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Forgive me for butting in but I just got back from the DR and like many of us became enchanted with the country and I am reading all the DR threads (while listening to Bachata of course!)

Sorry Jersey ...with all due respect, brother, I have to roll my eyes at your quote above...you are trying to impress a girl by saying you don't expect her to Phuck you? IMO...That's our gringolandia ball-shrivelling culture at work! Maybe its some later manifestation of the concept of chivalry don't know...but its exactly the reason why we leave our culture for those south of the border... She's latina... The more leche you give her the more secure she is that you will give her all your attention (and dinero) and thereby she'll be content... By saying what you did you either confused her or she thought O BOY...I've got a winner here!" Not surprised you got the classic RFM...

PHX

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I agree with PR about the quote. That shit would've been gold with a gringa, but Latinas think a little differently (Thank God).

Hey thanks for the input fellows.

Party animal -there is no way this girl is a Hooker your gonna have to believe me atleast not the kind we seek at the Delrey .

ElCiego -Absoloutly a demonstration of her passion . the madness! and yes we had a great time ,she blew it though Hey thanks for the interesting input . Though Im sure she needs the money for school and maybe i would have sent 50 to help but her reaction to my mere hesitation was the Key factor here .

Pheonix- I didnt expect sex from her ,what I meant was Im not traveling to DR to get laid by her ,if she dosent want to then I wont hold it against her which is true but Ill bang somebody else when you leave .Did I want sex from her ?duh maybe expect was the wrong word I should have said I wont DEMAND it lol

This girl is crazy about me I can tell and is why she is so jealous and emotional . She had a good thing for what it was .But her upbringing and ,enviiroment and prevoius relations are factors in her decision making ,what do i expect? Im a American she is Poor in 3rd world ! she wants money and I want Poontang. simple formula I think .
Oranges thanks for the input
No regrets but I wouldnt see her again I cant trust her . The fact is MOST people I see on here who talk about some Latina novia down south agree they have sent money for something or another at some point ,it is expected . But I just get real turned off from it . Maybe one day ill except it but for now its NEXT! JG

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Sorry bro...more eyes rolling here In the first quote you say you are going for sex and adventure hopefully with this lovely little DR internet introduced hottie and now you say you are not travelling to the DR to get laid by her...WTF?

Then you make the point that "DUH" of course you wanted sex... this is all very confusing amigo. Why make it so complicated? You said when you met you kissed her and there was chemistry...why didn't you pick your spot and invite her up to the room? If she wasn't ready I'm sure she would have let you know. Latinas don't have the whacked out view of sex that we have in our culture. They generally view it as a normal natural and pleasurable activity without the hang-ups we have. I bet she expected to have sex with you...and would have been happy to satisfy you. And I bet she expected that YOU EXPECTED SEX. And if you were the gentleman you appear to be there would be nothing to be ashamed of.



Here we agree. There is always a flow of money from the man to the woman. If you want it the other way around stay in the US and change diapers while your wife goes to work and pay your bills...then try to be in a man in the bed! Nothing wrong with helping a poor girl out..."you pay for it one way or another" is one of the CRT ten commandments But you have a sack swinging between your legs and you want that taken care of first. And just remember who controls the check book!

PHX

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Ok pheonix you got me , I travel for sex next time ill just shove a 100 bucks in her face at the airport and have her blow me in the taxi

I also agree with the different view of sex .Unless they have a strong catholic upbringing (some)And to be honest these girls always mentioned they wanted sex but next time I will not tell them sex is an option I will tell them its 90% of the reason I am coming and if you need some money tell me now so I can budget you in my trip .Aside from victoria sercret .food ,buggy rides, casinos ext.... ofcourse ... JG

Actually I need to change my online profile to have reflect my agenda more but I need some help .There are alot of witty dudes in this site an im sure you guys can come up with something for me .I thik this could get pretty funny let me rip !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Member -jerseygringo101

About me- hey ladies im an middle aged International sex tourist .Im looking for a hot young latina to rock my world for 3 days while im on vacation to have some resemblence of love and affection inbetween my boring and hopeless existence in the USA .After our vacation I will leave atleast 3 days so I can bang atleast 6 prostitutes and take fotos of them to show off to my downtrottin friends in the states I like seeing historical sites so I can bring fotos back to my family and friends to justify My trip and hide my sick deviated sexual exploits .

Education- Working on masters in mongering at CRT

Likes- bare back blowjobs , skinny ass'es , 3 somes , cim and getting my salad tossed .

Dislikes - gringas ,american woman ,fat chicks ,bitchy attitudes ,jealousy and over priced colombianas .

Hows that for starters?

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Just one minor edit....

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JerseyGringo,
What's wrong with you? What happened in your past that led you to be so clueless in the ways of women? Your attempt at being "witty" as only masked the fact that no matter how much you travel you still don't get the big picture.
My God, man, EVERYONE knows CIM should be capitalized! Everything else looked right on the money to me!

BTW, Latinas often create drama or make requests/demands just to see how a gringo will react. They like to "test" us.
It's all part of their "novela" mentality.

Hummmm very interesting wit I was thinking the same ....that act is a Female thing not just a telenovelatina (wow I created a new word) I post my shit here to get opinions and share information for the next guy not to get flamed for contradiction a few words .This is the first good piece of information Ive gotten on this one . The girl is emailing me her sad passions everyday now but its too late .Im actually courting a paraguayian from Escazu . Im not giving up on the non's Im just getting started, but im polishing my game . Thanks

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Jersey, I think you handled it just fine; if you are dealing with a civ I am not sure telling her you want to know her JUST for getting sex with her is helpful - I think just having some general discussion about sex beforehand so she knows implicitly sex is on the menu is fine. It worked out for you, you had a great time with a hot chick, and left on good terms (despite the RFM after), didn't ever promise her 'compromiso', I see no problem.

As for the RFM and sad emails, that is part of the downside with the nons, you will get a tug on the heartstrings - if she was strict P4P it is much easier to turn down a RFM. Given the experience you had I wouldn't write her off necessarily - if you want to see her again you can tell her you will buy her a TV or something next time you visit and it might lessen her 'sadness', but good for now to apply your focus elsewhere at least. There is almost always a slippery slope with the nons no matter how you approach it!

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She's not a working girl but a hairdresser. She's poor although she doesn't appear so since she makes her own dresses , does her own hair professionally.

We met at a singles event at a restaurant near the zoo in San Jose and had dinner at the Newscafe 3 times subsequently. It went really well . She has charm, personality plus I speak Spanish very well.

The problem is that it's impossible for a poor woman to get a visa to enter the US. We tried twice with two different stragedies.My way : Leave me out of it ( per advice on this website) then use my letter of acceptance of responsibility and financial support. It costs $150 a pop just for the interview. It failed both times.

Now she's fading from my mind and at most I'll call her when I revisit in January. Maybe a trip to Manual Antonio.


WCH

PS - Oh did I say I met a really nice Peruana at a dance here ( San Francisco, CA ) last Friday.

It seems I just experienced a test of sorts with a peruvian emamorada, an engineer who works in Piura Peru, 19 years my junior. I first met her briefly a year and a half ago at the end of an extended stay in Peru; at the time we had a nice day together with some kissing and good mutual chemistry before I had to return to Lima. All contact since then had been online and by phone.

A couple of weeks ago (just after I arrived in Lima), she told me she had been robbed and had lost 300 soles (about $100). For her that is a lot as her salary is very low and she doesn't make enough to save. I felt bad and said I would give her the money to make up for that. Beforehand we had established that I was not looking for compromiso and would be seeing other women, and although she wants more in a relationship (her dream is to marry a good man and have 2 bambinos) she was agreeable. In any case after I arrived in Piura we had a lovely time the first night and nice first-time sex - given the above and the fact I am pre-vasectomy, made very sure condom was securely in place! After a couple of rounds and a couple of hours she left to sleep in her own bed down the street, and 15 minutes or so later I was drifting off to a very relaxed and contented sleep when I heard the 'ding ding' on my cell. Of course it was a text from her asking me to confirm I would have the 300 soles for me the next day and that I didn't forget. Just couldn't help but chuckle to myself at that moment

In the end the follow-up to our couple of days together was a surprising lack of drama on her end, we had a couple of friendly IM chats as I was back in Lima. But for me in the end the thing lacking in this relationship is the conversation factor, we don't seem to have a whole lot to talk about and just kissing and making love only goes so far. Well, the fact I no longer live in Peru would be a problem too; this type of rather quiet provincial chica is not one I would ever want to take out of her native country for an extended period of time. I do think her story of being robbed was real, but I don't know for sure and realize, whether the girl is a P4P or not, these stories are as often as not just stories as actual happenings.

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Hey welcome back friend and thanks for the gradual updates in my hi5 ,sounds like you had a great time !

-your not sure if she is p4p or not? I think you just found out lol:)for real ,if you dont have an intellectual connection then just pay the tab and move on .I think this is the reason we go after non-p4p girls becasue we are looking for something we cant find or dont even want from a p4p that is a connection ,something real . thats why these strictly whore mongers guys beat on us so bad when we fail because they just don't get it ,or just dont want it . we take it in stride .... I was just saying to a friend that american girls have never asked me for money only latinas down south when all the sudden I met a girl online from my area she met me for ice cream with her K*ds she is 14 yrs younger then me has 2 Babi*s and is colombian raised american .Before she left she asked me for $10 in gas !! I couldnt believe it ! she is single mom struggling I can see it so i forked it over with pleasure .

Hey you guys who are lurking these threads pay attention ,this is a priceless Education in telenovelatina 101 .

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Hey Jersey....yes I had a great time although things fizzled a bit towards the end for me in Lima, will return over Christmas and New Years to hopefully take care of a couple of loose ends.

No, this one was as 'civilian' as can be from a conservative family, conservative by nature herself with not a lot of prior sexual experience, works very hard at her job for little - she just was in need of money and I do think she really was robbed....and was happy to help her out. If she hadn't wanted sex I still had agreed to help her, it would have been a downer but I was pretty confident things would go fine as we already had established personal chemistry and I had set expectations. But problems of not getting the sex you want in the end, or post-coital dramas, are always risks when pursuing the nons.

As I hinted at above, chasing civs sometimes (at least for me) is too much chasing and not enough getting laid, so I may fit in a 100% P4P 5 day trip over thanksgiving november; DR or Medellin are my possible targets.

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