JerseyGringo wrote:
I tried to meet a non hooker in sanjose a few times ,I hooked up with them on Latin American Cupid .why? Same reason as you ,it's not for free sex which everyone thinks it was for the chase ,to feel like a man . I meet a girl hung out with her and toured the city she came to my hotel and we kissed like lost lovers then she got in a taxi and left never to see her again .
The second was Fabiola ,she worked in escazu,I meet her for lunch she looked like shit and was immature and couldn't even say a single English word .I never spoke to her again ?neither was interested in money since they never asked . But of there on a gringo dating site which is full of awkward ugly older sex seeking gringos you have say hummmmmm??? Fabiola sent me a message one day said she was in New Jersey! She had a friend for me to meet ?!? So I did and her friend became my GF for a year until she asked me to co sign her apartment and car ,she was here illegal ,cleaned houses and saved every penny she was almost rich but all she owned was a bed and boxes,no tv no computer nothing . I dumped her . Now I'm in the end of a mess with a brasillian who wants THINGS from me .
all woman want SOMETHING. Progress .
Well I got what I asked for didn't I . Now I couldn't care less about relationships,love,chasing girls,romance and WORKING For another woman and getting nothing from it .
I just want to save money and travel and be healthy and take care of my ninos. hopefully you will be there one day because you seem like I used to feel . I'll tell you that it almost impossible to find a girl in San Jose or one a dating site who dosent want some type of gain from you ,long term or short. Most are hookers who think they are better and the majority are HOOKERS. American sites the girls are mostly fat and have an attitude . I also meet girls in brasil,DR and many in medellin colombia ...it was a lot of fun . The hardest place to find one is San Jose they get bombarded with gringos ,each one has dozens a day to choose from . They are the smallest supply of chicas on the internet .
I used to say It's impossible to get laid for free in San Jose if your a gringo until my friend banged a girls in the sportsman for free for several days .i know it's the truth because he ran out of money he snorted it up his nose . Other then that storie there are rumors . Good luck with that chief ! JG
all women want something, and so do all men. I wouldn't trust a woman that didn't expect me to 'provide' something ... it's the gold diggers that one must learn to avoid.
I have decent luck on the plain-jane dating sites. When I realize one is a puta, I just drop the convo. I have the HDR, and do not need to pre-schedule sessions. To date, I have met a gorgeous real estate chica (with zero personality unfortunately), a nanny, a dance choreographer, a kindergarten teacher (or aide), and 2 others I forget their occupation.... oh, one worked in a family restaurant or something.
Any of these chicas could have 'hooked' at some point (and could be full-time for all I know), but I could not tell by the online messaging, WhatsApp convos, and the face-to-face meetings and dates. None ever asked me for money or gifts. A couple actually felt that small gifts were too "up-front" for a first or second date.
Now, all that said, they are typical females. They *WILL* be after the general rote of requirements from a mate. So, "Eyes Wide Open!", Bashful.
I think it is pointless to hunt up SEX on these sites, unless you specifically target the putas. If you are not interested in the other side of the equation, then leave the normal ones alone.