Chi_trekker wrote:
country.
What makes us look bad - is your side. The locals are actually APPAULED when they see gringos come down here and treat these girls like princesses. Throw money at them. Spoil them. Show them off in restaurants. Take 'em to the mall and walk around with loads of shopping bags. They especially despise seeing the really drunk older guy with a chica 30 years younger in a place like TGIFs.
Give it time and you'll learnn - I hope.
I have never, not once, said that we should treat them like princesses. That is most certainly not my MO. I am the one the wears the pants with my Latinas.
I will also grant you that you make a number of good points. I don't take exception with much of what you have written.
My central point is that Costa Rica is all about "Live and Let Live". We all have our problems in life, some more than others.
What I take exception to is the notion by some that they are superior to the women in the trade because their problems are less extreme than then the puta they hire to bring them pleasure.
Further, it is not a matter of sticking up for Gringos that I take exception to. It is sticking up for Gringos that are jerks, the ones that think they are better because they have more money and fewer problems.
Those types of people are not welcome here in Costa Rica. Not by Ticos and not by the vast majority of us that are trying to make a life here.
You may not fall into that category. I am the last one to judge someone from a discussion in a BB. But I do know that there are plenty that come here that are like that. I have no use for those people and I have no problem telling them to their face.