Cheating on your novia - where do you draw the line?

GetRhythm · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 3:51 pm **Posts:** 3090

For those of us who have in the past or are currently involved in an assumed "monogamous" relationship with latina novias, I'm curious - what do you feel the boundaries should be with your "extracurricular" activities?

El Silencioso · **Posted:** Thu Jan 31, 2008 2:51 pm

GR,I don;t think it is as simplae a question as your poll make it out to be... :lol:

Several factors to consider voting in this poll in my opinion.

1) Is she an ex or current working girl ??
2) Are you living there ??
3) Are you supporting her ??
4) Who is she seeing behnd your back when your not in town

My answers would be
1) Yes (Ex)
2) No
3) No
4) Who Knows, I did not hire DougPI..

In light of these factors for me, I answered...Whatever you can get away with !! But at the time, I limited it to the MP's as I did not want the chicas where I was staying to talk to her behind my back.....

Very interesting poll though, interested to hear other opinions on this..

GetRhythm · **Joined:** Tue Oct 26, 2004 3:51 pm **Posts:** 3090

I don't see the need to complicate things. Remember, I said in the preface an "assumed monogamous" relationship. Thus, no matter her past activities or whether you're living there or not, you're now assuming she's being a good girl. And if you're not supporting her, the assumption is she has a viable means of support other than hooking.

D2864 · **Posted:** Thu Jan 31, 2008 9:53 pm

I said: Whatever I can get away with...

but this doesn't mean going wild every chance I get. It means to do it just to lessen that "trapped in rules" feeling that I get when I'm in a relationship. I'd also seek out hookers only so it is more about raw phucking than any emotional attachment.

LAdiablo · **Joined:** Tue Jan 23, 2007 10:48 pm **Posts:** 4583

i said whatever i can get away with because thats honest. but at the same time not in anyway she could possibly be embarassed by it. thats only fair. i have to presume she sees it the same way.

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sat Feb 02, 2008 10:39 am

For me this one is easy: Whatever I agreed to do is what I should do. If I said I wasn't going to have sex with anyone else then she gets it all. Of course, I wouldn't agree to such a situation but some may. Behaving with honor and integrity are important to me.

Jsmythe23 · **Posted:** Sat Feb 02, 2008 1:46 pm

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I don't see the need to complicate things. Remember, I said in the preface an "assumed monogamous" relationship. Thus, no matter her past activities

To me it makes a huge difference if she's an ex or current working girl. If she is there is about a 99% chance she is either playing you or has other financial/emotional issues where she won't be monogomous or a REAL novia, so to me it's a moot point.

However, if you're talking about a REAL girl, someone with good morals that has and would never engage in the pro actvities and it is a legitimate, real-life, fantasy free novia, then I think it could be a pertinent question.

*** Just to clarify, when I say REAL girl and good morals. I mean the type of girl who just comes from the type of family and has the type of mentality where no matter how desperate she was she would never even think about doing pro-work. It's just outstide their realm of thinking. My cleaning girl is a pretty hot Colombian and gets offers of up to $500 from Gringos to sleep with them. She could be making thousands a week for a few hours on her back, but she works cleaning my and some of my friends apartments for $12 for 3 hours of work.

Patriot · **Posted:** Sun Feb 03, 2008 10:58 am

Coming off what I thought was a real relationship, I voted for the lap dances etc.. I see no problem with that. Hell most of us go to strip clubs anyway.

Mine was a working girl but not at the DR or other places. We had a mutual trust in which she did not lie about her work and I told her if I strayed. I thought it would be better for her to hear it from me than her friends.

IMHO Pacifica55 has it right;

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Whatever I agreed to do is what I should do ... Behaving with honor and integrity are important to me.

Any lady will be pissed off at you for breaking your word.
Don't these latina women expect their man to be unfaithful and as long as they are provided for, financially that is, tolerate it ??

Travelman · **Posted:** Sun Feb 03, 2008 11:02 am

Easy....Honor and Integrity. And never make stupid commitments like that.

Hank · **Joined:** Mon Dec 29, 2003 11:20 am **Posts:** 2693

The response is about 60% anything I can get away with. I would bet the chicas answer to this question ( if they were to answer honestly) would be about 80% the same

Mikey Styles · **Joined:** Thu Oct 11, 2007 2:05 pm **Posts:** 293

GetRhythm wrote:

For those of us who have in the past or are currently involved in an assumed "monogamous" relationship with latina novias, I'm curious - what do you feel the boundaries should be with your "extracurricular" activities?

It is so funny, because one of my "novias" works at the DR and she gets violent with me if I even think about taking another girl upstairs. She says that what she does is work and what I am trying to do is for pleasure. There is definitely a double standard. I have to be careful when at the DR because she is always watching. Luckily, she only works from 5pm to 10pm. Once she leaves, I can go back to business as usual.

Papi Styles

Partyanimal1984 · **Posted:** Sat Feb 16, 2008 10:34 pm

Wow...that poll is quite revealing.

Well, I bar-fined a girl right in front of my novia in Thailand back in January. I'm a dog. But I am an honest dog.

-PA

Dapanz1 · **Posted:** Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:45 am

This one was easy.."Whatever I can get away with!!!" Period.

dapanz1

OldQDog · **Joined:** Mon Oct 09, 2006 8:03 am **Posts:** 187

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Just to clarify, when I say REAL girl and good morals. I mean the type of girl who just comes from the type of family and has the type of mentality where no matter how desperate she was she would never even think about doing pro-work. It's just outstide their realm of thinking. My cleaning girl is a pretty hot Colombian and gets offers of up to $500 from Gringos to sleep with them. She could be making thousands a week for a few hours on her back, but she works cleaning my and some of my friends apartments for $12 for 3 hours of work.

I always think it's funny when folks who buy p*$$y think that the folks who sell it are of less moral fabric to those who don't. Tell that to the thousands of women diaplaced by the Iraq war working the sex trade in Syria to eat and have a place to stay, the Nicas in CR without access to work but K*ds mouths to feed, the Columbians whose mothers are doing laundry on rocks in rivers and think their daughters are in CR working a good job sendiong them money, or the Tica who can't find work needs to feed the K*ds her ex left her with (and no money to support her) becaue they can't speak english as required by an increased economic dependence on foreign inventment. I think it's easy to romanticize about your house keeper - I just wonder if she is really making it off of that $12 your giving her sin propina.

By the way - I voted whatever I can get away with - cause I'm just a Dog.

Bri1guy · **Joined:** Fri Mar 28, 2008 3:11 pm **Posts:** 13

there should be another option on the Poll,,
a seldom shorttime is fine as long as its not a girl friend and only for 1 thing. Also not ever taken home or in your bed

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