Pacifica55 wrote:
I guess I miss the point: Neither she nor I got here by accident. Why should we quit?
To my way of thinking, the entire "happily ever after" fantasy is as made up as Coca Cola'a, Santa Claus. It was invented by women in an effort to permanently assure security (their ultimate goal). It only works for men who are willing to cow-tow for their sex or for women who are very submissive to their men. Somebody has to be the final authority of the partnership is constantly rocked with power struggles to its ultimate demise.
I have to wholeheartedly agree with your comments. It's all a fantasy no matter how sweet your novia is, because she won't always be that sweet.
As I take inventory of my life, comparing myself to my friends and coworkers, the one common thing they all share is that they are all completely miserable with their lives.
I've been single all my life, the more I travel the more I thank gawd that I have the opportunity to do whatever it is I want to do with my life. It doesn't get better than that, so why get married if you want to remain happy. Not to say I will never get married, because the woman of my dreams may walk into my life one day. But than again, maybe I'm just dreaming.
I met some smuck in Medellin who was about to get married for the third time, but he was out there chasing putas all day long. What the Phuck is wrong with people like that? Why do people insist on getting married, especially after two previous failed marriages?
I personally can not see myself ever meeting someone in a different country and bringing them to the US for marriage. What would be the point? Also, don't like anyone telling me what I can and can't do, nor do I like having to lie about were I'm going and what I'm doing to anyone. You will be babsitting someone 24/7 making sure they are happy, which would make me miserable after a few days, because I need time for myself, to make me happy.
After listening to some of the stories my married friends share with me about the wives, I wonder why the Phuck these people stay married.
A sweet woman always wants to change you, when she can't, everything goes to hell becuase she didn't get her way, but this won't stop her from trying until your life is one complete mess.
It's all a fantasy..... some just choose to live in denial.
Of course, there are some very sweet women out there, but they usually have a man they are making completely miserable already.
And marrying a non-pro puta is a whole different story all together with no good to come of it, not matter how sweet she is in your imagination.