www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I think its about options.One trip you might feel like spending a lot of time with 1 or 2 girls another trip you might go for more variety.I have enjoyed both.

Interesting GR. I never thought of this angle. I would guess mutually we know a lot of members, none of which I could ever imagine flat refusing someone a session with her.

Particularly if it's more common then one might think as you say. At first, I'm thinking if I were the one who wanted to see what's up but one of my peeps let me know they would appreciate me not pursuing while he is still there, out of respect, I certainly would.

But if it has happened often, and with separate members, that somewhat surprises me...

Cujo

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Grasshopper, Snatch the pebble from my hand. Grasshopper snatched the pebble from The Master’s hand held it up and started dancing around the temple chanting “I got the pebble, I got the pebble.” As Grasshopper was moon walking by the Master holding the pebble out and taunting. The Master grabbed Grasshopper’s hand and effortlessly put Grasshopper on his ass. With one foot one Grasshopper’s chest the Master removed the pebble from Grasshopper’s hand. The Master told Grasshopper, “I teach you knowledge but not wisdom. I teach you manners but not courtesy and this is my fargging pebble.”

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A worthy topic of discussion for the rank and file here at the Wifing Up Doesnt Suck Club!

There was a thread on ISOC on this topic called I think the "Do not touch" or "Hands - Off" List i think that addressed this question...

JimmyDR and his very hardcore cronies appear to have taken the view that any guy who got into any "emotional" connection with a P4P chica is a moron. And that any such guy that doesnt want you to do "HIS" chica is a subject of derision and contempt, and the sooner he is showed the error of his thinking the better. That's fine if you take the tack the these girls are nothing but soulless Phuck dolls...but not everyone feels this way.

Many of us like to actually talk to a chica a little...sometimes we wanna say more than "Ill pay you 500 pesos for an a hour of anal." Its just another way to play the game...making it a little less BORING quite frankly. Sure much of the time there is not a whole lot there. But sometimes you are quite surprised. I actually had a conversation about Nietzche with a chica at the Blue Marlin years ago...reported on here in one of my early trips. (Of course that was a deal breaker ) Some of us are open to experience a little more stimulus than say, Barbie's BJ... thats why we are members here...

So having said that, if you see a chica you like who is in a wifed up situation with another guy, how do respond?

Some guys on ISOC said it depended on how tight they were with the guy in question...

Klockman and others made a point on the thread that if the guy and the chic were obviously diggin each other why cockblock the guy and Phuck it up? Plenty of chica in the sea.

GR remembers an incident at the Medellin Mansion where he acquired a chica's number when said chica was a guest of another monger (a non MM girl) and a spirited debate of "monger etiquette" ensued. Was he wrong to get the number?

Ultimately I think it all depends on the chica. Many chicas when they are wifed up will refuse to do their "husband's" friends... at least when the husband is in town. Im sure this mostly has has to do with dinero preservation...as she doesnt want to risk pissing the guy off and ending the money flow.

I like to wife up for sure, but the overwhelming majority of the time I am passing around and sharing the lovelies amonst friends...sometimes I offer up the wife...if she's game. But if a guy is wifed up pretty solid with a chica I dug, I would go to the guy and ask him for contact info...if he's not down to share I respect that... and I would not whine, complain or get pissed off about his feelings.... Chances are the marriage would run its course and Id be good to go at a later date

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There are several gents that I've met and befriended during my short time in this hobby, and if they've developed a connection with a girl that I've yet to be with, I see no problems hunting elsewhere.

I only have two regrets, one girl made my "no fly" or "touche pas" list after I agreed with her best friend to only be with one of them. Since then, her star has risen considerably and when she swung by my room last trip, she hinted that it was weird we hadn't, ummm dated. My second regret is a girl who's very close to 2 CRT'ers, I assume they each know the other guys fishing their private stock but in any case, I've kept their confidence and not gone there so to speak.

Most of the chicas that guys wife up with, I wouldn't want anyways, to each his own, I guess.

My touche pas list is entirely MDE girls and currently has 7 names, although I did receive an e-mail today from the guy that asked me to not phuck his novia saying they had broken up. It'll still be weird to see her around the MM without my buddy but hey, thems the breaks. Of the 7 girls I agreed not to sample, 4 of them are on the list because of other chicas not mongers.

As for poaching, I subscribe to the rule that if the MM invites a girl, she's welcome to work and pass out her number till she can't walk anymore. But if a guy has made a specific request thereby assuring the girl of work, it's not not cool for another guy to ask for her number, nor is it cool for her to use your invite to book future work. It's happened to me several times (I don't invite fuglies) and once a guy does it, he's nothing to me.

It's just not cool

Just as a side note, I've never asked another monger to not pursue a girl I've been with. I was asked once about how a girl behaves in private, I gave an honest assessment, guy took her anyways, then wanted to bitch to me later when she did exactly what I indicated she would. We all think with our dicks, but sometimes a sober pause can be beneficial.

Non-pros, family members of p4p girls (unless indicated as eligible) are simply out of bounds...AFAIC

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Bravo

Cujo

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I would never do such a thing...especially with a gorgeous, playful and sweet Tica Named J* and NOBODY has ever seen me engage in such foolish behavior...

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I have been coming to the gulch for 14 years. In that time I have done a total of 4 TLN's.
Two of these were in the last year.
Does this mean I'm getting close to wifing up or maybe I am just noviaing up.

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I'm one of those who, even when I decide beforehand not to do it, always end up wifing up and I can say that it does sucks indeed.

It's true that most of the time I enjoy the company of my short term wife, but once I get home I go like "what in the phuck did I do?"

I travel to sample different chicas. If I wanted a wife (or girlfriend), I can get one right here. As a matter of fact, I don't date local women because they all are looking for a long term relationship, like in making you say "I do" (Uhmmm maybe I should direct them to this forum as we have plenty of puppies here searching for love!)

Anyway, things are changing for me...for the better. Lately I don't come back from my monger trips in love like I did at the beginning, and there's another good thing. I tend to not to repeat with the one I loved before, I did it twice and the experience didn't measured up to the first time, so what bother?

I know that several of you have had good results with "the follow up", but maybe I didn't have your luck because when I was silly enough to give away my contact information, once I received the "Hola mi amor"/"when are you coming back?"/"I miss you so much!"/"I love you" followed by the "times are hard, I'm not making any money" line (of course, written in very basic Spanish grammar), I ignored anything after that.

Anyway, if you wife up or don't, it's your problem, but if you ask my opinion, I will tell you "don't do it".

As for JimmyDR's I.S.O.C and a few others hardcore guys in here, thank you for your help. Your advice has helped me to see through the BS sooner than later!

Guys, have fun and Happy Holidays!

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Gypsy

Methinks a little P4P sweetie tugged at those heart strings a bit, no?

As a vet here once said, "I play close to the fire because it's warmer there" But we all know,,a little TOO close and...

In which case I strongly recommend a heavy dose of hit-em hard, hit-em fast JimmyDR style plow em rough like the souless Phuck holes they are! You know those dominicanas and Haitianas at the disco can take (and enjoy) a healthy beating! Or as they say in Escazu/San Jose..take the VegasBob cure...CRT's recommended tonic for the aching heart

One thing...don't cofuse Wifing Club members with puppies looking for love NO NO NO Sir! The Wife Up Club is for adult dogs ONLY! Newbies need not apply: i.e ROLLTIDE i.e PROSTONER (at the time) i.e STINGREY..
I always like to cite STINGREY because here's a guy that got duped into a sham marriage, financial debacle, even got pulled off a plane because of his foolishness while another vet here wifed up with the SAME "beautiful creature" for YEARS and by all appearances has had the situation well in hand...

And an "O baby times are tough" email doesnt have to be the end of the world...as my marriage counselor once said,just "reflect her feelings" ...isn't that all they REALLY want us to do?

PS...I have enjoyed reading your posts and your perspective for years..thank you for sharing, PR

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Well so I have reframed from wifing this trip but yesterday I was used as an afternoon booty call .. Chica that I know and have repeated with a number of times calls in the afternoon, I am walking taking in the sites. She says I have a problem . I am thinking oh boy what could this be an how does she think I can help. I say what’s the problem, she says I am horny and want to see you, can I come over! I’m like really. She says I am shopping in town with my son and is going to have some relative take him for a little bit and come over. Half hour later she is at my hotel attacking me.

I feel so dirty and used!!!!!

Of course then late last night I end up with a new girl who was a disaster.

I've wifed up my past two trips, and it has been awesome. I didn't spend the entire trip with her, but I did generally enjoy my time with her more than the strange I got when we weren't together. The first trip was more like multiple dates and a couple of TLNs. The second trip I took her to the beach. Sex with her is great, but learning more about Spanish and CR culture with her is something I really don't get from others. I think I'll continue to wife up with her until I get bored, and I'll also continue to tap strange while I'm in country. The way I see it, it's the best of both worlds!

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Ok, I have to confess -- I am currently wifed up in SJO with a little darlink and so far it has been extraordinarily good. She just left after spending all night.... coming back tonight.



P.S. Of course, now that she's going home I'm going to see the mistress. And the novia... and if I can fit them in a favorita or two. You know, business as usual.

mh

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Nice MH! Sorry I missed you at the M, but as you know, I wifed up, novia'd up, kicked them all out for a semi-pro and then went back to the wife for make up sex! All in all a great trip!

Peace, Love, and to each his own,

Don Rico

Well, you're not that far from the target. Every trip I used to come home like a wimpy puppy in love and I was heartbroken for like a week. Of course, I kept in touch with my "new found love", but it didn't last longer than a week because that was the time it took for their hand to reach my wallet, but I'm kind of stingy when it comes to money. I use to put on a balance my heart and my money, and well, my insurance would pay for a heart transplant but it wouldn't refund my money. So, it was an easy decision.

PR, I understand the real meaning of the "wife-up club" and I have to say that up to this point, I belong in the club, but I want out. Oh man, what I've missed for being "wifed-up". One night I was in Classico's around closing time. I was standing by the bar counter keeping the rythm and "my wife" was dancing. Then this young, beautiful thing comes to me and ask me in a voice that could melt your heart "¿tienes novia?". I knew right there that the mongers' God was hinting to me that I was being considered (and had a good chance of winning) "the most idiot monger" trophy. Feeling sad and sorry for myself, I said "si" and the girl just walked out of Classico's. Idiot me even had registered "the wife" as a guest in my hotel!

I mentioned the "puppies in love" because even when they don't belong in the club, they certainly read it with interest!

As long as you know where you stand, you can do anything because once you feel the flame is getting too close to your ass, you get the hell out of Dodge. That's my target. With every trip, I'm getting closer.

As you can see, my experience comes from being hit on the head with an sledgehammer!

You're a good guy and maybe one day we'll meet in Sosua -I love the damn place- or maybe Colombia. Any plan for Medellin, let's say around March?

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