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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2021 1:40 pm 
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You lost me at “I don’t send her much money”. Wake up and smell the enchiladas. She’s a puta and you’re still mongering. Sounds like nothing could possibly go wrong.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2021 3:56 pm 
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I've had a novia for nearly a year now, spent a couple weeks together in June. We met last October. I'm going back in a few weeks. We video chat daily. I don't send too much money, $100-$200 most months. She never asks for money - it's always initiated by me because I know it will help her. We don't talk much about money often because she is embarrassed by it.

When we met, she was a part time puta. I do not care about this, really. She has a legit job that takes up the bulk of her time but like a lot of chicas it won't cover her expenses all the time.

As we got closer, she told me she stopped working as a puta. This was nice to hear, but again no big deal since it never bothered me even when she was a working girl. I was happy for her though, as she doesn't like working as a puta.

Thing is...I discovered this was a lie. First in my June trip I checked her WhatsApp when she was away and saw that she replied "Where are you" to a new text inquiry. I decided not to bring it up.

Very recently, I found her ad on an escort site - with pictures I took from our June trip :shock:

And I sent her an email from a different email address asking if she was available. She is.

Here's the thing.

We've had this ongoing problem with me seeing other women (either my plans to visit Tijuana alone, or spend time in San Jose alone). I don't like lying or going behind people's backs so I told her outright, Necesito divertido con otra chicas. Soy un hombre! (I need to have fun with other girls. I am a guy!").

She'll end the discussion and give me the cold shoulder for awhile, telling me to do what I want. Things will slowly warm up again and it will be like she's OK with it.

And then she'll make passive aggressive comments again and we'll argue once more. It never gets resolved since she eventually doesn't want to talk about it anymore.

What I don't get is...SHE IS A PUTA. Why is this a big deal to her?

And it's doubly confusing seeing that she is working as a puta behind my back but has a problem with me seeing other girls for 2-3 days out of a 2 week trip spent mostly with her.

I'm pretty close to cutting ties with her as I can't stand the constant passive aggressive comments.

My assumption was that a novia who works as a puta is not going to really care if you see other putas from time to time.

Do I just have a bad apple, or is my assumption wrong?



Well, I'm not sure but the fact that she posted pics that you took of her on an escort site may be a clue.
Perhaps you should add them to your post and we could review them to give you better advice? :D


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2021 9:42 pm 
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Is the OP related to Rolltide???

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2021 1:07 pm 
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First of all, she’s your puta, not your novia. Sounds like true love……..my best advice is to just keep sending her money.


And often sending money to a hovia can be difficult, I'm willing to offer one of my bank accounts guys can wire transfer their allowances to me and the hovia can come to my place to pick it up, just because I'm a caring kind of guy... :lol:

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2021 1:23 pm 
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WakingUp wrote:
Boynton wrote:
There are two ways for this to end:
Actually my plan is to live in Escazu 3-4 days a week where I'll work remotely and then take a long weekend in Jaco with her. I'll pay for a place she can live in for free. She just laughs when I tell her this. "In your dreams!"

Is it? I think she'll cave when I'm able to do it.

It's what I want. A novia / hovia / sugarbaby I have a relationship with a few days a week, and by-the-hour putas for random fun on the other days. I'm hoping it's possible.

That's really the gist of my post, and why I posted this.



My advice with hoz, or hovias, NEVER give them money for nuttin...that's when they realize you're a chump and will eventually find a way to royally fleece you.

I have two "hovias" I've known for years, we have great relationships, they Uber right to my door and to my amazement, on time.

They both deliver GFE, Honeymoon experience, novia experience, I pay them well, poon them, we chat, I almost always make a dinner, sometimes a bottle of wine and other "party favors", when we're all done with that, I pay them well, they exit, out of sight, out of mind, that's what I like, and I have a dozen friends here doing the same.

There's no controversial discussions of what I may or may not do when they're not around or if I'm seeing other hoz, they're happy to get consistent paychecks (and referrals), I'm happy to have poon sessions with proven performers I have friendships with (or think I do...)

You WILL NOT have a novia emerge from a ho or hovia, but you can get regulars who will, for the time they are with you, create the mirage that they are, and be happy with pay for play handed to them upon completion of said services, (you DO NOT have to give them free money, you DO NOT have to pay their rent) and you can go out pooning 3 new hoz a day when they're not around and trust me, as long as they're getting their loot, they won't care... :mrgreen:

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2021 3:03 pm 
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LocoGringo wrote:
Want to tell you about the girl I love
My she looks so fine
She's the only one that I been dreamin' of
Maybe someday she will be all mine
I want to tell her that I love her so
I thrill with her every touch
I need to tell her she's the only one I really love
I got a woman, want to ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true



Better song that fits to story line

She'll only come out at night -- The lean and hungry type
Nothing is new, I've seen her here before -- Watching and waiting
Ooh, she's sitting with you but her eyes are on the door
So many have paid to see -- What you think you're getting for free
The woman is wild, a she-cat tamed by the purr of a Jaguar
Money's the matter -- If you're in it for love -- You ain't gonna get too far (Oh here she comes) Watch out boy she'll chew you up

(Oh here she comes) -- She's a maneater -- (Oh here she comes) -- Watch out boy she'll chew you up -- (Oh here she comes)
She's a maneater -- I wouldn't if I were you
I know what she can do -- She's deadly man, she could really rip your world apart
Mind over matter --- Ooh, the beauty is there but a beast is in the heart
Watch out boy she'll chew you up
(Oh here she comes) -- She's a maneater -- (Oh here she comes)

Oh she's a maneater ~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRYFKcMa_Ek


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2021 3:43 pm 
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pedro wrote:
LocoGringo wrote:
Want to tell you about the girl I love
My she looks so fine
She's the only one that I been dreamin' of
Maybe someday she will be all mine
I want to tell her that I love her so
I thrill with her every touch
I need to tell her she's the only one I really love
I got a woman, want to ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true



Better song that fits to story line

She'll only come out at night -- The lean and hungry type
Nothing is new, I've seen her here before -- Watching and waiting
Ooh, she's sitting with you but her eyes are on the door
So many have paid to see -- What you think you're getting for free
The woman is wild, a she-cat tamed by the purr of a Jaguar
Money's the matter -- If you're in it for love -- You ain't gonna get too far (Oh here she comes) Watch out boy she'll chew you up

(Oh here she comes) -- She's a maneater -- (Oh here she comes) -- Watch out boy she'll chew you up -- (Oh here she comes)
She's a maneater -- I wouldn't if I were you
I know what she can do -- She's deadly man, she could really rip your world apart
Mind over matter --- Ooh, the beauty is there but a beast is in the heart
Watch out boy she'll chew you up
(Oh here she comes) -- She's a maneater -- (Oh here she comes)

Oh she's a maneater ~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRYFKcMa_Ek


Also....I was walking down the street
When out the corner of my eye
I saw a pretty little thing approaching me
She said, I've never seen a man
Who looks so all alone
Uh, could you use a little company?
If you pay the right price
Your evening will be nice
And you can go and send me on my way
I said, "You're such a sweet young thing
Why'd you do this to yourself?"
She looked at me and this is what she said
"Oh, there ain't no rest for the wicked
Money don't grow on trees
I got bills to pay
I got mouths to feed
There ain't nothing in this world for free
I know I can't slow down
I can't hold back
Though you know
I wish I could
Oh, no there ain't no rest for the wicked
Until we close our eyes for good"

https://youtu.be/HKtsdZs9LJo

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2021 5:04 pm 
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Before everybody started posting I was going to say: "Oh no here we go AGAIN...". :shock:


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 2:46 pm 
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Boynton wrote:
….I give her $350 a week and her TLN is 24 hours. It is a one-day fantasy date. She is top-shelf, model quality, 26yr old, bi-lingual, no-tats/K*ds/cigs/drugs…
Whatever you do, don’t tell Whitecat. He’ll have a heart attack, stroke, seizure, and a kiniption all at the same time. And of course after he recovers he’ll tell you that he gets her for $20 for 72 hours. And then after the 72 hours she cleans his house, does his laundry, goes shopping and makes all his meals for the week before she leaves. :)

In all seriousness, you sound like someone that not only understands what the word “value” means but that when it comes right down to it that it is the most important thing. On the surface it sounds like a lot of money but that’s all relative as long as you can afford it. $350 is real money to her, and from your description above well worth the experience she provides for you. Seems like a win, win. Good for you.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 2:59 pm 
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WakingUp wrote:
What I don't get is...SHE IS A PUTA. Why is this a big deal to her?

And it's doubly confusing seeing that she is working as a puta behind my back but has a problem with me seeing other girls for 2-3 days out of a 2 week trip spent mostly with her.

I'm pretty close to cutting ties with her as I can't stand the constant passive aggressive comments.

My assumption was that a hovia who works as a puta is not going to really care if you see other putas from time to time.

Do I just have a bad apple, or is my assumption wrong?


With the exception of Zeos, did no one bother to read past "novia" and answer the actual question the OP asked?

mh

P.S. As Zeos said, your assumption is incorrect. Your hovia gets upset because any money you spend on other women is money she ain't getting, and in her mind she's thinking why should you pay other putas when you can pay her?

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 4:27 pm 
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Lots of good and interesting info there Boynton. Thank You.


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 4:36 pm 
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Skosh wrote:
Boynton wrote:
….I give her $350 a week and her TLN is 24 hours. It is a one-day fantasy date. She is top-shelf, model quality, 26yr old, bi-lingual, no-tats/K*ds/cigs/drugs…
Whatever you do, don’t tell Whitecat. He’ll have a heart attack, stroke, seizure, and a kiniption all at the same time. And of course after he recovers he’ll tell you that he gets her for $20 for 72 hours. And then after the 72 hours she cleans his house, does his laundry, goes shopping and makes all his meals for the week before she leaves. :)

In all seriousness, you sound like someone that not only understands what the word “value” means but that when it comes right down to it that it is the most important thing. On the surface it sounds like a lot of money but that’s all relative as long as you can afford it. $350 is real money to her, and from your description above well worth the experience she provides for you. Seems like a win, win. Good for you.


Caught! No, the last TLN I had I paid 35k. She at least cleaned the windows in my balcony.

When you speak Spanish, the price goes down……try it.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 5:05 pm 
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Skosh wrote:
Whatever you do, don’t tell Whitecat. He’ll have a heart attack, stroke, seizure, and a kiniption all at the same time. And of course after he recovers he’ll tell you that he gets her for $20 for 72 hours. And then after the 72 hours she cleans his house, does his laundry, goes shopping and makes all his meals for the week before she leaves. :)

I applaud Whitecat in that he sets the service he wants and the price he is willing to pay. But if I am not willing to let a chica define this for me, why should he? Each monger should play their own game, but far to many let the chicas call the shots.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 6:16 pm 
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My two cents

Ths is actually pretty easy to fix. But you need to modify your behavior a little. You tried to explain to her that you need to have fun with other chicas. You say you don’t want to do this behind her back. She doesn’t need to be told this she knows this already. But by spelling it out for her it kills the fantasy of real relationship game they play and she loses face. Lie (like she does) and tell her she is the only one and the passive aggressive comments will fade away. Saving face is more important than knowing the truth in this culture. And enjoy.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2021 7:45 pm 
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Tell her you work during the week picking coffee on a farm in the central valley so that you can afford to spend weekends with her in Jaco. Invite her to come wok alongside you. She will never question your mid-week activities again

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