My friend just received an RFM from a girl in Medellin. They have been seeing each other in a P4P relationship for about a year now, and both are considering taking it to the next level i.e. novia/novio ultimately casada.
This starts out as a really bad idea with a relationship with little chance for success - P4P - he lives in the USA and she lives in Colombia - you have a better chance of seeing Jesus than this relationships chances for long term success - I could go on and on but do i really have to? Disclosure, he is relatively young and athletic. The age gap between them is only 7 years.
The RFM is asking him for $4,490 to get a defective silicon breast implant removed. My friend makes decent money and would not regret giving her the money if in fact her health is at stake. A little internet research dug up an article about a French company Poly Implant Prothese (PIP), which was closed by the French government for using industrial grade silicone. About 14,000 pairs were sold in Colombia.
I am a little suspicious. She is a pretty cool girl but honestly I think the majority of Colombians are under the misconception that Americans have obscene amounts of money and fleecing us is ok. I told him that if he wants to pay for the operation, he should ask her for the name of the doctor and hospital and pay the bill directly to them.
Not a bad idea, but you still might not know for sure He could offer to come down and be w/ her for the operation - they are talking marrage, after all - but what do you bet just "something" does not work outHas anyone else received a similar RFM?
No, b/c they never have my contact info - I have theirs, sure - but mine - never Can't see the percentage in it on so many levels Does anyone else have any suggestions to ensure he is not being used?
It would seem so - but he is being dumb from the start - a P4P relationship has a very low chance of success from the get go - this would be a perfect time to end what never should have been - and if you think I'm being harsh, just read all about the likelyhood of succes from these relationships - very very few lastObviously the easy answer is “nextâ€.