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PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:28 pm 
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This post is directly related to "Looking EVIL directly in the eye_epilogue"


I met Ingrid when she was only 3 months working at ZB. She seemed sweet and innocent. Had a session and could tell she had not been in the business for long. Or so I thought. I asked her if she would spend the night with me. She asked a girl if that was allowed and she replied,"Yes, but keep it secret." Come to find out she had already done this in the past. Man, was she taught well! She stated she was working to save up enough money to start a salon with her mom. That time I spent two weeks with her and really fell for her beauty and personality. During this trip I met her family and relatives. Soon afterwards I kicked her enough money to start her business. I have known other women that got out and have done well for themselves in this manner. I really liked this girl and wanted her to succeed in life.

It was during the initial trip that we went to Coronado to visit her aunt. I fell for the cool climate and mountain views. I had been coming to CR since 2003 and had finally found a place I want to live someday. Ingrid also stated that Coronado was her favorite place and wanted to live there also in the future. Two trips later to CR and I was the owner of half and acre in Coronado. Ingrid and myself spent a day looking at properties in the area, before deciding on the perfect spot to build our future home. Somehow marriage came up and it sounded pretty good. She would live in CR with her family and study Architecture at the University. I would fly down and see her every 3 months or so. Of course, I would flip the bill for school. After all, she was my wife and I wanted her to succeed in life.

We were married on 13 October 2007 in San Jose at the Best Western in Irazu. She looked so beautiful in her white dress. And of course I looked quite handsome myself. I think I had a few beers by then. The wedding turned out great. Approximately 40 people showed up. Everyone had enough to eat and drink. My good friend Russell Martin gave the toast. We are still friends by the way! The next day all the family and myself brought the wedding flowers to the church in Cartago. Several days later we enjoyed a nice honeymoon at Paradisus Conchul Resort. Spent 17 days this time and really hated to leave my wife behind.

She decided to apply for a Tourist Visa, so she could visit me in the States. On Dec 3rd, she call crying and stated she had been turned down. I felt so bad for her. I told her we would apply for the Immigrant Visa in the near future.

I decided to visit Ingird for Christmas and she planned on a trip for us to Nicaragua to vist her grandmother and aunt. We spent 3 days in Granada at the Hotel Colonial. Had a nice time, but felt something was wrong during this trip. I arrived at the San Jose Airport to leave CR and was immediately met by a relative of Ingrid. She stated Ingrid's heart belonged to another man and that he had left just the day before my arrival. She also stated the only reason that she married me was to get a visa to see him in America. I was also advised that she went to an attorney and attempted to have my property switched to her name.

She stated she was a bad seed. It all started when she moved in with her aunt in Coronado at a young age. She started stealing money from her to finance her mother's vehicle. Ingrid also met a gringo that worked at the Horseshoe Casino and started phucking him for money. Soon the bullshit started (RFM) and he stopped seeing her. She had told me she had an old boyfriend, but he had died. Come to find out he is still alive. She was just tying up a loose end. So the bottom line is she got use to the money at a young age.

Getting married to me actually was a tactical error on her part. It stopped her from getting the tourist visa that she wanted so badly. All that crazy madness for nothing.

Upon arrival to the states I contacted an attorney in CR and was advised to hire a PI to prove adultry. So, since that time and now I had to act as if everything was okay with me and her. When I was advised the PI had enough evidence, I approached Ladiablo and my wife while they were having dinner at the Sportsman Lodge. I pulled him aside and explained my story. I just wanted him to know what type of person she was and what she was capable of. She told me that she was banned from the Sportsman Lodge and now I know why. So during our conversation she walks over and states,"Ray, I only married you for the visa." I already knew this and was glad that Ladiablo saw her true side.

Currently she is pursuing an old gringo living in Escazu. I hope he reads this post and takes care. Ingrid stated she no longer needs Ladiablo or myself, because she has found a rich gringo.

This nightmare is finally over and I can put it to rest. I was so tired for a couple of months and now I feel better. I can move on with my life. Thank goodness memories fade with time.........


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:37 pm 
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Where is Berk when you need him?

I do feel bad for you guys who get caught up in this. I have a "rescuer" personality so I undertand that it would be easy to fall for a chica who seems to be on the up-and-up yet down on her luck. At least you found out the real deal before it phucked up your life.

Live well, and monger on.

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Crookedcr wrote:
Where is Berk when you need him?


:lol: :lol: :lol: I find the title of this thread to be very accurate.

It's a "game"... you gotta be careful. I have said this before. Certain people have certain issues that predisposes them to do really foolish stuff that flies in the face of good old common sense. The "gulch" is not for everyone. It can be a dangerous place for the lovelorn. Hopefully, folks will read and learn.

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Stingrey,

I feel for you and I hope the hurting is over. Berk says it best, The Gulch is another world and it is all a game. Whenever someone walks in The Gulch they have to realize it is a fantasy land, and play accordingly. Yeah, it's easy to fall. Who couldn't? Beautiful women, caring, loving, and hot sex all the time....but...they've got their game going and are more sophisticated then we give them credit for. It is easy to underestimate them b/c they live in a 3rd world country, but, you know what, they live in a big city and have street smarts and survival skills that rival or exceed their US counterparts. Every monger has to remember this. WIll some find real and true love? Yes, but it will be a small percentage. If I wanted to truly fall in love with a Tica, I would search anywhere in CR except The Gulch and Jaco. It would require more effort but the success rate would be higher. As for The Gulch, enjoy it for what it is, a man's fantasy land to go down party like crazy, drink, gamble, and bang hot chicas. And the museums, theatre, blahblahblah.

Thanks for the story b/c you are helping the CRT brothers who read this. Please keep the posts there b/c I believe you may save some guys a lot of heartache, money, and hassle.

Kudos to the relative who warned you. She had your back. Are you pursuing anything with her? Hey, I gotta ask!

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StingRey:

appreciate your willingness to share what had to be a very disheartening episode in your life. You mentioning your divorce of the young lady made me wonder just how many divorces there or each year between North Americans and Costa Ricans. This should be a retrievable number and would be very interesting. A real cynic ( that would be me ) if he could find that number could start a thread led off by a clicker that would count each divorce giving a running total. If he was a real jerk ( could be me ) he could also include estimated cost.

Once again thank you for your willingness to share. If more people would be as open about their failed attempts to find happiness maybe it would start having an effect on those who are in the process are considering it seriously. Maybe they would see what a longshot they're taking. Congratulations on getting out with your soul and may the scars heal soon.

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wow You cant make this stuff up!! It still amazes me how cold and calculated they can be ,its like a telenovella over there . So far Ive never seen a successfull relationship with a monger and a Puta ...some dramas are still going though.....well see. Good luck friend and thanks for Sharing this . JG

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JerseyGringo wrote:
...its like a telenovella over there .

You want a telenovela... Try being at their table eating dinner when the shit hit the fan. :P I didn't know what the hell to do with myself. :lol:


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In one of the Looking EVIL in the eye threads, ORANGE wrote:

LaDiablo and StingRay... whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.


Wise words.

...And the whole saga is great lesson for our side...

All the best fellas...the healing will continue...

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StingRey - All I can say is "Wow..." A full-blown nightmare. If it wasn't so dramatic, sad, and far-reaching, I'd say it's not possible. But really I know it is. We see what we want to see, hear what we want to hear...and we think we can "cure" them. They appear so sincere.

I've been hangin' and more with a girl in Rio since last August, but she never turned a trick. Not once. I see how she lives, struggles, and how the thought of taking money for sex is not even on the radar with her - no matter how bad it is. That's the way it is with non-putas. It's not even tempting. Oh, they may talk it up sometimes - like another girl who once said to me she loves sex, and loves money, so why not go to Help Disco and do both. But it was said with a twinkle in her eye which said, "There's no way I would ever do this, but it's funny to talk about." She, by the way, is studying to be a lawyer.

A real non-puta will hesitate ever talking about money with you. They are afraid you will think poorly of them, and that they only want you for your money. I had to get angry with my girl to level with me. When I found out some details of what she was going through, I was shocked she kept it to herself.

It's been said here many times. Once a girl accepts even a coin with Lincoln on it, she's changed - and forever. Now if you offer, that's different - but only is she never turned a trick - not even once.

I'm glad you're doing better.

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I agree with Berk. There area lot of lovesick men wandering the gulch.

However, I have the most sympathy for the men who think that they can box all "putas" up in a neat package with all the "once she has taken a dime she is changed forever" crap.

Yes, these women are "playing" men, just like every gold digger in the US. If you try to play their game, you lose. All that means is that you have to play a different game if you want to get them out of their "puta" scenario. This is virtually impossible if you are already starry-eyed over her puta persona. In a nutshell, you can't push the same old buttons as every other swingin' dick and expect different results. Just my $.02.

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glad to see you post rey.
i know you had hopes and dreams with this girl and i guess i am more qualified then most to say i understand why.
i wish i didn't represent the destruction of those dreams in your eyes. if i put myself in your position i would have a difficult time looking at me.
you married her. she was your wife.
i never spoke of marriage with her and never promised her anything. we casually(i thought) spoke of her one day visiting LA.
apparently she took that to heart and used you to attain that goal. it is one of the cruelest things i've ever seen.
this together with the loss has got to be very tough.
as i have said before i think this is more your story than mine.
i always knew she lied but had no idea to this extent. regardless of whether or not she comes from a different background this was exceptionally cruel.
i again thank this board for limiting my exposure
but to say i have been left jaded by this experience would be inaccurate. wiser yes, jaded no.
i still believe in people and do not find this to be a defining moment in my life. it would take a lot of space and time to list the shitty things i have done to people esp women in my life.
the lies and deceit i have perpetrated upon humanity are extensive and hideous. i do not take pride in this part of my life.
but i became a better person and chose a different path(yeah it lead me to the gulch, lol) at some point. i can only hope the same for her.
and peace for you rey.


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LaDiablo wrote:
but to say i have been left jaded by this experience would be inaccurate. wiser yes, jaded no..


LaBiablo,

I believe that denial is always the first emotion to go through in something like this. The fact that you are "wiser" versus "jaded" is somewhat semantics IMHO. I wish you the best of luck and appreciate your postings.

StingRey,

Thanks for your post. When you feel more comfortable with it, could you please give us a "look back" break down of how she played the game? It sounds like she had much experience but came across as an innocent beginner. I have read a couple of posts in the past few months about the "sweetness" factor of these young girls and just too many guys are falling for that. Yes, there are sweet ones but, IMHO, you need to start with the premise that the girls are playing you and then have them prove you different not the opposite way. Thanks and again I wish you the best in the future.

Have a Great Day,

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Rey, did you get divorced from this girl. Was it in Cr or the US? You didn't mention if you were legally still bound tothis chica. She certainly is attractive.


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Thanks, alot for telling your story. It is very helpfull for all of us to remeber that these story's are still going on and that human nature has not changed.

If you want K*ds get married. From this story I can see again there is no other reason.

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I missed all of this while I was in Thailand. Looks like I need to catch up.

Stingrey,
I really feel your pain and I'm sorry for everything that happened. Thank you for being so open and honest in telling your story. Hopefully somewhere someone will learn from it.

On the other hand I know a guy who is married to a former "Del Rey Deb" and it seems to still be working after 18 months.

But as we know there are many stories in the Gulch. And evil in the hearts of women is not unique to "working girls". I suppose it could have been worse.

As an example of pure evil, right here in the greater Atlanta area we had a woman who was suspected of poisoning her boyfriend (a firefighter) with anti-freeze. Once word got around some law enforcement types starting wondering about another of her husbands that died about 10 years previously. This guy was a county police officer in a different county.

They exhumed his body and ran some tests. Sure enough, the bitch did him in the same way.

You just never know what you're going to come across in the love/money game. Let's be careful out there.


Here's the story:

Wife found guilty of killing husband with antifreeze

PERRY, Ga. — A Georgia jury found Julia Lynn Turner guilty Friday of murdering her husband in 1995 by feeding him antifreeze.

Moments before the verdict was read, Turner told Courttv.com she was thinking positively and was mentally prepared for any outcome, but added that she would not show any reaction.

True to form, Turner remained completely still and displayed no emotion as she was pronounced guilty of "malice murder" at about 7:30 p.m., and immediately sentenced to mandatory life imprisonment.

Turner, 35, was charged with the killing of her husband, Cobb County police officer Maurice Glenn Turner, 31.

Turner is also a suspect, but has not been charged, in the 2001 antifreeze-poisoning death of Forsyth County firefighter Randy Thompson, 32, with whom she had been having an affair at the time of her husband's death.

Glenn Turner died in 1995 a day after being admitted to the emergency room with flu-like symptoms.

Lynn Turner's family sat quietly and did not cry when the verdict was announced. The families of the two victims sat in the second and third rows of the courthouse, holding hands and trying to fight back audible sobs as each juror affirmed the decision.

For the relatives of Glenn Turner, it was a breathtaking outcome, an answer to a question they waited nine years to understand: How did a healthy man die so young?

On March 2, 1995, Glenn Turner was admitted to the emergency room complaining of flu-like symptoms, but was released after reportedly feeling better. He died alone at home the next day and his death was initially attributed to an enlarged heart.

Six years later, Randy Thompson died shortly after visiting an ER with some of the same symptoms. His death was also ruled heart failure, but when a Georgia Bureau of Investigation medical examiner found calcium oxalate crystals — the telltale sign of ethylene glycol poisoning — in Thompson's kidneys, authorities exhumed Glenn's body and found the same crystals in his kidney tissues.

Lynn Turner is also a suspect in the death of her boyfriend, Randy Thompson, who also died of antifreeze poisoning.

"The simplest solution is correct: Two men died of ethylene glycol poisoning, two men were having a relationship with Lynn Turner," prosecutor Patrick Head said during closing arguments Friday.

Turner's defense had asserted that the two deaths were not all similar, and there was no direct evidence tying her to the only murder she was charged with — her husband's.

But in what may have been a critical decision, Superior Court Judge James Bodiford allowed prosecutors to present evidence about Thompson's death and his relationship with Lynn.

"I think a higher court is going to really have to take a look at that," defense attorney Jim Berry told reporters. "We heard more evidence on the Thompson case than the Turner case. If we had tried the Glenn Turner case alone, in my heart I believe the verdict would have been different."

Jury foreman John Glover told reporters that the similarity of the ethylene glycol in both men, romantically linked to one woman, played a major part in their finding.

Yet after deliberating for almost five hours, Glover said, not one juror left the room until each knew "in our hearts and our minds" that they had made the right decision.

Lynn Turner was taken into custody, outside the presence of the courtroom and the cameras, and transferred back to Cobb County where she will be permitted to spend a short period with her two Ch*ldren, whom she had with Thompson, before being taken to prison.

Prosecutor Jack Mallard said that a Forsyth County grand jury will meet some time in June regarding the Thompson case.

Perry Thompson, the father of firefighter Randy Thompson, said that the ordeal had created a common bond between the two deceased men's families, and that he looked forward to seeing justice brought to his son.

He acknowledged, however, that it was difficult for all families involved.

"Our thoughts and prayers go out to them," Thompson said, referring to Lynn Turner's parents. "It's a sad situation for everybody."


http://www.courttv.com/trials/turner/05 ... t_ctv.html
http://www.crimelibrary.com/criminal_mi ... gy/14.html


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