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Author:  BigBambu [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 2:48 pm ]
Post subject:  favoritas and GFE "repeat-as"
As has been often discussed some of us are LAL types, some of us like repeat and multiple dates with a favorita and some of us go both ways! :lol:

Just wondering though, for those of us who enjoy GFE-type repeat performances, so to speak -

What is it that you like about this? --

1. GFE experience is enhanced when you know more about this favoritas' personal life.

2. I prefer to keep it less personal (perhaps you just want to relive the first encounter and what you liked about this favorita)?

3. Repeat encounters get better as we know what each other wants/expects?

4. or...?

I can see several sides to this but......what do you think?
Author:  TheMadGerman [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 3:51 pm ]
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Most of us are hoping it will be better the second or third time, doesn't always work out though.

I mean, if you have a great experience, why wouldn't you want to repeat?
Author:  Cujo's [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 5:25 pm ]
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If I repeat with a girl I already know she's down. No silliness or professionalism is gonna happen.

I think that's different from a favorita. My continued goal while I'm with chicas down there is for it to seem like a regular hook up :idea: . She ain't got nothing to do the rest of the night so time isn't going to be discussed.

I like to basically party, bullshit, get ripped before I get down. I'm not about just pulling a chica(s) and running back to the room. For as crazy as CR can be (which I can really appreciate 8) ) I try for it not to change who I am in any capacity ESPECIALLY with women. My approach here in S. Florida is exactly the same as in CR.


But men are creatures of variety hence why some don't repeat. But there can be huge advantages to repeats if the heat was there the first time around. It's not about being cheap, but over time developing a repeat into a "hook-up" ( note: hook-up = free) is when you really start to grab CR by the balls. :wink:




Cujo
Author:  Zionisthead [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 5:37 pm ]
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whenever you are with someone you are comfortable with the sex is always better and you know what you are getting. plus when she enjoys seeing you again and again because you are a gentleman and fun to be with, she will have a good time too and the atmoshphere is fun
Author:  J0sie [ Sat Oct 11, 2008 10:11 pm ]
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I think the reason some of us are always looking for favoritas is because of the GFE but also to get a little closer to the chica and see them drop some of the professional veil that they all have. Obviously substantial discounts for repeats are always welcome but remember that this is their livelihood.

You also need to keep in mind that there is danger that you could fall for a chica and become a novio. I try to use Robert Deniro approach in the movie Heat, for the favoritas, enjoy it but be prepare to walk away in 30 seconds flat. As long as they do not bring too much drama and the loving is good then it is a repeat.

I have been very fortunate that on every trip to CR I have cultivated a favorita or gotten together with a previous favorita. I will be in CR on 10/27 and my favorita will be waiting for me at the Hotel. But it is imperative that you do not spend all your time with only one chica, no matter how sweet the loving or comfortable you are with her. It leads to the dark side of noviohood.
Author:  Tstef527 [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 11:42 am ]
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Amen JOsie...you nailed it with the DeNiro in Heat reference. I took a favorita in July for 4 days to Flamingo, that I pulled out of BB 2 months prior. Had a fantastic time, total GFE the whole nine yards. Returned home and there it was...the dreaded RFM in my Email. Needless to say, I took a different chica to La Fortuna last week :wink:

Count me in the category as loving both. The familiarity definitely leads a more enhanced experience IMO. I also agree with Cujo, finding that chill chica down for "the hook-up" just might be the ultimate ego booster!
Author:  Bilko [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 2:07 pm ]
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I have a few repeat girls and for me it's not a case of the sex getting better. Usually by about time #3 I have seen and experienced all there is to experience with a particular girl. But I repeat because the quality that I got in the first time or two was considerably better than the average 'first time' experience I get with others. If a girl is attractive, clean, enthusiastic and does it the way I enjoy, I will repeat.

I have seen the downside of becoming friends with these girls, but it's my nature to do that and I accept the consequences. I have a lot of very nice prostitute friends whom I like as people and even trust. But as friends I end up being hit up for money all the time and I confess to being a soft touch. It's not in big lumps but things like school clothes for a K*D or paying to get the water turned back on. It's really best, economically, to be a total LAL type, once and out. Personally, I enjoy my extended families and see it as a mixed bag. But as far as sex for money goes, keep it impersonal and you'll save.
Author:  Earlystart83 [ Sun Oct 12, 2008 6:09 pm ]
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There's no question about it, repeats ensure you a level of certainty. The risk of not enjoying yourself to the fullest in minimized when you utilize on of those numbers you grabbed the last trip or the last night out. I have to agree with you guys that feel the need to switch it up. A mix between repeats and new chicas seems to be the best recipe for me. You have to feel that no matter how good of an experience you have with one chick, there is always a better experience around the corner.

Like JOsie said, you have to keep your head in the game. Generally when you repeat with a chick there is at least some kind of connection. You have to be able to put everything into perspective at any moment and be able to walk if not run away in 30 seconds flat.

If you play your cards right your chance at a discount, a free-bee, or a once in a lifetime position are greatly increased with a repeat.

Who doesn't like GFE?? (unless the chica is gross) Anything to make the sex less mechanical and by the book. I could barely bust a nut in Amsterdam, they run the game over there with precision at its most efficient level. If I wanted to Phuck a motionless/ emotionless chick who's mind is somewhere other than on my dick plowing her hole then I'd just stay at home and get my x-girlfriend to slide through.
Author:  Smelvis [ Thu Oct 23, 2008 6:19 pm ]
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I don't repeat much in the states but my last trip, I hooked up via a recommendation from a friend, I saw her 7 times and each time was better than the last. I'm already attempting to hook up with her in early December.
Author:  Paco [ Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:35 pm ]
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I repeat with a Columbian girl from the DR, not for the sex, but cause she's fun to hang-out with, play pool, gamble... These are the ones to worry about, as they will play for longer term goals if your not careful.
Author:  Stillwandering3 [ Wed Dec 31, 2008 3:40 am ]
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It the ones smart enough to play for long term goals and will get you in trouble,,LOL..
But the repetes can be fun,, but new territory is fun too.. YMMV...
Author:  Phantom [ Tue Jan 06, 2009 11:08 pm ]
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Never mind all of that! It comes down to one thing guys:

Are you getting them off in the process?

If you are not, most everything above applies.

If you are getting them off, then is it a whole different ball game.
Author:  Svenson [ Mon Jan 12, 2009 6:00 am ]
Post subject:  no repeats
My next trip I am going to try not repeating any one.I wonder if I can do it!!!????Anyone else tried this???What do you tell your repeats without making them upset or angry????If you see them???I dunno if I can do it...I have only seen them happy I do not think It will go over too well..I would not want to see them in another light.....I dunno...suggestions??
Author:  Pacifica55 [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 4:34 pm ]
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Svenson - I hit a different girl every night for over a year and never had a problem. When you see the one you were with last night go over and say hello. Tell her you had a great time (if you did) and that you will see her next time. Yes, she wants to see you again but she is not going to sour the deal by being angry because you are not going with her that night.

The worst thing you can do is avoid her or act different in any way. You have the power. Avoid her and she knows she has the power. Don't be a wimp and don't be afraid of them: They are there to make you happy and make some money. Let them think they are in charge and you are a gonner.

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I took a favorita in July for 4 days to Flamingo, that I pulled out of BB 2 months prior. Had a fantastic time, total GFE the whole nine yards. Returned home and there it was...the dreaded RFM in my Email. Needless to say, I took a different chica to La Fortuna last week.


Why? Are you afraid of her?

An "RFM" is a request, not a demand. She was just fishing to see how weak you are. Reply with humor and politely tell her things are tough all over! You look forward to seeing her again but you don't send money...ever. You might be surprised how well she takes this rejection. Just like dealing with any person in sales, you can't fault them for making the pitch!
Author:  Orange [ Wed Jan 14, 2009 5:09 pm ]
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Pacifica55 wrote:
An "RFM" is a request, not a demand. She was just fishing to see how weak you are. Reply with humor and politely tell her things are tough all over! You look forward to seeing her again but you don't send money...ever. You might be surprised how well she takes this rejection. Just like dealing with any person in sales, you can't fault them for making the pitch!

From my personal experience and from talking with others, most times, if you just politely decline it, they won't ever mention it again, as if it never happened.

Pac55 is right, they are just fishing for a sucker. They don't actually expect a guy to send them money. It's more a shock when the guy says "yes".
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