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Sorry, guys. I know I'm posting a lot, but I've only been in Costa Rica for a few days, and I am Psyched. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 10 years, and this country is awesome! I am having a blast. I am also just hanging around the house today. There is ash all over, and my friend doesn't even want to take the car out of the garage. Volcanic ash is bad for engines, I know. So our trip to the mountains is postponed until tomorrow.

This is both an observation and a question. Are most Ticas just naturally flirty and, shall we say, "unashamed"? Because that has been my experience so far. I don't know if that's universal, or if the girls that my friend is introducing me to are just more "open." He's trying to help me get over the malaise of my break-up, and I'm not sure that I trust that he is really introducing me to "normal" girls. I feel like he's only introducing me to "easy" girls, to try to boost my confidence and lift my spirits. He's a great guy, we're like brothers, but I would like to meet some real Ticas, and I'm not quite sure that I'm doing that yet. Don't get me wrong, over the next 3 months I will be seeing my fair share of hookers, but that's not the only thing that I want to do.

So far, he and his girlfriend have introduced me to 5 girls. 3 of them wanted cash, and the other 2 were just "regular" girls. I guess they phucked me because they liked me, or do Ticas just like to Phuck, or were they screwing me as a favor for my friends?

On the other hand, I get the feeling that Ticas are just naturally sexual and are not easily embarrassed. They are surely not afraid to show what they've got to offer. The way these girls dress, just walking down the street and watching the Ticas that are walking down the street, to me looks like the first two minutes of a porn video. With their typical Latina hips and asses, how in the hell do these girls get those 2-sizes too-small jeans on? I'm just talking about regular girls, probably just walking to or from the grocery store, or work. Any eye contact on the street seems like, "Oh... sexy USA boy... I'm already wet, just looking at you." Or is it just instinctive flirting?

The 5 girls that have been here so far, when we were alone, were almost matter-of-factly asking me, "Shall we Phuck now?" Another thing, all 5 of them got undressed in about 2 seconds. From what I have seen so far, Ticas don't strip, they jump out of their clothes like they are on fire.

2 days ago, after I was comfortable talking normally around my friend's girlfriend, which is easy, by the way, she's instantly your best friend, to everybody that she meets. Even if she weren't so pretty and sexy, she is one of those people that you just can't help loving. She has that "joy of life" and friendliness that makes it impossible to be sad when she's around. Back on subject, the three of us were just drinking and sitting around 2 days ago, shortly after I arrived in Costa Rica, and we were talking about them, as a couple. How they met, etc.

I've been with a few Asian girls in my lifetime, and one thing that is common among Asianas is that they love bush. Most Asianas have a real bird's nest down there around the love-tunnel. I asked my friend, "Arabella is half-Tica, but she's half-Chinese, too. So, does she shave down there by the love shack, or not?" She was listening, and started laughing. Then she just stood up, lifted her skirt, and dropped her panties. I stared for about 5 seconds and then said, "That was unexpected, but question asked and answered." She laughed and walked away. Is that "normal?"

She was perfectly clean-shaven, by the way.

one thing you will begin to realize isn't that latinas are more sexual, flirty etc... its that in North American women are put on a pedestal for no good reason at all, and thus have this superiority complex aka bitches... European, asian, Latin america women are real woman, N American women are women by genetics only.. this is a generalization of course as there are bitches everywhere.

this is a theory ive had since i was in my teens, and has been proven to me in both traveling and living abroad over the years...

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it depends upon the type of people you surround yourself with. The same stories are told in the US.

You cannot measure Costa Rican females by the working girls, nor friends of a friend. Go out to Mercado Central, the malls, or Lat U and meet the real people of the country. If you look like a gringo and can barely speak Spanish, don't expect more than the standard politeness.

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Interesting comment BD, do you mean that most of the above former relationships we seem to engage in are financially tilted in our favor, thus reflect a false expression of friendliness, read desire for intimacy, as opposed to more neutral, non-dependency affected ones, such as the latter?

standard politeness outside of the North America > standard politeness out side of North America

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its easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled- mark twain

Where are you reading financial anythings here? Perhaps you expect women in the Escazu mall to respond to you as if they were HDR chicas, and flash their privates to you for a laugh. And perhaps they will.

YMMV.

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wouldn't that be an "=" sign?

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good catch BD... just seeing if you were paying attention...lol

should have read
standard politeness outside of the North America > standard politeness inside of North America

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its easier to fool people than to convince them they have been fooled- mark twain

My experience is that if you are a gringo living in CR, it's very easy to find girlfriends in malls, shops on the streets, anyplace you can strike up a conversation with a little more than basic Spanish. Available women are everywhere, and some inevitably have K*ds. You ask her if she would like to go to a restaurant and the answer is almost always "yes," and it proceeds from there as it would anywhere else, except your chances are far better in CR than in the US.

Suggestion: if you pay a chica a compliment, say something that you really mean. If she has a beautiful smile or beautiful hair, tell her that. And ask a lot of questions.

It gets too complicated if you're juggling relationships -- like a wife and one or more novias.. The Central Valley is a smaller world than you might think. People who have grown up here know a LOT of other people.

I think searching for a novia is best for a guy who is in CR on a tourist visa and thinking of spending more time here. This country is filled with beautiful women -- mid 30s and younger who would love to try out a relationship because they've been abandoned before, and often more than once. Many of them think gringos are more trustworthy than Ticos.

I think it's unfair to hurt a vulnerable woman if you're just wanting to get laid. Whether you're a visitor or a resident, it's probably best to stick to prostitutes, and for your own good as well. They won't call your home or turn your life upside down -- and you can have a little fleeting (or repeating) adventure in your life.

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Yes. If he's a sincere, decent guy, then he's still got an easier time than a penniless local.

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Good insight... sound advice.

I could ask you if yours is jealousy or crying over spilled milk?

Your question was whether a penniless gringo could get a girlfriend in CR. I'd say that, faced with a penniless local versus a penniless gringo, the girl will pick the guy that she feels treats her the way she wants to be treated (good or bad).You suggest that her choice comes down to nationality. Since they are both penniless, I don't think it'd matter to her at that point. She'll probably go for love.

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Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly!