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i used to think the same thing...american girls suck, etc etc....just be careful...they change within a month of being in this country....my wife is smart educated shes an auditor for a major accounting firm..makes more then me....but its just not working out....its hard enough to maintain a relationship with someone of the same culture, nonetheless different ones.....
There are no guarantees in this world. I know of several US/Colombian marriages that ended in train wrecks as well as an equal number that turned out fine and both people are better off for it. It is true that some women undergo a radical change upon entering the US, but so do many gringos. It's best to know each other for a couple of years before making a life-changing decision to marry a Colombiana (or any foreigner for that matter). And because of the cultural issues and family ties, it seems that when a guy moves to the wife's country, and adapts, the marriage seems to work out better.