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PostPosted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 4:43 pm 
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WHAT IS A PUTA :?:

1: An all business woman who sells her body and pu*sy for as much money as possible while giving as little of herself and her pu*sy as possible, and in as little time as possible :!:

but in almost every puta there ia also a hidden

2: Person who, though a puta who wants your money, is also a chica with another personality. A romantic, a chica looking for something special, a chica who wants to have fun and enjoy the experience, and who wants the guy to do the same.

WHAT IS A MONGER :?:

There are two kinds who come to Costa Rica and both are always easy to spot especialy for the chicas.

1: THE, "I am king, I am the boss, I am in control, I am going to pluck the hell out of these whores, these whores are nothing but a piece of meat to be plucked, mistreated, and often times abused. What brings out this personality :?: weakness, insecurity, and in many cases, a fear of involvement.

and the other monger

2: THE, I respect these chicas; yes they are putas, but more importantly, they are HUMAN BEINGS with feelings, likes, dislikes, emotions, and needs. He knows that the nicer he is to them and the more he treats them with respect, the BETTER the service and fun will be. And what brings out this personality :?: . A feeling of self confinance, a respect of others no matter what they are or where they are from, and a knowledge that one can be strong and incontrol, and say "NO" when necessary without being a pushover or getting involved.


Both types want basically the same thing--an off the charts sexual experience with a hot chica and for as little money (within reason) as possible.

Now which monger type continually gets the "puta" described in #1 above and leaves the session usually in less time than "agreed" to, complaining of how bad it was, how rushed it was, how she did not do the things she agreed to, or refused to do what "I TOLD HER TO DO" :?: :?:

And which Monger gets the Puta that is automaticly GFE, DFK, BBBJ, maybe even CIM, who does not care about the time, who wants to have fun, who wants to have climaxes, who wants to give the guy pleasure :?: :?:

AND WHICH MONGER ALMOST ALWAYS PAYS LESS :?: :?: :?: :idea:

I agree with Pac55 on this: Being afraid to open up and be acessable to these chicas only shows a weakness to them. These chicas admire strength, but hate rudness, and yes, you can show strength without being rude or cruel. Being nice, respectful, and courtious without being weak will reap benifits monger #1 can only dream of. The weakness is only there when one can not learn to say "NO" and "explain" why. To the chicas, a guy that is afraid to be open and responsive with her is only showing a fear of his own weakness.

As for Josie's list;

1-4: I totally agree with.
5: taking her to the mall--If that is what the two of them enjoy doing with their time together, why not, as long as the spending is controlled (in other words, the guy has confidance in his own ability to be nice but in controll at all times.)
6 and 7: Sure guys come here to pluck and pluck, and pluck; but if you are so obcessed with that, that nothing else is important and you show that you have no interest in her; just her body, then that is what you will get and what you will deserve--NOTHING BUT A LIMP BUSINESS LIKE PUTA :!: :roll: :idea:

all of the above is just the opinions of an old fart. OH!! and I do agree with JOsie in that there are some guys who come here that really should stay in the states; they just can not handle what Cr has to offer :roll: :wink:


BB57, before you had your eyes fixed we didn't always see eye to eye on everything BUT this might be one of the all-time best posts that you have ever written. Thanks for taking the time! Great stuff and a must read for all newbies and a LOT of vets IMHO...NEXT!

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this might be one of the all-time best posts that you have ever written. Thanks for taking the time! Great stuff and a must read for all newbies and a LOT of vets IMHO...NEXT!


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I agree and say one of the best posts on CRT ever. 8)

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Seems to me that Gypsy does not think it is worth while having a working girl as a friend.

BangBang57 and Pac55 feel that it can be a good thing as long as you have confidence in yourself to not allow any chica to exploit you.

I tend to agree that having working chica friends is nice but can also get messy because after all the great sisterhood of women whether Latina or Gringa have similar traits like being possessive and jealous.

So to keep your mongering simple IMHO it may be better to keep things "strictly business".

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Isra123,

Jealosy is a predominate trate of all women and especially Latinas, just as is possesiveness. BUT to me jealosy is a sign of a lack of trust in a relationship involving love, I am neither in a relationship nor in love with a chica; therefore there is no place for jealosy nor pocessiveness and if the chica can not live with that, tough and "NEXT" :idea: MP chicas are suppose to be extremely pocessive of their regulars and yes I occasionaly have one that wants to tell me I can not do the other chica in that MP--example: Prasilla said I could not do the other chicas in Club Extasis :?: :roll: So the next time I went in I did a dupla with her and her best friend, and she had to watch me doing her best friend--now she says nothing if I do one of the other chicas. But she still wants to C*m to my place everyday she is off work.(and for free) jejeje.

Pac and I both live here and, in my opinion, it would be rather boring, and inhuman to keep our relations with the chicas "strickly business"!!

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Yes, I see that if you are living there and are a regular at various places you will develop relationships with the chicas you meet often.

I suppose from my point of view as an occasional visitor (once in 2 years) I would not have the opportunity or inclination to develop relationships. Every time I return none of the girls I saw before are around. Even some of the bartenders are different !!!

Anyway I think we all agree that we should not let the girls exploit us and so as JOsie says if you are not able to say NO then you should not be mongering at all especially in CR.

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Working chica friends is a WHOLE different ballgame than working chica novia..... I absolutely think friendships can and do happen. I have had several friends in the biz over the years.


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Working chica friends is a WHOLE different ballgame than working chica novia..... I absolutely think friendships can and do happen. I have had several friends in the biz over the years.


I assume they are friends with benefits???? Now, this is the only novia arrangement that I would recommend in Costa Rica. I used to have two. We would go out to party. I would pay for drinks. At the end of the night, she would reciprocate with her pu*sy. Very nice and clear-cut arrangement. However, I eventually blew them off, because their drama and mind games got to me.

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I'm not afraid, I just see it as a waste of time.


Should I assume, Gypsy, from this and your earlier post that you never want to make contact again with a girl? Are you solely an LAL type of guy? :?

Not really. I'm not the kind of guy who needs a different woman everyday (nobody does) and I do like to make some connections. So, when I find one that I like, I stay with her for the whole trip.

I still communicate with the first I met in CR almost 7 years ago. She's ok and I'd love to be with her again, but even when I speak Spanish fluently, I can't find something interesting to talk about it. I just imagine how it would be for an educated gringo communicating with an uneducated chica in "Tarzan Spanish". Hilarious! :twisted:

I also communicate with another one and let's say that I'm in a situation I'm not comfortable with. I have a problem, I can do anything as long as I can justify it to my conscience, and in this case I can't find anything. She's very nice and does everything right. My guardian angel (I do really have one) is not helping me with this one, or maybe it is!


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I am offered contact info way more than 50% of the time. I have rarely, if ever, refused same. AND, I have never had a girl come to the airport and pick me up. However, I like the idea and if you are like me, then you know how important it is to get those horns trimmed quickly to permit the proper head to do the thinking. 8)

If that's the case, just talk to your hotel and ask them to let her check in before you arrive and instruct her to lube up and spread the legs for when you arrive. I don't think you'll phuck her in the back seat of the taxi, would you? :D

BB's posting portrade a guy like me like a monster ready to devore the poor providers and that's far from the true. I respect everybody and I'm pretty good with women of all walks of life. I'm what I cal myself "a civilized Latino". The best of two worlds! :wink: :wink:

I understand BB and Pac live there, so there's nothing wrong with keeping in touch with some of the ladies. I'd do the same in that situation. I said "not to get on the plane with contact information". If you follow that advice, you'll save yourself a few headaches.

All that "putas waiting for me", "phucked several women today" is just to feed the ego, but you can't fool your brain. Just take it easy, don't try to impress your fellow men. It's not that hard to figure out the true. Give or take 10%, we're all alike.

You don't need a puta waiting for you at the airport.

Now if my daughter is waiting for me holding in her arms something like Pac has in his signature, I'd be a very happy abuelo. Yes, weak me might even shed a tear or two!
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Seems to me that Gypsy does not think it is worth while having a working girl as a friend.

No, what I think is that it's not wothwhile to stay in touch with them once you leave. The true of the matter is that those who stay in touch are doing it for something else than friendship. Why do you think the ladies are finding out about them being talked about in places like this?

By the way, I'd imagine that it's hard to have a real friendship when our friend has a pu*sy. That's very distracting. Now, if that friend is old, that would be a different ball game. Have you noticed that all those lady friends are young and attractive? Nobody has an old puta friend.

And this is not macho stuff, it's just the nature of the beast!

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Working chica friends is a WHOLE different ballgame than working chica novia..... I absolutely think friendships can and do happen. I have had several friends in the biz over the years.

I bet you phucked each and everyone of those friends. Didn't you TW?

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Working chica friends is a WHOLE different ballgame than working chica novia..... I absolutely think friendships can and do happen.


I absolutely agree. Here stateside I deal exclussively with FWB's. I hope it stays that way for a looooong time.


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To address the original post from a personal experience perspective:
1. Sends money to the novia: Only 30% or less of these have been honored and the amount was always less than requested.
2. Gives her a credit/debit card: NEVER, EVER, over my dead body.She asked and the answer was NO !! with no reasons given.
3. Takes her “off the market” while still living in the USA. Anyone is foolish to think this would happen. The only way it might possibly happen is IF you were living with her and then it is still unlikely.
4. Have never said “No” to her Here it is a 50/50. It depended on the situation and what was going on at the time and what we were doing.
5. On every trip takes her to the mall A couple of times for her birthday or due to rainy days and then it was only 1 or 2 items of less than $10.00.
6. Spends more time talking than phucking OK so here I am guilty but at the same time I enjoyed our conversations and our time together.
7. Spends more money in extra curriculum activities with her than on pu*sy We spent many hours touring around CR at my expense. Based on the number of hours spent together, the places we enjoyed, the number of times we screwed and the price I paid for the time spent together I got a great bargain. If you totalled it up I would have paid close to 3 to 5 times more by hanging out at the watering holes.

I agree more with BangBang that spending a little time before hand goes a long way towards a good experience. My recent experiences have netted me contact information which I would follow up on. If they responded I would keep it going. If they didn't respond in a reasonable time frame, 2 weeks or less, the information was trashed. In a few cases a response of "Who are you and when did we meet ?" were sent.

Regarding PACs philosophy of being in control:
I have found it does vary from chica to chica. If you are too much in control she will either run away or you can't get rid of her. I haven't found the best way, for me , to control the relationship.

In general I do prefer the one on one style relationship and the bond, whether temporary or permanent, that develops between us.

I have 2 or 3 "regulars" I always make it a point to see when I get to CR and we have a great time. They know I know they are "working" and it probably won't go any further than that. If they are not around when I am I do not give it a second thought about finding some one else. It took a while for this to happen but even my ex or current novia knows this is what I will do when I am there. And know she has stopped pulling the same crap I used to let her get away with.

As many have said CR is not for everyone. People have to find what works best for them. They need to read through the board and figure out, or try to figure out, what will work for them.

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I check in everyday to watch my novella.. Come on guys, more often...


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To address the original post from a personal experience perspective:
1. Sends money to the novia: Only 30% or less of these have been honored and the amount was always less than requested.


WTF? :roll: :roll: :roll:

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To address the original post from a personal experience perspective:
1. Sends money to the novia: Only 30% or less of these have been honored and the amount was always less than requested.


WTF? :roll: :roll: :roll:


Yep - You cannot teach STUPID!

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