Scuba1 wrote:
Culutral differences - when you marry a girl in Latin America,
you marry her family - with all the good and bad that goes with it -
you are also the bank - a concept most gringos are not familiar - or happy - with - often, many have Ch*ldren - are you comfortable raising someone elses - likely a deadbeat who does not pay support - Ch*ldren - if he does show up, do you want him around, especially if he has a criminal background -
you also know your "wife" would gladly Phuck him or suck him off in a heart beat, right......right????? And no matter what a scumbag he is -
would probably take him over you, all things being equal Have you ever been married (or even in a serious relationship-more than a couple of hours) to a Latina or is this just generalizations you heard from mongers around the breakfast table? I actually used to repeat some of these things to newbies who asked about getting into a relationship with a Latina, but later realized they are just stereotypes about low class Latinos, the type that would steal from their own family. By low class, I'm not referring to their socio-economic class.
1. What does "you marry her family" mean? That they want to invite you into their house all the time? I'm ok with that. It's a family-oriented culture. But I think you mean more than that, probably related to finances right? I don't, have not, nor will I in the future financially support anybody other than my wife and Ch*ldren.
2. "You are the bank" - if you're married to a gringa don't you support her? If you are referring to supporting the inlaws and her family,
NO. In almost 6 years of marriage, we have sent a total of maybe $2000 back to CR, that includes birthdays, Christmases, and also to help out. Always on our own, my inlaws are too proud to ask for help, or even hint at needing it. But I know things are tough there so ocassionally we help out with a couple of hundred.
3. "Your "wife" would glady phuck or suck him off"- WRONG again.
4. "She would probably take him over you, all things being equal"- well, they are not equal, so I guess I'm lucky in that regard.
To each his own, but mine's different!