the darker side of my humor. Clearly, you've either been in the land of milk and honies too long and have developed ho-in-month disease or you're simply a talented writer, author and statesman.

8) :lol:

Dis ease is much more fun.


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PostPosted: Fri May 22, 2009 10:48 am 
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wether it is one out of 300k woman would extort you for profit or spite
it does happen, not that you have to be afraid of every woman you meet

but if they are poor, with no job, and maybe even use drugs there are concerns ....even in states where maybe where one out of 500k would use manipulation.

but i guess if this has never happened or come to your home you wouldn't be as concerned, and hopefully it never would for you in that group.

just don't let them be a roommate for starters


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So, is there any way to protect yourself? Other than the obvious - don't marry or live with!!!

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OldQDog wrote:
So, is there any way to protect yourself? Other than the obvious - don't marry or live with!!!

OldQueDog

There is a fellow who gives advice on a living in CR website. His philosophy is: "Don't do anything in CR that can't undone in 5 phone calls or less." I guess that this would mean: Don't marry a Tica, don't buy property and don't collect more crap than can be moved in one taxi ride.

If she lives with you, call and cancel the utilities, call your landlord to tell tham that you are moving, wait until she goes to work or send her to the store and call a taxi to take you away!

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Greengo,

Nice post! Just a little concerned about the crowd you attract, Elroy, Zee, and the Count :P :) :wink:

As I am in the process of moving my Paisa and her extended family into the new casa in Pablado.........any advice :?: :roll:


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HolaB wrote:

I am in the process of moving my Paisa and her extended family into the new casa in Pablado.........


Wow! A was that GOOD, ehh??? :P She is a beauty I'll give you that! :lol:

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Hey Brother HolaB--Be sure to mention in Greengo's "crowd" * (can 3 be a crowd?), JazzboCR--Greengo's after all our resident poet/philosopher/sine qua non.
* Interesting word, "crowd" ---with a bunch of disparate meanings and synonyms.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/crowd
"Greengo's the (non)violent/ All covered with 'do'"

PS--The Robert Johnson song is "Hellhound on my Trail", though with his slurred pronunciation, who can be sure? Anyway, see you at the crossroad.

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