www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Lee... you worn out old....ok, nevermind! I wasn't always this way. It was the 3rd trip that I made back in 05 (all within 90 days) that I woke one morning and smelled the coffee! Her name was Paula from MDE. I will be forever grateful to the bitch! just kidding on the bitch part. that's when I learned it was all a game... a fantasy.

Now... go back to your rockin' chair and that quart of prune juice you were sipping on!

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Damn it! I write about an experience on tipping and you can't even get the amount right! It was 42% on the money. NOBODY LISTENS TO ME!!!!!

Berk....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

LOL!


You lie!

A tax person can do taxes that is good advice. But how many love relationship professionals have great loving relationships? I would bet less than half Asking for help on this board of another Man or (Women) is just as good. Take the advice you can use and throw the rest away

NYG

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Damm that water is cold!!!
And deep too!!!

I'm going to go with NYG on this one. You would be hard-pressed to find a counselor who has had a relationship with a hooker from Central America. And even if they hand it wouldn't be on their resume. Every guy who has made repeated trips to San Jose has had at least one of these girls get closer than they're willing to admit. Every one of them has had to deal with it some successfully some not so much so but the experience is there so they do seem like the people that should be being asked.

Lee

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PS: DO NOT SEND MONEY!

A friend of mine from my hood is a psychologist at the CIMA. He speaks perfect english, so he has a ton of gringo clients.

YOU SHOULD HEAR HIS STORIES OF GRINGOS GETTING SCREWED BY HOOKERS.

He says that his average gringo client is dating a puta and usually has ALLL SORTS OF PROBLEMS.... They come in with anxiety and depression and some really crazy stories.

He says that the strange that these guys have in common... is they all have no self esteem and regardless of how bad it is.... THEY ALWAYS GO BACK FOR MORE. Its like some sort of weird addiction.

He has even told me that one client SENT the hooker/girlfriend to him for a few sessions to see if she could be straightened out. The first few sessions she just sat there and wouldn't talk at all. When she finally opened her mouth is was just pure hate.... about as ugly as it gets. She phucking hated the world... and especially hated her boyfriend.

Now who the phuck wants to sign up for that?

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In order to write about life, first you must live it! - E. Hemingway.

You hit it right on the head Chi... Or rather your friend did..

it is almost as if you know me. seriously, i deal with depression and anxiety. take a cocktail of three medications for it. it wreaks havoc on all aspects of my life, but the meds allow me to stay afloat in this crazy world that would otherwise eat me up alive. i find little hope in people in this world, unfortunately, and of the few people i have connected with one just happens to be a girl from the HDR. so i have a chance here to not be alone the rest of my life, an unusual situation for me to have some companionship in my life. i hope that upon my return i get a clear picture of who and what she is so that i can make a clear-minded decision.

note: there has been some really good advice here and i am grateful for you who have taken the time to share. some of the advice comes off a bit rough, but i understand that nobody wants to see me (yes, a stranger at that) fall victim to a bad person. thanks again.

I want to get in line. Is there a sign up sheet or something in the HDR?

Berk.....

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

What I meant to say is that the puta/girlfriends were the cause of it. If you want your situation to worsen, proceed as you are.

You are forwarned - she is NOT connecting with you in the same way, you think you are connecting with her. She is simply looking at your wallet. Nothing more. Hopefully, she won't take it all.

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In order to write about life, first you must live it! - E. Hemingway.

Man think about these connections a double dose connection of low self esteem....just got to work out right????? What a connection indeed ! But wait lets throw some mind altering medications in the mix with a twist of lime & some more Vodka...YES it is becoming much clearer now .

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"Run silent, run deep"
Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

This beyond misses the point- the purpose is not to get advice, but to engage someone who will help you work thought it yourself without platatudes and generalizations....

It does not have to be a mental health professional. A good freind who knows you well enough to not blow smoke up your ass, a rabbi, priest, however, someone to listen patiently...

As the poster above wrote, this is far beyond relationships advice.....

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I said hey baby, take a walk on the wild side.
Lou Reed

i went to CR, she was too busy for me. probably servicing other gents. this is probably best. ill drop this notion of being with her. what was i thinking anyway? meanwhile, yeah, the self-esteem is as lowas can be and the meds don't always do the trick. dont mind me, folks, i'll get by. if you see some crazy guy walking around, be sure to slap me to get me back to my senses. pyschman - do you offer services over the phone? im too embarassed to tell me shrink about this, having feelings for a whore and all.

The best thing that she could have done for you was to stay away from you.Move on amigo and remember it's all a fantasy.