Chi_trekker wrote:
Ricotubbs wrote:
Well appreciate the advice,but arent you sort of brings the MORALE down ,by simply not giving CR Ticas a fighting chance to be recognized.I mean if their Profession is being a "Working Girl",thats fine.But there must be some woman who would nt mind the company of An American or Gringo outside of the bedroom.It Just seems like, most of what your saying is agreed upon,but some of it is BEING SELFFISH.If not jealous. Yes Costa Rica does sell more Fantasy than THE MAGIC KINGDOM. But Some Guys work hard all year to make one or two journeys south, to Central America.It Def doesnt help the Morale when, your saying stay away if you want more than XXx,because there are no available single woman in CR.Did you take the last available Woman with wings and a halo? Are there any Barnes and Nobles Cafes( b'cause I would take intellectual Woman.)
Im in Miami Chicas...
I don't know quite how to respond, if I understand this correctly. NO - I ABSOLUTELY DID NOT TAKE THE LAST GOOD ONE. One problem in CR is the pool of women is very small. There are good chicas down here. They are just hard to find. The first place to start, find a hotel away from the Gulch. Here's an idea... the Costa Rica Tennis Club has a hotel and if you stay.... I believe you get club privileges. This is where you might find an upper class chica with an education. The last time I went - it was mostly families... but I do believe I saw some eye candy.
Regarding intellectual chicas.... again you will be stretched to find well educated chicas in CR. Maybe you can find some with a college education???. However, the education level is not the same as in Europe or North America. Concerning the general population... assuming they went to Colegio and received a diploma... maybe they can read a newspaper???? Maybe not???
Regarding girls next door.... this is gonna be like finding a needle in a hay stack. Even the girls in the campo usually pop their seal at a very young age. Most are pregnant by 18. The girls in San Jose.... are lets just say fun and sexy.... but not very innocent.
Here is my opinion - Latinas strengths are sexiness, dancing, fashion, passion and living in the moment.
Weaknesses - intellect, wisdom, worldliness, economics.
Look for someone balanced maybe..... if she can pronounce correctly and discuss economicos. That might be a good a start.... good luck in this category.
Finally.... HOW AM I AFFECTING ANYONES MORALE???? If you're morale is impacted by anything I posted, I don't know what to say. If anything, you should see some hope if you are looking for a relationship in CR. I went through the chica gauntlett and came out alive and well. So, my 3 month experiement turned out long-term and okay. However, I have some advantage. I came down with an income plan and a backup income plan. I came down with lots of savings!!!! I'm younger... mid 30s. My spouse is also mid 30s. I have some game. I can walk into a normal discoteque in CR and pull-out chicas without too much to worry about. I now speak conversational spanish. Finally, I would only look towards paying for sex as a secondary alternative to masturbation. I find that the whole proposition left me feeling totally empty inside and burnt out. I don't even get excited about it. I don't have anything against it, I just don't dig it anymore.
Gotta run....
I am bumping this post, because I am bored and actually this is the 1st time I remember reading Chi's post and find his experiences to be particularly insightful. The first couple of times I came to CR was a long time ago and had some longevity as I was on the ground for 6 months (And no, I am not going to revisit that Old Chestnut, Mister Prolific) What I find particularly insightful is that Chi is actually stating that even regular girls in CR are a little messed up and I have to agree I met a real dozy the first time I nailed a regular girl in CR; yeah, she owned her own little house, but she had a slight cocaine problem (she would do it until there was none left) and was basically a mess.
Even the good girls I dated later did f-ed up shit, like cheating, pretending to be pregnant or trying to get pregnant, etc. So, his point about using caution, even within a relationship with a 'good' girl should be followed as they will do some crazy sheet, just to get to the land of the "Big PX" I regaled the audience here with the regular girl I was banging in Guatemala that conveniently forgot to take her bc shot right before a 4 day Turkey day vacation at Lake Atitlan (and yes, I should have used a condom, but sin condom is just too good).
So, I definitely understand his point about being cautious and kissing lots of frogs before finding the right one. Alas, at the current age and sex drive, the thought of meeting and marrying some little honey(Non Pro) in parts south is starting to fade, but you never know, they say if you find a good country girl in the PI or LOS you got yourself a real keeper.
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