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Long time reader, first time poster. Mongered in Europe, Asia, America. Been to CR once, going back soon. Why? Sure, the mongering scene is great - but I find myself in love with a prostitute again. This has happened to me before (in Asia) and had disastrous results having pursued a relationship with her. So, why would I set myself up for failure again, choosing a girl from this line of work? What is wrong with me? I admit my social skills with the ladies (outside of mongering) is lacking and mongering is my one and only interaction with the ladies. Sad - I know - but true. Anyway, I'm not on a "fall in love and save-a-whore" trip, rather I simply like the girl and want to be with her more. She's a pro, I'm a John. So what?

OK, bash away, or better yet: give advice. Call me crazy or worse. Give me a reality check. I just can't get my mind off of her - meanwhile, I'm sure she doesn't even remember my name.

Monger/pro relationships can work. I can think of 100's of examples of success off the top of my head. But your scenario is quite different.You are falling in "love" with women that do not have an attraction to you, by your own admission.I suspect it is not love but how she treats you during the session that you are infatuated about.I have seen this in alot of guys over the years.The evil gringa has cast yet another poor guy out to the wolves.But do not despair. If you are looking for romance and a relationship try one of the international dating sites.Lots of respectable civilian women available.

I don't think there is anything wrong with you. Falling "in love" is actually some kind of strange biochemical thing that happens in your brain when the right triggers are pulled. Scientists are pretty close to having sorted out all the chemistry, if you can believe it. Maybe one day you can go to a doctor and get a shot that stops you from being in love with the wrong girl.

Studies have shown that most men report having been "in love" around 5-7 times in their lives. Women report this less; more like 3 times. I am in this ballpark having been in love 5 times in my life and I always knew it the second our eyes met. The last time was with a Tica...fortunately, she didn't take advantage of the situation.

I bet that virtually every CRT member there is has been in love with a working girl at some point. It is a recipie for disaster though, being in love with a woman who really knows how to read a man and get what she wants. Some hookers are looking to marry a guy and settle down too. They know their career is pretty short and most women prefer not to live alone.

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San Jose and the hooker scene is NOT for everyone. that's a novel idea!!!!!

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

You need to decide whether you are looking for sex or a relationship. I suspect that you really want a relationship, or at least want both. However, you are looking solely in a market whose primary purpose is to provide sex and sex only. You may not even have the filters to be able to selectively chose those few working girls who would be inclined for a normal relationship.

Personal recomendation is to start dating A LOT! Don't go into it like most guys, desperate to get some pu*sy. You already know of an abundant source for that. Just go out on a lot of dates with a lot of women (yes EVEN GRINGAS). Sign up to a bunch of dating sites. No matter how you look, you are going to get a bunch of rejections, but also a bunch of yeses as well. Date pretty girls, ugly girls, thin girls, fat girls, whatever. You'll find a good portion of your relationship cup will fill rather quickly. More importantly, you will discover what you want, rather than falling for the first puta that is nice to you.

Don't worry about the falling in love thing, man. It happens. My first trip to Latin American I fell for a chica. Probably the best thing that could happen to improve my mongering skills. That girl gave me a PhD in Chicaology in about 7 days. Hell, I should be sending that little hottie a thank you card every year.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that...basically if it feels good DO IT..and don't look for to much coming back you way.

If you can give freely from your heart and wallet and not have any expectations then you will certainly do just fine

Go for it... Working girls make marvelous wives and companions. Tons of success stories out there.

Opinion:

I don't know which is more disturbing milfhunter's inability to separate fantasy from reality or the advice he is getting on how to handle it.


Lee

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PS: DO NOT SEND MONEY!

Lee – stay off the tracks. Let the man make his choice and we get to watch.

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

I will add this. If you are head over heals in love with this chick and you know that you won't be able to stop seeing her when you are down there, don't come back to Costa Rica, seriously.

It may seem like herasey to say this, but guys have to know their limitations. If this particular girl has that much power over you, and you know that you will submit to the temptation of seeing her again, just monger somewhere else for a while. This is a BIG world we are on, with mongering locations everywhere.

Put about 100 girls between you and her, THEN reconsider going back to SJO. When you can think about her and NOT feel that pulling sensation in your heart/stomach, you might be ready to return.

Some guys say that you should just man up and get control of your emotions with this girl, and you should if you can. But I have personally known SEVERAL guys in at least 4 countries who thought they could man up and control their feelings with a puta, only to find themselves completely pu*sy whipped when they come back and see her. "Love" can be like an addiction for some guys. And just like other addictions, it is best to keep as much temptation away from you as possible.

Don't be discouraged by the negativity. You can check through old posts in this section to see lots of success stories in this area. The love of a good man can transform these chicas in a very positive way.

Good one, brother. LMAO

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

My advice is to avoid chica #1 until you find another with the same "pull". Then, see them both but not exclusively. I find it much easier to avoid
"oneitus" when I am balanced with at least two who are vying for my attention instead of me chasing them.

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"Your love gives me such a thrill
but your love don't pay my bills,
I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker

Disclaimer: The above is merely the opinion of the author unless specific scientific data is included.
Your mileage may vary. https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewto ... 978#206978

I was told once that women in that line of work make the best wives

"Once they pull up there draws they are up for good"
Pretty Tony (pimp in the hood of BLO, NY)

NYG

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Damm that water is cold!!!
And deep too!!!

Do you really think advice here is going to solve your problem? If you really want to worth through it, go seek some professional help. In truth, why guys ask relationship advice here is beyond me. When you want tax advice, you go to a tax accountant. Medical advice, a doc...Ect Ect. Love and relationships, and why you behave the way you do in them, are far beyond quick and easy answers from men who have never met you. Get some courage up and face yourself- the hardest journey there is.

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I said hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.
Lou Reed