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Well, after five months of thinking I'd found the perfect novia, the truth finally kicked me in the face. For those that want the details, they will follow but sufice it to say, NO MATTER WHAT A WORKING GIRLS SAYS, SHE IS A LIAR!
I met Alicia (many know her, pic 6080) on my first trip, late April. Spent my last four days with her and thought she was the most perfect thing. Others on this board can back me up, she has an incredible personality and the sex is great. And she is an incredible 4' 11" package, 90 lbs.
I returned a month later for two months of Spanish and saw just her. Things went so well, I decided this is where I wanted to be, with her and her family of two K*ds plus assorted other relatives.
Returned just in time for the Anniversary Party. She went with me but showed a new side...began to drink. Had a lot of problems with her drinking and asking for this or that. But nothing major and it was all taken care of with a firm hand.
Well, we decide to move in together on my birthday, September 29. Well, the week leading up to it, she had 'family problems' and I know where she was for a few of those daysl. The last three, I had doubts. After one phone call, I decided to check up on her. Went to her house the day of the move and sure enough, NO ALICIA.
I leave and hear nothing from her on my birthday. Next day, she calls and bitches me out for coming to her house and hangs up. Later in the day, she calls and starts kissing my rear. I tell her I don't wanna talk about it over the phone so she makes the two hour trip to San Jose. Convinces me she was just out partying with frineds on her last night of freedom. Stupid me, I buy it.
Well, today we have an arguement and I decide it's time to cut the ties. I've had enough of her problems and bull****. I get a ride from one of her friends who was supposed to be partying with her. WEll, he comes clean and says she made $200 for three days at the beach with a group of gringos.
So now I know, I was the biggest fool. Please flame me all you wish. But this post is another warning from personal pain. Don't ever think you can change these girls. They have hearts of ice and all the want is dinero. She played me for every last bill she owed this month. Things were going so great. However, once all the bills are paid she picks a fight and kicks me right out.
Now I'm at a freinds house. Have enough money in the account to rent a room. Gotta do a transfer tomorrow.
Never in my wildest dreams did I think Alicia was like this. She had me totally fooled. Everything she'd told me in the past had ALWAYS checked out. Everything I could see had me convinced she was different. Now I know, there are no different prostitutes. They all care about nothing but the dinero no matter what is coming out of their mouths!

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The only thing that matters is happiness in all it forms...

Sorry to hear how things ended, my friend. Keep your head up.

Pro,

Sorry about your situation. She seemed like a sweetheart, and you two looked very happy together. As Mia2Ewr said... keep your head up. It'll pass. It may be time for Vegas Bob's pearls of wisdom - go and phuck five more, and try to forget about her. If that doesn't work - repeat process until it does.

Lo siento amigo y buena suerte,
MG

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

I'm just glad to se you posting again and regret your pain. After seeing you drop out of sight after meeting you at SL and over at Pacifica's place, worried several of us a bit. Welcome back. Time heals most things.

EV

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Providing humanitarian assistance to self employed chicas, one cash grant at a time.

Hey Happy Belated Pro!!! After cappucinos at the Presidente I wondered where the hell you drifted off to.

Almost sent doug p.i to find you, but Pac 55 and I could only muster 2mill colones and small coins from the central ave strollers. I think Ronie was up the street collecting all the loose change for his flight back to the U.S.

Chi trekker may have a dog available, much depends on the dogs ability to hold a razor in his mouth but that's another subject

Peace Out

Pro,

Sorry it worked out that way, but really, should anyone be surprised?

Zebra

They all do it...

even the non-pro's do things like this...

I think MG's answer, to take the VB cure is the best...

I want to offer my sincere condolences to one of the most genuinely nice guys I've met in all my trips down to CR. I know it's tough feeling like you got taken, but time does heel all wounds - and I'm sure you'll bounce back strong.

Happy belated birthday also! If you're still down there October 22nd, be sure to swing by ZB where I'll be celebrating my 50th (actually Oct. 23rd) throughout the day. Jagerbombs on me!!

GR

Every time I hear a story like that, It sucks. Sorry man, and trust me, start banging as many chicas as possible. After a while, those feelings will start to fade.

Prostoner,

Sorry about the heartache, partner. Even with this turn of events, you had a good run at it and enjoyed having a fun relationship with a Tica. Having done so, you became more familiar with the customs and mores of CR than many of us ever will. Also, it ended before you guys moved in together, sparing you that little bit of confrontation. Also, now you are free to bang all the other lovelies that are on that secret list you've been compiling in your head!! Make sure you don't exclude her sisters or cousins from that list!!

Ciaociao

Sorry to hear that Prostoner. I had a feeling that this was coming as you and I have briefly discussed about what may happened with your relationship with this young lady during the two CRT Dallas Chapter meetings. I'm glad that you have found out earlier in the relationship of who she really is and able to ended quickly. Others have not been so lucky and by the time they decided to get out of a bad relationship, it had already cost them much more of time, money. I guess it's time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off....and...move on.

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Live today as it was your last day, for tomorrow may never come.

Prostoner
It is times like these when I usually turn to my mentor on relationships, Sam Kennison. Go online and download some of Sam’s words of wisdom. Sam was asked once why he was so down on women. He replied, “A man never made me want to drive my frigging car into a brick wall.” Somebody on this board said to “Always rent in Costa Rica, never buy.” They may be right. Sorry for your loss, but like Mucho Gusto says, “NEXT!”

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Man Who Walk Through Airport Turnstile Sideways Going To Bangkok.

Lo siento, amigo.

Stories like this are what prevent me from ever using the word "novia" when describing our relationships with these women.

"Novia," is serious. It's equivalent in English goes beyond "sweetheart" or even "steady girl." It implies engagement to be married.

Call them favoritas, amigovias, panovias (from "panocha") or call them what they are, prostitutes.

I'm so sorry. I have feelings for a girl I met after the LD party, but stories like yours will help me harden my heart.

She sighed...""Tonight, I feel like the luckiest woman in Costa Rica." She also said, "Don't make me feel emotions I don't want to. I think I love you."

Of course my heart melted. Of course I walked on air! And of course...


<shouting intentional>

THEY'RE phucking PROSTITUTES!!!!!!!

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Pura Vulva! Wandering through the dark, I am El Ciego.

Pro

Really sorry to hear about this, wishing you a speedy recovery. I know you will bounce back.

Bueno suerte mi amigo, be down soon to party with you.

You ain't a fool at all. You did your due diligence, gave it a try and didn't lose a house or make a K*D with her. You survived and to the wiser.

I've seen this chit all over the world, America included. Is like big merry go round with 80% of women worldwide. Always having somebody and when dumped by one enamorado/novio on to another then dumps the new one when the old novio comes back over and over and over again....

I think so many guys want to do it right, be loyal, chivalrous etc. but always gettin the non-sense from so many of them.