its not a crazy question, and despite the fact its been asked and debated almost as much as the debate over paying cien - lots of guys wonder about this - but lets look at why its so difficult: to achieve success:
The age difference - if you are 40+ years older, or hell, 30 for that matter - what do you really have in common with her? What do you talk about - your interests in TV shows, movies, music, and a whole bunch of other stuff is different, plus your life experiences and hers are so far apart
Language barrier - if you can't communicate, you can't survive a relationship - period
Culutral differences - when you marry a girl in Latin America, you marry her family - with all the good and bad that goes with it - you are also the bank - a concept most gringos are not familiar - or happy - with - often, many have Ch*ldren - are you comfortable raising someone elses - likely a deadbeat who does not pay support - Ch*ldren - if he does show up, do you want him around, especially if he has a criminal background - you also know your "wife" would gladly Phuck him or suck him off in a heart beat, right......right????? And no matter what a scumbag he is - would probably take him over you, all things being equal
Education - if she has the equivalent of a 9th grade education - as many do - what can you talk to them about - the latest episode of Sponge Bob???
Sex only takes you so far - then you have to talk with her and be with her - that is why any relationship based on just sex likely will not last
Would you consider marring a sex worker in the USA - probably not - then why will you consider doing so when you don't speak the language, in a culuture foreign to you
Many of these girls have criminal records, or are into drugs - can you deal with that - frankly, I could forgive a lot, if you take my point - but a criminal record (which may mean she can't get a visa to come to the USA) and drug abuse are deal breakers - for me
Frankly, since there have been so few of the success stories, and so many of the horror stories <which I don't 100% blame the girl - lots of lonely, stupid clueless guys out there> its not worth it if you base success on probabilities - not to say it can't happen - plus, some guys just have to touch the hot stove - while others have to hug it with both arms
Don't look for love in a whorehouse, or with a prostitute - is that such a hard concept? Despite the fact it may have work for a very few that odds of it working for you are so stacked against you - hell, someone wins the Lotto, and the Powerball - but would you call the odds of you winning favorable?
Its the guys on their 2nd or 3rd - "This one/this time its different" foolishness I just shake my head at -