El Viejo wrote:
I would say that Phantom has a point. If a guy had a successful relationship with a former working girl, then he would tend to dissapear from the mongering scene. If a working girl really didn't like the profession and her gringo was taking good care of her, she might be smart enough to do everything in her power to make the relationship work.
Not really.The scene, as it could be called, becomes a lifestyle for those who have been at it for awhile. Thier friends are still in it.So they meet buddys for drinks in bars and clubs with pros.They still stay active on the boards. Like a church, so to speak.
The most successful relationships I know of are between former pros and mongers.Everybody I know that went the civilian route ended up where your average marriage does, divorce court. But I know of so many pro/ monger relationships going on year 4, 5 or 6 I do not have the appendages to count them. Think about it. Say you fall for a doctor, dentist, or attorney. Tica or gringa, really not important. Her thought process is the same. She is with you for the ride. But she does not need you in any way whatsoever.So when the ride ceases to be fun, she will step off and go in another direction.That is the reality of life. The divorced guys know this already, so this is more for the younger or still single guys to digest.
But with a margin of age compatability (I posted about this earlier, look it up if you need to) you could have a very good thing. If she is a former pro, and from a poorer background, you are the great white hope.You will help thier daughter better herself, get a better job, and be able to send money home. If you speak the language to some degree, you will bond well with the parents. Get a good relationship with her Mom and Dad, they will always be in your corner. And this woman from a family engineered culture will be beside you for a very long time. You have elevated her status and she is moving ahead with you. Again versus your doctor, lawyer, etc. that views you as a more expensive alternative to her dildo.