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Yeah - we need to make a newbie rap. What are oretas??? Did you mean orejas??? Am I confusing body parts?

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Yeah yeah my mistake A favorite body part to nibble on!

And just to be clear, you are directed to have the America version in your head and not Capt and Tennille!

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Chi, I agree with JOsie. You had a negative opinion of working girls before you ever moved down here. Why in the world would you move to Costa Rica to date non-working girls?

Just my opinion, but I think your preconceived notions got in your way. You wanted to believe a fantasy rather than discover reality. I'm sorry it didn't work out and I truly hope that you and Dapanz are not permanently scarred.

Anytime we believe what we want to believe, especially if those beliefs are not based in fact, we stand a slim chance of having our expectations met. If we compound the problem by blaming the other for not living up to our preconceived reality, we are doomed to repeat the process ad infinitum or give up on women in general.

Buena suerte.

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Pac55 - I think you may have me incorrect on many accounts.

First, I never moved to CR to date any specific girl(s). I wanted a place to bang pu*sy on a P4P basis, and if I happened to settle down with regular girl, so let it be. A large reason for my move was business and lifestyle based. I fly to work every week, so it doesn't really matter what my location is at any time.

I wasn't certain Josie was call me prejudiced. How does my decision not to date P4P gals, because of all their problems, make me prejudiced. Confused.... was that directed at me?

I'm not EVEN CLOSE TO BEING SCARRED. Where did you get that? I dated a suspected puta for a few months, and kicked her ass to the street. I also never let her back into my life and never lost a penny on her. If anything, I'm just slight bummed I wasted time on her in my early days in CR, when I could have been swinging from vines and snatching up everything in sight.

Then, finally, we have to opposite perspectives:

1. You don't understand why anyone who move to CR to date non-hookers.

2. I don't understand why anyone would move to CR to date hookers.

We disagree on this point. Anyone who has spent enough time down here (like living here) knows where P4P relationships usually end up. So, I still don't understand why anyone move down here to date hookers? Are you still under the assumption that our only option in CR is to date hookers?

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Chi, it's much like the Easter bunny and Santa Clause, this puta love... I've kind of come to the mentality that like I won't bust the illusion for K*ds, I won't bust the illusion for guys either... IE, it's true but kind of like when you tell the 6 year old there is no SC...

I have to directly quote you here, because you have this totally backwards.

I never had a fantasy. I have never had a broken heart. My one relationship with a once suspected puta ended when I kicked her out of my place. I never once had regrets and never once looked back.

I thought it would be interesting to share an email from June of 2006. At the time, I was working in China on a project, but shortly would return to CR to give her the pink slip. In the previous email, I told her that I have friends that say they saw her working the SL. This is her response to me busting her being a puta:

I goin to tell you the tru i fell very,very sad i never spect you would believ that rumors.I am not that class of girl.I am a good person for that reason a fell so bad and sad.

I love to be with you is make me fell good and you know that but some times i think that you dont trust me.I think very much in us but if we have more problems for this everithin is goin to finish bad.

You know that i fell mucho love for you but you have to trust me and i goin to trust you.


Take care amor and i goin to forget this but i hope that this dont happen agend.

Love

For your entertainment....

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I think this demonstrates your prejudice against working girls pretty well. It appears that you believe that a girl who is or has worked is somehow not worthy of our time or attention.

As I have said too many times, they are women first and working girls second. The success or failure of a relationship (however you define it) is directly related to our preconceived notions.

Again, it is a sorting process, as with any women. We can't be blinded by our preconceptions any more than we can let the little head or our heart control us. In my opinion, we need to process real-time data as accurately as possible. When the little voice in our heads sounds a warning we need to listen to that voice.

It is only my opinion, but it seems to me that generalizing about women and sorting by occupation is fallacy. It hides our lack of understanding and provides a false sense of knowing and security. Many very good women will be dismissed without cause while other undeserving women are accepted.

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First - props to mi amigo P.R. - best ever song parody on CRT. Let's make THAT the CRT theme song...

I have a very simple philosophy regarding the thread topic "puta love". I fall in love with ALL of them for the length of time I pay to spend with them. I kiss them passionately, eat their pussies with gusto, phuck them like there's no tomorrow, etc., and expect the same out of them. This has made for some fantastic experiences - none of which I would trade for anything...

And when it's over, I move on to the next one. There is simply no way in hell any girl that demands or accepts money from me for sex will ever have access to that inner emotional part of my pysche where the capacity for real love and commitment resides. No way, nada, simply ain't gonna happen.

As many on the board know, early on in my C.R. mongering days I did fall deeply in love with a non-pro tica and carried on a nine-month long distance relationship. The break-up - actually instigated by me - left me emotionally scarred for a while, but recently we were able to spend a little time together again as friends, and now I feel a sense of renewal - open again to the possibilities of a real commitment. I've got other issues to resolve first that will prevent me from pursuing anything actively for now, but as much fun as the mongering lifestyle has been, I would still trade it all in a heartbeat for a real relationship with the right girl.

Just like everyone has a right to their own opinion. Everyone has a right to express their opinion. We are cool there. You might want to keep in mind, that you are still pretty new here, and may one day jump the fence to the other side. I promise - don't rule this one out.

I don't judge working girls for who they are. Hell knows - I had fun with them in my days. I only judge their worthiness as a girlfriend. That doesn't make me prejudiced. I just did a lookup - because I consider that to be a direct insult.

The definition of predjudism: making a decision before becoming aware of the relevant facts of a case or event.

Everything I'm saying is based on facts and my personal experience. Its also backed by many, many people, who are just tired of saying the same old thing, over and over again to newbies.

I also agree with GR - love them for the moment and then move on.

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GR - Good to see you posting! Hope things are good.

If you were referring to "P", I am sure you are aware that she was "working" more than one part time job at the time. As far as I can tell, no one can maintain a long-distance relationship over time.

Dating a puta: You say that no woman who takes your money for sexo will ever have access to deeper emotions. Well, for me, the process was a lot more drawn out than that:
- Our first relationship was cash based. I paid for an hour, she stayed all night.
- Then she would wait for me until closing time, ignoring other offers. I ended up taking her more times than not: the sex was off the hook so why search for another.
- Once she was staying all night virtually every night we renegotiated the price (to less than most guys pay per hour) for the nights that I chose her. On nights that she chose me (a lot of nights), I paid nothing.
- We renegotiated again so that I pick up her bills (about $300 per month, give or take) and take care of her needs. About the same situation as dating a non-working girl and taking her away from her job.

So what started as P4P has morphed into something different. I never asked that she not work but she hasn't for nearly a year. We are both happy with very few fights (mostly generated by our inability to always understand the other's language).

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Excuse the brief interruption here

That song in it's original form was penned and performed by an Oklahoman named, Willis Allan Ramsey, made famous by Spankys' favorite artists The Captain and Tenille Listened to it many a night in San Antonio along the banks of Cibilo Creek, Willis Allan did a much better job than C&T

Now back to our discussion at hand as they whirl and twirl

They do some serious light rocking! That Tenille was a piece of ass in her day. Sexy minx!

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wow, shit, you leave a thread for a few hours and it morphs completely...



Since we're divulging how their relationships started, I figured I would do mine...

We met on her 3rd day hooking... yes, I KNOW that's accurate, b/c I've met several people that worked with her at her old job at a place that closed only a month before she started working...

I paid for the hour. I paid for hour #2 right afterwards...

I paid for her to spend that night.

And that was the last time she let me pay to be with her.


I didn't give her a cent for being with me... I DID buy food for her and her K*ds, I did buy toys for them, I did take care of her, and I helped her build her house...

I helped her for a month when she quit the life, before she got a "normal" job.

She went through 4 "normal" jobs while with me.

Only once did she ask for $ from me.

Then the lies and shit happened, then we broke up, then we fought, etc...


Just thought I'd let ppl know.

I was in Colombia and did not read Pacifica55 post.

Pacifica55 who the F**k are you Dr. Phil, dude chill your old ass down. My post speaks of my experinces not yours.

I respect your view point but don not try to play my views down. I said what I said and it's my experince.

I am tried of Mother*uckers on this board attacking everything someone says. I been a member for a while now and I don't post cause some of you are ready to pounce on any words a person post.

If you got a problem I will invite to my house in Costa Rica any day to discuss the matter further.

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