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Yes the maternal instinct is alive and well in CR, the chicas adore and crave bebes, last trip one told me "bebes are muy importante, they are beautiful" Another one that didn't have any yet (23) told me she was getting old and wanted a bebe soon. I've never talked to one that considered any bebe a "mistake" but a treasure no matter what the financial circumstances or where the Papa was.
And don't even get me started again on the Catholic church's outdated, irresponsible, idiotic stance on birth control.

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Sad as it is, and this is world-wide, many of these young girls see having a baby as having something (someone) to love (and love them in return) unconditionally. I've heard this from young girls in the Dominican Republic, Costa Rica and Colombia.

They thought the young K*D who got them pregnant was going to be "the one" but when she gets pregnant and he splits they transfer all their love to that "little bundle of joy".

They also see it as a "right of passage" into womanhood.
These thoughts are inbred in them. The Catholic upbringing only adds to this illusion.

Unfortunately either there is no one in the family who tries to teach them anything else or they simply don't listen. Of course that is a problem in the USA, too.

That was something that struck me about the girls in Brazil in contrast to some place like Costa Rica. Many of the girls in Costa Rica get into the business to support their baby, the girls in Brazil accept "working" as a chosen profession, at least while they can make a living at it or someone takes then out of the game.

If you are one of these guys (and apparently you are) that rationalize that "they're ALL doing it for money one way or another" then there's really nothing left to be said (about that).

You are too far gone to be helped, especially by anyone here.

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Pac,

Sorry my friend but I believe you've missed my point.

I highlighted/quoted the prior poster's "I find it monumentally ironic and hypocritical for any monger to evaluate any chica for a long-term relationship and decide that her former hooker status is somehow more relevant that his mongering."

THAT is the point I was referring to, NOT whether the"varietal" male monger was "better" than a male non-monger.

My suggestion was that a male monger was better relationship material (even if only *marginally* ) than a prostitute.

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"Broad over generalizations" ??? Not sure I've seen (many of) those.

If you're NOT going to talk about things "in general" then there's no use to discussing ANYTHING because there are "exceptions" to EVERY "rule" (except maybe the one about "death and taxes" )

So give me a ratio. Your "best guess" of course.




Interesting point and you're almost certainly correct but as I believe I pointed out earlier we're only hearing one side here. Surely the gus IS to blame, at least partially in many of these cases.




If monogamy is no big deal in C.R. then how come a new "girlfriend" (in CR) gets so upset over 1 single picture in a guy's camera of a former girlfriend ??? Monogamy is (still) considered the WORLDWIDE norm and that's not about to change anytime soon regardless of how many of US think it's "outdated".




Now THAT'S fair (and totally accurate !)




And a GREAT attitude !

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Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat ?????




Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat ?????

I'm sorry; was I repeating myself ???

THAT one's simple - the former (racism) is wrong and the other (feminism) is right !!!




WRONG ! (but I certainly see how YOU would think it) Neither sex deserves to have a dominant role in our society ! And the "feminist movement" has done an excellent job of making the rules EQUAL, NOT "in favor" of women.

Now excuse me while I go get my panties out of the dryer......

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So you're saying omiting facts known to be important to the other person is NOT actually "lying" then, correct ?

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That's not logical Spock, you feminist bitch.

It's not about who deserves what it's about the natural order of things as they were for thousands of years, men and women are different and always will be. And the feminist movement has done an excellent job of screwing up men and women's thinking doing much more harm than good. Equality in the workplace, equal rights, fine but that's where it should have STOPPED. Women can't replace men and men shouldn't be acting like women.

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P55 - as a worshipper of redheads, you are now my new god. Rule on!

Watch who yer calling "bitch" fella - I'll smack you with my (man) purse !!!

"Natural order" of things Gracie ???

Wasn't all THAT long ago we burned witches at the stake and made African Americans sit in the back of the bus.....

Equal rights IS where it "stopped". If guys CHOOSE to go further (or is that farther ? ) that would be their choice now, wouldn't it ? (or are the women FORCING us to do so ? )

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Yes Kc, that's why their Ch*ldren end up, if females, doing what mom does and the males as criminals. I don't know where you get the proud part. Do you think that they are gonna tell you otherwise? If they were proud of their Ch*ldren, they would never be putas. That's not a sacrifice but an easy way out. If you could dig deeper, you'll find out that they don't take care of their Ch*ldren, that's the job of "retired" abuelas putas.
I don't care what you think about me but if you think I treat them (putas) bad, you are wrong. I've always been lucky with the ladies because I know how to treat them, but I don't fall for their BS.
You don't know what's their outlook, they just feed you what you want to hear and only you know why you tend to believe it.
Kc, why are you trying to put those "ladies" up in a pedestal? I know we should treat them nice and shit but let's not forget what they are because if we do, then we marry them and end up being the laughingstock of the neighborhood.

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I am all for equality AND mutual respect.

You obviously have not gone through a divorce with Ch*ldren involved.

You say the Feminist movement promotes equality: Hogwash!!!!!

What about the pro-choice movement? What they promote is Pro-choice for women. Men have NO SAY in the decision weather or not they want to be a parents. In a world where abortions are legal and women have a choice, shouldn't men have a say weather they want to be involved or not? Shouldn't a woman have to factor that in before she makes thier choice? What is wrong with requiring a woman to ask the man before she makes her final decision weather or not she can count on the mans support. If he says no, then then she should factor that into her final decision weather to go forward or not.

As a practical matter, in Costa Rica they have Pro-Choice for men, in USA there is Pro-Choice for women. Each is equally unfair and wrong.

You won't find a single woman in the feminist movement promoting Pro-Choice for men. NEVER, EVER! Feminism is sexism.

All you have to do is see how their eyes light up when they talk about their Ch*ldren. I am not saying that you treat these women badly. But your statement shows an underlying disrespect for what I consider a noble sacrifice on the part of many of these women.

As far as putting them on a pedestal, I am not sure that is the case. I will say that I have found a good many of these women to be extraordinarily fine people that are basically humiliating themselves and risking social ostrization (sp?) to take care of the needs of their Ch*ldren. I find that very noble and we should not be guilty here of disrespecting those women and their sacrafice.

That said, many are just money hungry bitches that care for nothing but their pursuit of material possessions. Many fall somewhere in between. It is a mixed bag, but we should not paint them all with the same brush!