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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2021 3:03 pm 
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I've had a novia for nearly a year now, spent a couple weeks together in June. We met last October. I'm going back in a few weeks. We video chat daily. I don't send too much money, $100-$200 most months. She never asks for money - it's always initiated by me because I know it will help her. We don't talk much about money often because she is embarrassed by it.

When we met, she was a part time puta. I do not care about this, really. She has a legit job that takes up the bulk of her time but like a lot of chicas it won't cover her expenses all the time.

As we got closer, she told me she stopped working as a puta. This was nice to hear, but again no big deal since it never bothered me even when she was a working girl. I was happy for her though, as she doesn't like working as a puta.

Thing is...I discovered this was a lie. First in my June trip I checked her WhatsApp when she was away and saw that she replied "Where are you" to a new text inquiry. I decided not to bring it up.

Very recently, I found her ad on an escort site - with pictures I took from our June trip :shock:

And I sent her an email from a different email address asking if she was available. She is.

Here's the thing.

We've had this ongoing problem with me seeing other women (either my plans to visit Tijuana alone, or spend time in San Jose alone). I don't like lying or going behind people's backs so I told her outright, Necesito divertido con otra chicas. Soy un hombre! (I need to have fun with other girls. I am a guy!").

She'll end the discussion and give me the cold shoulder for awhile, telling me to do what I want. Things will slowly warm up again and it will be like she's OK with it.

And then she'll make passive aggressive comments again and we'll argue once more. It never gets resolved since she eventually doesn't want to talk about it anymore.

What I don't get is...SHE IS A PUTA. Why is this a big deal to her?

And it's doubly confusing seeing that she is working as a puta behind my back but has a problem with me seeing other girls for 2-3 days out of a 2 week trip spent mostly with her.

I'm pretty close to cutting ties with her as I can't stand the constant passive aggressive comments.

My assumption was that a novia who works as a puta is not going to really care if you see other putas from time to time.

Do I just have a bad apple, or is my assumption wrong?


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2021 3:34 pm 
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I've had a novia for nearly a year now, spent a couple weeks together in June. We met last October. I'm going back in a few weeks. We video chat daily. I don't send too much money, $100-$200 most months. She never asks for money - it's always initiated by me because I know it will help her. We don't talk much about money often because she is embarrassed by it.

When we met, she was a part time puta. I do not care about this, really. She has a legit job that takes up the bulk of her time but like a lot of chicas it won't cover her expenses all the time.

As we got closer, she told me she stopped working as a puta. This was nice to hear, but again no big deal since it never bothered me even when she was a working girl. I was happy for her though, as she doesn't like working as a puta.

Thing is...I discovered this was a lie. First in my June trip I checked her WhatsApp when she was away and saw that she replied "Where are you" to a new text inquiry. I decided not to bring it up.

Very recently, I found her ad on an escort site - with pictures I took from our June trip :shock:

And I sent her an email from a different email address asking if she was available. She is.

Here's the thing.

We've had this ongoing problem with me seeing other women (either my plans to visit Tijuana alone, or spend time in San Jose alone). I don't like lying or going behind people's backs so I told her outright, Necesito divertido con otra chicas. Soy un hombre! (I need to have fun with other girls. I am a guy!").

She'll end the discussion and give me the cold shoulder for awhile, telling me to do what I want. Things will slowly warm up again and it will be like she's OK with it.

And then she'll make passive aggressive comments again and we'll argue once more. It never gets resolved since she eventually doesn't want to talk about it anymore.

What I don't get is...SHE IS A PUTA. Why is this a big deal to her?

And it's doubly confusing seeing that she is working as a puta behind my back but has a problem with me seeing other girls for 2-3 days out of a 2 week trip spent mostly with her.

I'm pretty close to cutting ties with her as I can't stand the constant passive aggressive comments.

My assumption was that a novia who works as a puta is not going to really care if you see other putas from time to time.

Do I just have a bad apple, or is my assumption wrong?


Quite the combination of things...

One thing...she, and other working girls, often see their puta job as just that...a job. So in her mind...perhaps...it is just another part time job. So she does it for the money. So you seeing other women is a more personal choice you are making...in her mind that might put it in a category of being unfaithful, or at the very least of spending money on other women that ultimately she might get.

The odd thing is that you are not being asked for money, or sending much. If you were to want her to stop this puta job you might have to kick in a lot more money...say 10 times as much. But it doesn't sound like you are all that concerned about that.

You call her a novia...do you think she really sees you as a novio...or just someone that can provide future income for her puta business.

Anyway...seems to be a bit of a unique situation. Not in the part of monger falling in love or something like that and having a "novia". But in the part of what she is looking for from you.


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My advice is enjoy the ride and don't try to analyze it. These chicas are great but don't try to understand her


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Please refer to your handle, that is what you need to do.

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There a lot of threads on here like this…and the saying is…How do you know when your chica is lying? When her lips are moving. It’s just what they do. Better she showed her true colors now then leading you on….the road in Costa Rica is littered with gringos who have gotten clipped by chicas for big money, paternity suits and just about every other bad thing you can think of. Go out and screw every girl you can, enjoy the game…that’s all it is.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2021 10:44 pm 
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Hank wrote:
My advice is enjoy the ride and don't try to analyze it. These chicas are great but don't try to understand her


I'm trying to tell people this in the phrase under my name here, good advice, by the way, but to a lot of the lovelorn, you may as well be yelling at your goldfish to not sh*t in the bottom of the bowl, I usually now let them find out on their own, often after a nice tidy sum is removed from them... :mrgreen:

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Your first mistake is in calling her and thinking she is your "novia".

Novia is a Spanish word meaning girlfriend and assuming no money exchanges hands and it's not pay for play.

I have coined a phrase, "Hovia", meaning a ho we see repeatedly, we've gotten to know well, she has gotten to know you well, and you think you have a relationship, a romance or even just a friendship, (I can't boast I've never been a victim of the third) and she's an excellent actress and convinces you she's one of the three but could care less about you and regards you as a chump.

You have a hovia, or more accurately, she has you...

In time, hopefully, you will discover this to be the case.

Now in regards to her complaining about you seeing other women, real novias, hovias, hos, whatever...

Again, she could care less, it's likely that she sees other girls as a threat to her cash cow walking ATM with a d*ck and grabby paws, and she plays her little protest game to either be cute and make you think she cares or she really is upset at the thought of losing her steady revenue stream and just can't contain herself.

Now regarding sending money...Don't SEND them money, HAND them the money, but ONLY 5 minutes after blasting a big wad o' spooey down her throat and all over her face and wiping the last driblets off your slinky in her hair...

Last piece of advice, if you want a novia, join a dating service, don't try to make a ho or hovia a novia.

Practice my proven 6 F's methods here, and you'll get your money's worth and stay out of trouble and not get so easily confused...

Find 'em...Fondle 'em...Finger 'em...Fellatio 'em, F*ck 'em...and Forget 'em...

That's all I got... :roll:

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2021 11:42 pm 
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Your first mistake is in calling her and thinking she is your "novia".

Novia is a Spanish word meaning girlfriend and assuming no money exchanges hands and it's not pay for play.

I have coined a phrase, "Hovia", meaning a ho we see repeatedly, we've gotten to know well, she has gotten to know you well, and you think you have a relationship, a romance or even just a friendship, (I can't boast I've never been a victim of the third) and she's an excellent actress and convinces you she's one of the three but could care less about you and regards you as a chump.

You have a hovia, or more accurately, she has you...

In time, hopefully, you will discover this to be the case.

Now in regards to her complaining about you seeing other women, real novias, hovias, hos, whatever...

Again, she could care less, it's likely that she sees other girls as a threat to her cash cow walking ATM with a d*ck and grabby paws, and she plays her little protest game to either be cute and make you think she cares or she really is upset at the thought of losing her steady revenue stream and just can't contain herself.

Now regarding sending money...Don't SEND them money, HAND them the money, but ONLY 5 minutes after blasting a big wad o' spooey down her throat and all over her face and wiping the last driblets off your slinky in her hair...

Last piece of advice, if you want a novia, join a dating service, don't try to make a ho or hovia a novia.

Practice my proven 6 F's methods here, and you'll get your money's worth and stay out of trouble and not get so easily confused...

Find 'em...Fondle 'em...Finger 'em...Fellatio 'em, F*ck 'em...and Forget 'em...

That's all I got... :roll:



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2021 11:45 pm 
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Want to tell you about the girl I love
My she looks so fine
She's the only one that I been dreamin' of
Maybe someday she will be all mine
I want to tell her that I love her so
I thrill with her every touch
I need to tell her she's the only one I really love
I got a woman, want to ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true
Sunday morning when we go down to church
See the menfolk standin' in line
I said they come to pray to the Lord
With my little girl, looks so fine
In the evening when the sun is sinkin' low
Everybody's with the one they love
I walk the town, keep a-searchin' all around
Lookin' for my street corner girl
I got a woman, want to ball all day
I got a woman, she won't be true, no no
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I said I got a little woman and she won't be true
In the bars, with the men who play guitars
Singin', drinkin' and rememberin' the times
My little lover does a midnight shift
She followed around all the time
I guess there's just one thing a-left for me to do
Gonna pack my bags and move on my way
'Cause I got a worried mind sharin' what I thought was mine
Gonna leave her where the guitars play
I got a woman, she won't be true, no no
I got a woman, want to ball all day, yeah, yeah
I got a woman, stay drunk all the time
I got a little woman and she won't be true
I said she won't be true
No, yeah, no, yeah, no, yeah, no, yeah (hey, hey, what can I say?)
Ah (hey hey, what can I do) keep on, keep on
(No, no, what can I say?) she won't
Keep on, keep on (hey, hey, what can I do?)
(No, no, what can I say?)
(Hey, hey, what can I do?)
(No, no, what can I say?) hey, hey what can I do, I got a women she won't be true
(Hey, hey, what can I do?) oh oh hear what I said I got a woman wanna bawl all day
(No, no, what can I say?) keep on keep on
(Hey, hey, what can I do?)


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First of all, she’s your puta, not your novia. Sounds like true love……..my best advice is to just keep sending her money.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2021 9:11 am 
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I appreciate the advice guys.

We're still going to see each other in a few weeks. I told her I'll only see girls in San Jose after seeing her in Jaco (so she doesn't have to worry about STDs) and that I won't talk about my plans (the 2-3 days I stay in San Jose before going home), but she shouldn't ask me about them either.

We'll see if she can hold up her end of the "deal." :roll:


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There are two ways for this to end:

1. Marriage, K*ds, divorce, lose 1/2 your assets, pay crippling Ch*ld support for 18 years, lunch on snickers bars instead of steak.

2. Drop her now, Vegas Bob cure, live free.

The only question is how much do you like nougat topped with caramel and peanuts enrobed in milk chocolate?

Wake up man.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2021 10:12 am 
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Boynton wrote:
There are two ways for this to end:
Actually my plan is to live in Escazu 3-4 days a week where I'll work remotely and then take a long weekend in Jaco with her. I'll pay for a place she can live in for free. She just laughs when I tell her this. "In your dreams!"

Is it? I think she'll cave when I'm able to do it.

It's what I want. A novia / hovia / sugarbaby I have a relationship with a few days a week, and by-the-hour putas for random fun on the other days. I'm hoping it's possible.

That's really the gist of my post, and why I posted this.

Is it realistic, in Costa Rica, to have a novia while also openly seeing putas on the side? I always thought it would be.

Pops told me he had this - she knew and everything - but he didn't quite tell me how he pulled this off or whether he had a unicorn. We had started texting just a few weeks before his passing. :(


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WakingUp wrote:
Boynton wrote:
There are two ways for this to end:
Actually my plan is to live in Escazu 3-4 days a week where I'll work remotely and then take a long weekend in Jaco with her. I'll pay for a place she can live in for free. She just laughs when I tell her this. "In your dreams!"

Is it? I think she'll cave when I'm able to do it.

It's what I want. A novia / hovia / sugarbaby I have a relationship with a few days a week, and by-the-hour putas for random fun on the other days. I'm hoping it's possible.

That's really the gist of my post, and why I posted this.

Is it realistic, in Costa Rica, to have a novia while also openly seeing putas on the side? I always thought it would be.


Pops told me he had this - she knew and everything - but he didn't quite tell me how he pulled this off or whether he had a unicorn. We had started texting just a few weeks before his passing. :(


Sugar baby or hovia yes. Novia, no.
I have a regular that I have TLNs with once a week and then see other chicas (1 or 2 a week). She knows about this, but it becomes an unspoken routine. She also lives with a Tico boyfriend. Both she and her novio are medical students at UNIBE. I met her online and have been seeing her for 4 years. We did not 'formalize' our arrangement until the pandemic. I give her $350 a week and her TLN is 24 hours. It is a one-day fantasy date. She is top-shelf, model quality, 26yr old, bi-lingual, no-tats/K*ds/cigs/drugs. She also helps with translating and dealing with issues. She has tried several times to get more money, but I tell her what I can pay and she backs down. I am not big-money or fast-money, but steady-money. Neither of us expect this arrangement to last long past the end of her internship (December 2022).

I live near Escazu (Nunciatura in Rohrmoser/Pavas). There are upscale apartments in the area. I have the contact for an English speaking, Tico realtor that Pops and I used to find my apartment. He was useful, but only interested in getting a contract signed. He is definitely a landlord's agent. I pay $1,100 for an upscale 2 bedroom in a 26 floor building. Heated pool, sky deck, barbecue/party area, gym, coworking room, 4 elevators, 24x7 security, etc. My unit has modern kitchen with all appliances (even a dishwasher), AC in master bedroom, 2 full baths.

The guards have my explicit permission to let my hovia into the building, they even give me a text to let me know she is heading to the elevator. My door lock supports multiple codes, so I give her one-time access and she feels 'special' but it automatically disables access each time. For other putas, I can inform the desk and they check the cédula or I can meet them in the lobby and no questions are asked. I have been here over a month (7 different putas) and no hassles from security. It is a quiet building, so if I want an un-quiet party I will use a love motel. I also use a single-use door code for my monthly maid service ($40 deep cleaning).

I pay c25mil for 20Mbps Internet and TV through Tigo, plans are available up to 300Mbps for c78mil. Free WiFi is available in common areas, but I only get 15Mbs in these. I also have 2 parking spaces available, but I have no plans to buy a car.

There are also more traditional Tico homes in the area for $400+, probably even cheaper.

Had Pops not died, I think 'relocation services for mongers' would have been a growth market for him. I am not aware of anyone stepping in to fill the vacuum his passing left. I am neither interested or capable of doing so. I focus on my situation, Pops was genuinely interested in all aspects of this thing of ours.

Finally, regular working girls will remain regular working girls. Don't fool yourself. You MIGHT be able to bag unicorn, but the odds are against you. Unless you mean Luna with a butt-plug tail and head-band horn. You will not be able to do this until after you live here. Dump the Jaco puta, move here, party, settle in, party, make regular social connections, party, begin looking for your unicorn. viewtopic.php?f=3&t=51429&hilit=luna#p583445

99.9% you will ignore my advice and end up burned and living on snickers and mac&cheese. That will wake you up.

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