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There is no end. You can give them all you have and when they finally realize you are at the end of your rope, they will move on. If you give them a room , they will want an apartment, if you give them an apartment, they will want a house, then a bigger house, then a car, jetski, bla bla bla. I have never seen a tica-former puta happy with anything.

Thanks Guys.

Yes, I was able to end it in a peaceful manner, but I had no malice in my heart for what she had done. I only felt the firm resolve that I had previously expressed to her that if it ever happened as so many of you regularly warn, then she should just pack her bags and move. There is no discussion as to why since it is not relevant. You cross that line and you are history......except for some overnight visits after the move. (Surftown, I'm trying to preserve this privilege. So far, so good. )

I agree that many of these women can detach sex from emotion. We gringos are used to the female brain and pu*sy being connected. Many of the CR chicas behave like a 14 year old who just got boobies. Any guy who tells them they're beautiful is only one step away from getting some pu*sy.

In my opinion, the reason so many guys in CR (gringos and Ticos) constantly hit on every girl they see, is because quite often it works.

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

She's a good hearted woman? Not from what I have read. It seems she was taking everything she could from you.

Years ago I had a Harley and had befriended a stripper at a local club. She invited me to help her do some electrical work and then take a ride. [to put things in context, she had been willing to meet me at a motel and pay her 150, then she goes back home instead of dancing all night for 200] So I helped her wire up her home, took about 2 hours and we went into her home, she sat in my lap and my hands went inside her shirt. No way, the deal was still 150 to Phuck her.

At that time I realized that, no matter what, I was still a customer, whether inside the titty bar or not. Fixing her electric did not enter to the deal.

So if you meet a gal in CR, whether a place like Zona Blue, Idem, Blue Marlin, you will always be the customer and money will always be a part of the deal.

If they want a good phucking, they will find some young Tico stud, about their own age for that. Use older guys are nothing but walking ATM's.

Also you guys who post about novia's (girlfriends) that you meet in these P4P places, crack me up. Some young Tico stud is most likely barebacking your novia anyway.

I don't mean for this observation/question to be offensive in any way so please don't take it that way.

You talked a lot about helping this chica's 5 y/o son and doing better from him than his sperm donor was. You talk about how you loved the chica and wanted to marry her and take care of her.

Then things went to hell in a handbasket, and you broke off the relationship but the balance of your story did not involve any discussion about the welfare of the Ch*ld or any indication that you would miss him, worry about him, etc. What I'm trying to say is that your story left me with the impression that maybe you never bonded with the little guy and perhaps some/a lot of what you did for him was actually directed as kindness towards the mother.

If this is true, maybe this could have been an early-on warning sign....or maybe the chica was hoping to find someone who would embrace the Ch*ld more or less as his own and as she saw that this wasn't the case, maybe she lost some zeal for the relationship.

I'm not pointing fingers at you, and obviously you showered kindness onto the chica and her family and for that I applaud you. But what I am wondering is if there was more to the situation as it unfolded than you realized, maybe the chica picked up on things that you didn't really notice, and maybe that had something to do with her less-than-desirable behavior as time went by.

In any case, thank you for sharing this story, and I am glad you got out of the situation without too much damage.

Crookedcr,

In the interest of not writing too long of a saga, I decided to leave further discussion about the Ch*ld out. but, since you asked. He's very angry with his mother. Tico grandmother is very mad at her too since Tico grandmother had forced her son to sign the paper allowing the Ch*ld to move to the US with me. The last I heard is the baby's father is trying to take him from Jx. He's a Tico and she's a Nica, therefore she has no rights in CR and no $$ for a lawyer. This is the worst of possible outcomes, particularly since the father was recently shot twice in the back in a drug deal robbery.

I'm not sure that all this is true or whether she was telling me this to manipulate me into taking her back. However, it seems to be true.

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

This actually happened. Posted on another board by me.

Let me tell you a story about what happened in Costa Rica one night. I was in a bar called the Key Largo, a hooker bar. In one of the side rooms there were a couple of computers. There were a couple of chicas at the computer and one got up to leave. Talk about Phuck me clothes, shirt opened to the belly button, tits all hanging out. She rubs my dick and wants to know if I want to take her back to my room. I politely decline. Now before she got up, I could see her hit the computer mouse a couple of times............hmmmmmm.......I wonder what is going on. Well she has a window open at the bottom of the screen, and it was an email. Being nosy, I copy it and find a spanish/english translator and paste it. Seems her heart only belongs to her novio in the United States and she no longer works as a hooker.

Some of you may not care for my attitude, but my feelings are based on boards such as this, redsnake, club-hombre. I have read many posts by many broken and broken hearted gringos. I just feel strongly that a good relationship can't be made when you are introduced as a hooker/john. I think that deep inside our psyche most johns don't care for hookers any more than hookers care for johns.

Beware the illusion.

My first day at U of M in 1968.

The prof wrote on the board:

"Marginal Propensity to Consume:"

"The more you make, the more you spend."

The more you gave her= the more she needed/expected.

It's an economic and IMHO, an emotional law. It's true around the world and can be applied to every aspect of ours/their lives.

As you pointed out Lenny, she wasn't a bad person, she was just living the law.

I also believe that up to a certain point, the more you give, the more you get. You reached the point sooner than you would have liked.

Sure there are cultural differances but underneath all the nuances are laws of human nature and laws of economics.

Don't feel bad. Stories like yours happen to many of us who go for the gold. I did it too. My new motto:

It's better to want something you can't have.
Than to have something you don't want."

Pura Vida,

Luck

Bad move on her part then to phuck up a good thing for her son as well as her herself.

Thanks again for sharing your story.

I guess her behavior is very teen-like - never happy, always looking for something else, and unable to love a 'nice' guy.

This should be in the VIP section. People should have to pay for information this good. Oh what the hell is wrong with me it is not like anybody's going to learn from this experience. Right now there's probably at least a dozen 60 somethings out shopping for a condo in San Jose with their little twentysomething in tow.


Lee

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PS: DO NOT SEND MONEY!

Lee, if you know guys who are looking for a condo, mine is for sale.

So is the 1+Kt near flawless diamond wedding ring set

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

sorry for you pain lenny, these girls sure do weave some tangled webs with their lives.
would you invest like this in a tica again? appreciate your desire to keep it anonymous, at least to those who do not know you, and also admire you attitude in regards to moving on without too much remorse. good luck

The same thing that happens no matter what age you are in costa rica.

Hey Orange you seem to insinuate that it could be different for someone whos age is much closer in range .

Lennydo's major problem seemed to be he was unable to deal with an open relationship.

Age isnt the factor down there and as a disclaimer I am 42 and have been going to costa rica many years before this site was ever constructed.

If you can handle an open relationship,( on her side only), because she or her husband may actually kill you if she catches you with another women, and dont mind having your funds bled completely dry you will be fine.

Some guys just seem to figure the game quicker than others.Other guys inebriate themselves with their own fantasy and it takes them longer to come around.Some guys unfortunately just dont figure it out till its too late.

Look at the KING took him years to figure this place out completely.

Another group of guys think they long for and appreciate the C U L T UR E down there.
You dont know shit about the culture down there if you have access to thousands of dollars to blow on Putas .

You can only understand the culture by being completely broke , cheap, or having a shitload of money and being absolutely unwilling to show a speck of compassion or generosity to your fellow countryman .
Any one , two , or all three of the above will help you to Pura Vida.

Youd think as beautiful , caring , and wonderful people that the costa ricans are someone out of the 5 million could either set up an orpanage or a reform school for crack K*D and his posse.
Then again his parents are maybe shoe shine man or one of the other characters down there and this is just a way to make some more plata para la familia.

Buena Suerte,
CALI

Its A GYPSY CULTURE

laDiablo

Hard to say at this point. I had many people in my life who helped me in tremendous ways. Since I still have some money, I might. After all, what is there to do with the $$ but leave it to my son or to charity. Now don't think that makes me an easy mark.

I was aware of the pitfalls and was cautious in my approach with Jx. Perhaps that is why it did not take me weeks of anguishing about what to do. I had previously told her that if she did this and I found out, she would be just part of my history. There would be nothing to discuss except for how fast can she find a place to live. However, I promised her all along that I would not put her and her baby on the street with no place to live. She's now living with her mother in Pavas, I think.

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

Yeah, what is it about 2 weeks since the last true confession. I think that Third World hit it almost exactly right. The game is always the same, the players just rotate.

I posted before i read all the other comments . I dont post much anymore ,but I felt i had something to say about this.

Hey Orange take it easy pal
Dont start something by saying " I hope you dont take offense "
we've all been around.

You started the thread off basically by telling lennydo
You cant find a young women you're too old pops ???? right
And we all know you also meant , "If you were like me you could find a real winner like I did. " Right

I understand most New Yorkers are blunt and can be thought of as abrasive and confrontational (Thats the Culture), but inside have a heart of gold and would give a guy the shirt off thier back if needed, but not everyone else does.
GR didnt attack your GIRL

CALI

Its a GYPSY CULTURE