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So how do you guys react when the jig is up....whether it be your wife caught you mongering...your chick caught you lying...whatever...

Well I don't know...no guy, not even my dad, ever taught me how to handle a situation like that...I guess it's just male instinct..

deny deny deny deny...and when on your death bed...DENY DENY DENY!!..

Is there any other way out?

I'll reference a line from the movie "The Recruit" with Pacino who was a CIA instructor training spies.

"Rule number one -- DO...NOT...GET...CAUGHT".

Can't imagine. I don't lie to her.

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In this situation you should follow the example of John Belushi:

I ran out of gas....I had a flat tire...I didn't have money for cab fare...there was an earth quake...it wasn't my fault, I SWEAR TO GODDDDDD!!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9TuLBa-rgBk

If you're gonna be mongering, don't have a wife. Girlfriends back home are ok as they can be disposable. IMHO, if you're mongering is because whatever you have is not really worthy, which goes both ways. Simplify your life, stick with that which is most important to you.
And yes, if ever caught, deny it. Once you say "I'm sorry", it's like saying "go ahead, cut my balls". No matter what they say, women never forget, and use shit they know to blackmail you.

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If you're gonna be mongering, don't have a wife. Girlfriends back home are ok as they can be disposable. IMHO, if you're mongering is because whatever you have is not really worthy, which goes both ways. Simplify your life, stick with that which is most important to you.
And yes, if ever caught, deny it. Once you say "I'm sorry", it's like saying "go ahead, cut my balls". No matter what they say, women never forget, and use shit they know to blackmail you.[/quote]

Us married guys need sex too

Admit nothing, deny everything and launch a counter accusation.

.....Resign yourself to your fate.

LOL...hahahahahah..true that...once you say "im sorry" it's like giving them permission to cut your pelotas off...lol

hahahaha.. I like that one..Counter Accusation....It's just part of the arsenal of a cornered man..lol

Deny is always a good plan, even if it doesn't work. After all you have nothing to lose.

Many years ago when I still married I came home from a massage parlor session with my pullover shirt inside out. When my ex finally noticed it she started a barrage of accusations that would have made the Spanish Inquisition proud. But I decided then and there to deny everything to the death. I told her everyone at work looked at me strangely all day. She did eventually stop the questioning but it was an uncomfortable feeling while it was going on. Didn't matter because I'm sure she was still suspicious that something was going on.

You can bet that after that incident I was very careful to make sure I was correctly dressed before going home.

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There are many good advices here. Best way is always deny everything.

but all this will only temporary solve your problem. If you have a wife, you will have to decide what you want long term, if what you want and if you find pleasure only when mongering, then you need to get a divorce soon.

If you have a gf, this will be much easier at least no attorneys will be involved. with the gf, she will only be attached to you and put up with your lies until she doesnt want to take it anymore..eventually she'll just leave you, which problem is solved automatically.

Women do it all the time.....It works for them so take a play out of their playbook( they are masters of deception)

Is it your experience that when they deny angrily they are lying.
In general of course, cause a woman with experience will deny with a smile or act sad, even if she's lying.

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Lying is to complicated
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