Just a question

Patriot · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 6:12 pm

Hey Gang;
I'm torn between sending an email wishing the best of luck in their life to both my ex, her new boyfriend and the baby or just leaving it alone. I have both their email addresses.

I want them to know I hold no animosity toward them and would like to become his friend as well as hers.

What do you think ??

Jamrock60 · **Joined:** Wed Mar 18, 2009 5:04 pm **Posts:** 1365

Patriot wrote:

Hey Gang;
I'm torn between sending an email wishing the best of luck in their life to both my ex, her new boyfriend and the baby or just leaving it alone. I have both their email addresses.

I want them to know I hold no animosity toward them and would like to become his friend as well as hers.

What do you think ??

Don't send any thing. if you happen to be in town just drop by to say hi. but don't send it. She might take it to mean you are a desperate man that can't get her out of your system.

Gypsy · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 6:39 pm

Patriot wrote:

Hey Gang;
I'm torn between sending an email wishing the best of luck in their life to both my ex, her new boyfriend and the baby or just leaving it alone. I have both their email addresses.

I want them to know I hold no animosity toward them and would like to become his friend as well as hers.

What do you think ??

Don't send anything. Get rid of the email addresses. Move on!

Zebra · **Joined:** Tue May 17, 2005 4:25 pm **Posts:** 2917

Let it go, move on.......unless you want to start getting RFMs from both of them. :shock:

Unfortunately, any such contact will show weakness. They'll take advantage of it.....count on it.

Irish Drifter · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 7:27 pm

Patriot wrote:

Hey Gang;
I'm torn between sending an email wishing the best of luck in their life to both my ex, her new boyfriend and the baby or just leaving it alone. I have both their email addresses.

I want them to know I hold no animosity toward them and would like to become his friend as well as hers.

What do you think ??

Sounds like you are not over her. Time to move on. Delete the email addresses.

Osgood · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 8:17 pm

Patriot once you get to the hate stage,in your case a long way off,you will look back and feel a fool for wishing a chica who has left you, all the best with her new lover.....get a dartboard stick a photo of her on it and aim for the bull daily...wish your dart luck,as your throwing.. :wink:

SnapperTrapper · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 9:23 pm

Send them both emails daily explaining how you feel about the situation. Iâ€™m sure they would love to have you in their livesâ€¦ And if things go well, maybe you can take them both for dinner sometime. JMHO :lol:

Orange · **Joined:** Sun Mar 27, 2005 10:20 pm **Posts:** 12638

I guess you haven't taken the advice to forget about her and move on. The fact that you have their email address is weird. The fact that you actually want to write them to wish them luck (the woman who played you for a fool and embarrassed you and the guy who helped her) is downright disturbing. Do you have any self-respect left? I know this is harsh but you don't seem to want to accept good advise.

This is moving towards obssesive.

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Thu Sep 10, 2009 10:58 pm

Still stuck in that rut, eh? Get over her. Move on. Ditch the email addresses and start looking forward instead of backward, the sooner the better.

LocoHombre · **Posted:** Fri Sep 11, 2009 7:03 am

Patriot wrote:

Hey Gang;
I'm torn between sending an email wishing the best of luck in their life to both my ex, her new boyfriend and the baby or just leaving it alone. I have both their email addresses.

I want them to know I hold no animosity toward them and would like to become his friend as well as hers.

What do you think ??

why do you need more friends :?:

you have all of us

J0sie · **Posted:** Fri Sep 11, 2009 2:51 pm

Patriot, just read ALL (except SnapperTrapper

) of the above comments. Either let go or get some help. I know is hard to admit it but sometimes we all need some professional help to keep it on perspective.

Redman69 · **Posted:** Fri Sep 11, 2009 3:01 pm

Yea, Just delete it all so that there will not be any temptation.

Move on. Or as the board does just say NEXT!!!!

Kickstand · **Posted:** Fri Sep 11, 2009 3:59 pm

Patriot,

I feel for you, but it really is time to move on. I assume that she is in Costa Rica, so why don't you expand your mongering horizons and go to Colombia, the DR, Argentina or Brasil for the next year or so. Just avoid Central America & her home country for a while. Sometimes physical distance can help to put things into perspective.

And don't contact her.

Dapanz1 · **Posted:** Fri Sep 11, 2009 4:35 pm

I'm one of the nicest guys I know. :-)

But, even I wouldn't even consider it. Please, get over it. Please. In fact, in this case, my passive aggressive nature might show through and I would have to find some very low key way to "even the score."

dapanz1

Nhhank · **Joined:** Mon Nov 10, 2008 2:32 pm **Posts:** 3399

You are living in the past
If you do not get over this line of thinking you spend the rest of you life above the MD line with no job
Christ your time with her goes back to the Mayflower
There is a slim chance that there is another girl on this globe that will make you forget her

www.CostaRicaTicas.com

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