We cannot get over the fact that we met them as putas. Most do not even like the word "puta" as if they are delusional to think they are not! We buy into it since man thinks with his dick. They think with their wallet what they can buy with your money. I try to think mine is different. Maybe she is and maybe she is not! I never asked my lady to get me other women, but, I am going to do that. Maybe she will and maybe she will tell me to phuck off.
But, that is not a deal breaker. I see your point, 500-600 a month to help her out and she still works just as hard except when it is raining, and now she has even more money.
One time I did something which you guys might think was cold. I said to her "I gave you 700.00 for being with me one week. I said if you were working massage room the average pay per client would be 45-55 a client. I told her that would mean 15 clients, 15 cocks, 15 possible foul smelling smegmas and 15 possible disease problems. I said my 700 is far better than that. Well, she got pissed off. I put it in math terms and all of a sudden I am the jerk?
I just used logic. Would you rather drive a cab and pick up 40 different people and possible mugging etc etc or one person and go 100 miles to AC?
I do not think we as Americans understand their mentality as a whole. Being a puta is fine. No one looks down on them in their circle of friends. Their pu*sy has been invaded since they were 12. Usually by a family member. Their mother probably did the same thing. Their sisters did the same thing.
In Nica land I mentioned previously that sisters do their own brother if he is sans girlfriend or broke. They look at it as plain and simple release with a person they care about.
I met a cab driver who told me he gives free rides to putas for a blow job or quick phuck. The average cab fare...nine dollars. He is getting them fresh and cheap. We are paying through the nose. He never falls in love with a cab fare.he fucks them and drops them off at the Del Rey.
I have seen puts kiss the driver as if the driver is their husband.
around and around we go, is it "next" to see how many pu*sy we get inside of, is it a favorite that we like and feel comfortable with and know that she is 3 input and always ready for u?
Last time I looked, in the dark a pu*sy is a pu*sy but a talented woman that gives you all different positions, cums all over the sheets and then gives you a prostate massage is far better than arguing with a puta whether she will suck without a condom. Even when they said they would downstairs.the scenario changes and gets a little ugly. Now the experience is not as good as hoped.
We all pay, and sometimes we latch on to a lady. Like I said, I always do this and I always get hurt, but ah, the middle portion of the relationship is 100 per cent the best.
Strange I have never felt that way about an American hooker. Is it the country? Is it the party atmosphere? Is it the fact it is legal?
I give up. Many on this Board say they know the answers and are the best at this sport. I say they may maintain their posture, but maybe they get caught and just don't talk about it.
In closing, it always hurts when a lady you like/love is selling sex to a client. We have all seen some, not a majority, but some of the guys who demean the ladies, who push her head down and make her gag, who insert a dirty finger in a violent manner, who high five each other about paying less than the other guy, who slip when backdooring and plough into her ass, without lubrication or approval….yes we hate to think our lady meets up with someone like that. We all hope they are gentle, caring and just want to have fun. We forget that some guys do this for a power trip and act out what they would not dare do in the USA. And it makes us wonder why the ladies would like to tempt fate with a mathematical equation of x men equals this amount of abuse, danger, assault, disease etc etc.
One more thing, the guys who abuse the ladies, however small a minority, those guys make it difficult for us to enjoy a lady who has had this done to her. Since we are all humans, let me say that even if you pay, it is still the providers right to say “no†to certain acts. My girl has told me about things that have happened to some of the girls as well as her that would make you disgusted with people in general.
My neighbor works in Mexico Hospital in San Jose. He is in the emergency room. He has treated many women for anal tears from forceful rape by a paying client. He can tell from the “clock†position if a woman has consensual sex or forced sex. There are tell tale signs. Yup, it does hurt to know that a person that you care about, any puta not just an Amiga but any puta, it hurts to know their next client could be their last. Now if you love that puta, to think about the things that could happen other than a straight pay for sex, to think about sordid events involving your lady..Well, that will hurt and continue to hurt. There is no way it cannot play on your mind.
I expect a bunch of “I told you so†type answers, but, even if you do not fall for a lady, to know this might happen is cause for concern as a caring person for their fellow woman/man. We all want the putas to smile, be happy and give us pleasure. That is the goal we hope to achieve. Along the way I have found there are many “pitfalls†along the way.
I apologize if this is moribund or too deep. But, I feel better writing about it. It just may make me re-think how I treat all people, men and women, in the future.
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