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I have been thinking about this "don't send money" debate.

In a certain sense, you send money one way, or another. When you go home and get that RFM and roll on out to Western Union, you are just putting a down payment on the next GFE when you see her again.

If you pay up front and by the hour, you are just paying for it in installments. You can't deny that if she was really good and you click as a couple, you will be going back for more!

The moral of this story: Don't Send Money (unless you want to risk getting in over your head).

-PA

ps I have never sent money, but I can understand why guys do.

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Money = Sex?

You know, this may sound strange but I think I may have been set up for a life of mongering by my prom date.

Background: prom date was my gringa girlfriend for 3 years. We had been getting it on since about our first month together, and since it was her high school prom (I went to a different school), I thought I should pay the money to please her, and so I could at least nail her afterwards, in that prom dress. There is just nothing hotter looking (in the world of gringas, anyway) than an 18 year old American girl in her prom dress, and my girlfriend was no exception in that custom white strapless gown she wore. She looked great. She had this sumptuous pair of B cups that were just spilling out of it all night long. She had a great body. Tall, lanky blonde, she was. Yum!

The prom sucked, as you might imagine. It was overpriced, and I think the whole night cost me like $500 in 1970s dollars (like $1,500 these days). So the least a guy can expect at the end of the evening is pulling the girl out of that dress and rocking her cradle really good.

Midway throught the stupid prom after they serve cold, nasty chicken and canned vegitables, the horrible band is playing some cover of a Lionel Richie song, one of her friends asks me "so what and ***** planning on doing at the end of summer?"

Stupid me, I didn't realize that I was being asked the "marriage" question. I told the friend that I was planning on going to college. Of course I was planning on dumping my girlfriend. Who the hell wants to go to college and not be able to taste all those sweet coeds??? Well, it must have gotten back to my girlfriend pretty fast because by the end of the night, she was moody, glowering, sullen, and giving me some pretty nasty looks. But, I just kept looking at those magnificent tits.

So we ended up in a big fight. I still got her out of that dress and banged her but it wasn't easy. And ever since then, I have always equated $500 with being equal to a good lay. Thank god inflation has taken the edge off of that bad experience. Some of you guys know me as an "overpayer"...well, that is the reason why. My freaking prom date.

-PA

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-PA*

Well, not really. In my first trip, there was this Colombiana telling her friends about a guy (he had arrived to the Blue Marlin at the time) who had given her $600 to bring her sons to CR, and because of it, he thought he was entitled to free sex with her. She said "in his dreams", if he wanted to hit the "creek", he had to pay for it.

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Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly!

+1 on that! Paying her when you are not there almost never insures some kind of special experience when you return. If anything, it will degrade her performance. You gave her something for nothing, right? So why should she put forth much effort when she is actually phucking you.

I've seen this with WU suckers and their "novias" over and over again. Once you start paying her when you are not there she KNOWS that she is in control. She'll start canceling dates, have to leave early to take care of her bebe/mother/sick cousin, or just wont Phuck you much (if at all) because she "doesn't feel well". Of course in EVERY one of these situations she will expect to be paid in full, even though she didn't do all that she agreed to do.

I've seen girls plan to spend several days with their WU novio, take the money, then cancel a few hours into it due to some "family emergency". An hour later, while Mr. WU Sucker is in his hotel room jerking off while thinking about all the sex he thought he was going to have with his "novia" today, she is in the del rey making some extra cash.

I still have a hard time believing american guys actually send cash to putas via WU.

Like... really?

Come on, this REALLY? happens?

Scary world we live in.

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I understand that they are trying to save someone that really doesn't need saving. I understand that these women don’t really appreciate the gesture. The guys that are doing this think they doing something worthwhile when in reality their feelings are just being played for cash.

I am not saying that some of these women might not have genuine feelings for the guy. I am just saying these are the situations where Berks "it is all about the money" really is the truth. They will say and do just about anything to keep the source of cash flowing. Anything, that is short, of turning down money from any other source. The one thing that every puta has in common with every other smart businessperson, they are never satisfied with just one client. One client can NEVER give a puta the security that they are looking for.

Pft, of course this never happens! They send cash to their 'novias' via WU !

A man after my own heart!

Berk.....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

This is very true and as gringos we need to realize if we put all our faith in just one chica we are potentially setting ourselves up for heartbreak or a reduction in our bank amounts.

Never gonna happen. There is no free lunch except when seperating a stupid gringo from his money.

Nice.

Sending money is just as stupid as paying cien. If you must, paying cien is the lesser of the two evils. At least you are there for it and getting something. Don't send money and don't pay cien, it makes us all look bad, and makes it worse for us when negotiating. If we fatten them up with WU payments, you are improving their cash advantage and their leverage to charge cien. If we keep them hungry, we keep them at ciquenta, and keep them honest.

Any of my favoritas would never dream of asking me for a WU, they'd know better. And no I am not a cheapskate, we go out, have good dinners, dancing, drinking, etc. And when and only when the service is great, GFE and TDN at the least, I will throw a cien and that is because I like her and want to help her. She'll be appreciative but smart enough not to ask for more.

Heck, I've even had Ticas offer me gifts which I've declined realizing the sacrifice they make for something.


PURA VIDA!

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Livin' & Lovin' in Key Largo....oh....And the one in The Keys, too!

I heard about the site a couple of years ago. Haven't heard anything recently.. Talked with quite a few people who worked as writers, getting paid by how much they wrote and how good they were. Some were making really good money just answering emails 20-40 hours per week.

If that is the attitude, she is next to stupid, because he is eventually going back to the states so the smart thing to do would be to Phuck him good to keep the RFMs coming, but I understand hookers are the smartest fish in the pond.

Sounds like a lot of work to me - I'd rather keep the day job.