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Novios - the weak minded and the weak character type
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Author:  J0sie [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:32 am ]
Post subject:  Novios - the weak minded and the weak character type
Since I have been coming to CR and have met many of the guys at the hotels and watering holes, I have notice that there are a couple of personality’s types that do not have any business coming to CR but to be a victim. The weak minded and the weak character type. Not trying to be nasty but even reading some of the trip reports, you can read how these poor souls are standing on that train track and are being ready to be run over.

This is not the Matrix so you can wish yourself to be the “One”. Every chica is train to prod, nudge and sniff every cent out of you. It is what they do for a living. We all know that we are there for P4P, why do we keep blurring that line? Is like we let them rule and dictate all terms when we are the buyers, and it is a buyers market. For every chica that says “No” there are 100 willing to said “Yes”.

The weak minded falls for every RFM, excuse to leave early, take me to the mall, buy me a house, I love you, I miss you, baby is sick, cannot pay rent, etc. You get the point.

The weak character can never said “NO” or “Next” to any chica request. He does not understand that if you are out of money at any time, she will said “NO” or “Next” to you without even blinking. The weak character does not understand that the same pu*sy or even better is around the corner waiting for him.

BTW – this does apply to those that live in CR. I’m starting a list of actions that if you find yourself doing it, STOP. You are on danger of become infatuated and lost on the black hole of noviohood;

1. Sends money to the novia
2. Gives her a credit/debit card
3. Takes her “off the market” while still living in the USA
4. Have never said “No” to her
5. On every trip takes her to the mall
6. Spends more time talking than phucking
7. Spends more money in extra curriculum activities with her than on pu*sy
Author:  Gypsy [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:47 am ]
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8. Get on the plane back home with her contact information. Once you're gone, it's somebody else's turn. Be considerate and allow the gentleman to enjoy her company without interruptions.
Author:  Rascal [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Novios - the weak minded and the weak character type
J0sie wrote:
Since I have been coming to CR and have met many of the guys at the hotels and watering holes, I have notice that there are a couple of personality’s types that do not have any business coming to CR but to be a victim. The weak minded and the weak character type. Not trying to be nasty but even reading some of the trip reports, you can read how these poor souls are standing on that train track and are being ready to be run over.

This is not the Matrix so you can wish yourself to be the “One”. Every chica is train to prod, nudge and sniff every cent out of you. It is what they do for a living. We all know that we are there for P4P, why do we keep blurring that line? Is like we let them rule and dictate all terms when we are the buyers, and it is a buyers market. For every chica that says “No” there are 100 willing to said “Yes”.

The weak minded falls for every RFM, excuse to leave early, take me to the mall, buy me a house, I love you, I miss you, baby is sick, cannot pay rent, etc. You get the point.

The weak character can never said “NO” or “Next” to any chica request. He does not understand that if you are out of money at any time, she will said “NO” or “Next” to you without even blinking. The weak character does not understand that the same pu*sy or even better is around the corner waiting for him.

BTW – this does apply to those that live in CR. I’m starting a list of actions that if you find yourself doing it, STOP. You are on danger of become infatuated and lost on the black hole of noviohood;

1. Sends money to the novia
2. Gives her a credit/debit card
3. Takes her “off the market” while still living in the USA
4. Have never said “No” to her
5. On every trip takes her to the mall
6. Spends more time talking than phucking
7. Spends more money in extra curriculum activities with her than on pu*sy


Josie, Well said. and of course the most important;

IF IT SEEMS TO GOOD TO BE TRUE, IT IS. Let's not forget, at the end of the day the Chicas are "Working Girls".
Author:  Pacifica55 [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 10:02 am ]
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Gypsy, there is no reason not to take her contact info with you unless you are a weak individual who can't say "no". Great to have a favorita met you at the airport as long as you are in the driver seat and that is very difficult to do if you are afraid to carry contact info for fear of sending her your bankroll from the states.
Author:  Gypsy [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 3:52 pm ]
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Pacifica55 wrote:
Gypsy, there is no reason not to take her contact info with you unless you are a weak individual who can't say "no". Great to have a favorita met you at the airport as long as you are in the driver seat and that is very difficult to do if you are afraid to carry contact info for fear of sending her your bankroll from the states.

Do you really need a favorite waiting for you at the airport? I rather have a friend waiting for me.

You might see it in a macho kind of way, but in the chicas mind, you're showing weakness, and they're gonna take advantage of it. You might think you're strong, but reality might be different, and that's what makes it dangerous. In my country they say that you don't eat the food as hot as you cook it.

Why do you have to be "owned" once you step out of the airport? I bet that "favorite" won't be too happy when she sees another woman getting into your wallet/her money.

And what about if her novio (who sends her money) walks out of the airport besides you? Who do you think she's gonna hug and kiss? Unless you're sending more than him, I bet your ego will be shattered, eh?
Wouldn't be easier just to be a monger?

Sorry Pac but I stand for what I said, don't get on the plane with her contact information, just leave in the drawer, pass it to the next monger checking in.

By the way, yes, I'm one of those who don't like to say no, but at the same time don't like to be taken advantage of, so I do what's best for me: stay under the radar!
Author:  Pacifica55 [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:27 pm ]
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Well, I guess one man's weakness is another's strength. For example, I picked up an amigo at the airport the other day, along with a favorita of his that he had contacted so that he would not spend his first night in town hunting. She stayed with him TLN and left the next morning, leaving him free to pursue anything he wanted.

How is that bad? He got a known quantity/quality all night for the "she's my buddy" price because he arranged for it before he even got here. Smart, in my opinion, especially during Seaman Santa when finding the right one can be an issue.

She only sees you as "weak" when you do weak stuff. Being afraid to have her contact info is, in my opinion, about as weak as they come! :shock: :lol:
Author:  EsposoDeBarbie [ Sat Apr 11, 2009 4:59 pm ]
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JOsie,

Here is my summation:

The guy is way too busy asking her what she wants INSTEAD of telling her what he wants (and needs).

Pur Vida

EdB
Author:  BangBang57 [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 12:43 pm ]
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WHAT IS A PUTA :?:

1: An all business woman who sells her body and pu*sy for as much money as possible while giving as little of herself and her pu*sy as possible, and in as little time as possible :!:

but in almost every puta there ia also a hidden

2: Person who, though a puta who wants your money, is also a chica with another personality. A romantic, a chica looking for something special, a chica who wants to have fun and enjoy the experience, and who wants the guy to do the same.

WHAT IS A MONGER :?:

There are two kinds who come to Costa Rica and both are always easy to spot especialy for the chicas.

1: THE, "I am king, I am the boss, I am in control, I am going to pluck the hell out of these whores, these whores are nothing but a piece of meat to be plucked, mistreated, and often times abused. What brings out this personality :?: weakness, insecurity, and in many cases, a fear of involvement.

and the other monger

2: THE, I respect these chicas; yes they are putas, but more importantly, they are HUMAN BEINGS with feelings, likes, dislikes, emotions, and needs. He knows that the nicer he is to them and the more he treats them with respect, the BETTER the service and fun will be. And what brings out this personality :?: . A feeling of self confinance, a respect of others no matter what they are or where they are from, and a knowledge that one can be strong and incontrol, and say "NO" when necessary without being a pushover or getting involved.


Both types want basically the same thing--an off the charts sexual experience with a hot chica and for as little money (within reason) as possible.

Now which monger type continually gets the "puta" described in #1 above and leaves the session usually in less time than "agreed" to, complaining of how bad it was, how rushed it was, how she did not do the things she agreed to, or refused to do what "I TOLD HER TO DO" :?: :?:

And which Monger gets the Puta that is automaticly GFE, DFK, BBBJ, maybe even CIM, who does not care about the time, who wants to have fun, who wants to have climaxes, who wants to give the guy pleasure :?: :?:

AND WHICH MONGER ALMOST ALWAYS PAYS LESS :?: :?: :?: :idea:

I agree with Pac55 on this: Being afraid to open up and be acessable to these chicas only shows a weakness to them. These chicas admire strength, but hate rudness, and yes, you can show strength without being rude or cruel. Being nice, respectful, and courtious without being weak will reap benifits monger #1 can only dream of. The weakness is only there when one can not learn to say "NO" and "explain" why. To the chicas, a guy that is afraid to be open and responsive with her is only showing a fear of his own weakness.

As for Josie's list;

1-4: I totally agree with.
5: taking her to the mall--If that is what the two of them enjoy doing with their time together, why not, as long as the spending is controlled (in other words, the guy has confidance in his own ability to be nice but in controll at all times.)
6 and 7: Sure guys come here to pluck and pluck, and pluck; but if you are so obcessed with that, that nothing else is important and you show that you have no interest in her; just her body, then that is what you will get and what you will deserve--NOTHING BUT A LIMP BUSINESS LIKE PUTA :!: :roll: :idea:

all of the above is just the opinions of an old fart. OH!! and I do agree with JOsie in that there are some guys who come here that really should stay in the states; they just can not handle what Cr has to offer :roll: :wink:
Author:  Pacifica55 [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 12:52 pm ]
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Very well said, BB. Wouldn't change a word. :wink:
Author:  Zippy [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 1:39 pm ]
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Really good stuff there BB57 :wink: ! If there is anything I have learned in this life is to try to be as graceful (respectful) as possible without being noticed & try not to hurt anyone at all. Live & let live....
Author:  BigBambu [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 2:21 pm ]
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JOsie wrote:
7. Spends more money in extra curriculum activities with her than on pu*sy


The word in this case is curricular, JOsie. In the context of your sentence you need the adverbial form of the latin word curriculum.

I am sure you will appreciate me correcting you! :)
Author:  Gypsy [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:06 pm ]
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Pacifica55 wrote:
Being afraid to have her contact info is, in my opinion, about as weak as they come! :shock: :lol:

I'm not afraid, I just see it as a waste of time. My ego doesn't need a prostitute waiting for me at the airport to prove something. I'm not less man than you because prostitutes don't wait for me at the airport, and I'm not more man than you because of it. Our egos are at different levels.
Yes Pac, I'm the weakest of the weaks and I love it! :twisted:
Author:  Pacifica55 [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:10 pm ]
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No problem with that, Gypsy, and it isn't the "ego" that is waiting for that first chica! :lol: :lol:
Author:  BigBambu [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:49 pm ]
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Gypsy wrote:
I'm not afraid, I just see it as a waste of time.


Should I assume, Gypsy, from this and your earlier post that you never want to make contact again with a girl? Are you solely an LAL type of guy? :?

I am offered contact info way more than 50% of the time. I have rarely, if ever, refused same. AND, I have never had a girl come to the airport and pick me up. However, I like the idea and if you are like me, then you know how important it is to get those horns trimmed quickly to permit the proper head to do the thinking. 8)
Author:  Klockman [ Sun Apr 12, 2009 3:59 pm ]
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I've never given into a RFM, not even from Karen and I have to say that having contact info has benefited both me and fellow CRT'ers looking for recommendations for their first night.

Don't see it as a problem, not at all
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