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Agree with you Pacifica. Nurturing is what their GFs and moms are for. Giving security and leadership is what we are supposed to do...besides hopefully keeping our woman fulfilled sexually and romantically. Romance is not a four letter word...and not about nurturing. It is about foreplay and getting what we want in the end. Pretty selfish, huh? But hey...as someone once said...theres virtue in selfishness. And most women like/are attracted to selfish men ...

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I totally agree with that.

I think men can be sensitive in a strong way if that makes any sense. Woman more than anything want to see stability in challenging situations. I think it is more about maintaining a strong and stable posture, but within in that context it is powerful to show them sensitivity along with your strength. Getting overly empathetic and emotional is where men start looking weak.

Pacifica- wise as always. Looking forward to seeing you this weekend.

Damn... I love this board. Nothing like getting rock solid relationship advice from a bunch of divorced, whore chasin', cheatin' on their wives, I've got it all figured out, how much for an hour baby, gringos!

Berk......

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Yeah, I am frequently humored by the exact same thing.

If you are referring to me, Berk. I was last divorced in '83. At that time, I decided that the compromises required to share a household with a woman were not worth the rewards of vaginal access. The longer she is there the less I want that poosie and the more she costs.

I come to Costa Rica because I like to party with women under 35 and at 56, the gringa under 35 crowd is just not worth the hassle. I don't cheat on women that I am committed to so that part does not apply.

Berk, do you think the best advice on women comes from some old goat who has given it all up for one woman and stayed faithful for 40 years to a committed relationship or a confirmed bachelor who has been successfully playing the field and phucking a lot of women for a long time while maintaining his independence (not to mention bank account)?

Seems like a no-brainer to me.

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Seems " " are meaningless additions to a post.

Nevertheless, if I really wanted relationship advice I would ask someone who has been successful in a current, long-term relationship. I wouldn't ask a bunch of divorced, whore chasin', cheatin' on their wives, I've got it all figured out, how much for an hour baby, gringo or anyone else.

Seems like a no-brainier to me. And no, geez, the post wasn't directed to you, but if the shoe fits.....

Berk......

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FRUITCAKE... and you thought it was something you eat! Not on CRT!

Gentlemen, Gentlemen....

I feel like a school boy on the school yard all over again. Except, I learned to stay out of the fights and find the weaknesses in the girls instead. Sometimes (as now) I even stepped in to get a jab so that I would be a walking wounded, and thus even more attractive to the ladies.

Sympathy knows no social classes.



2008: The Year of Making Chicas Feel Sorry for Zeebrawon

Berk's OUCH that hurt because it is the truth !! Even though maybe the truth for many of us it is fun to see how other men function with their thoughts. Every now & then it gives me a new idea. It is only an internet BB but exchanging ideas is fun. Only when someone takes it all too serious we may lose something important like moderation & balance.

WOW one thing sticks out too me on this thread is how powerful the BOOB tube is. Role models , Male castration etc. from the big to little screens we all watch at times. Some times I watch people so intense their mouth is open catching flies & it ain't even real ! It can only be a powerful thing if WE let it be .To be honest I never watch a lot of TV especially now where even the news seems so twisted from what I see as the truth on the streets.

For me I only am sure of one thing that is that we are "alive" at this very moment. I am not going to base my life on any one book or belief. I am going to live it out according to simple principles I understand thru my own eyes & experiences. My experience & eyes have never failed to show me I feel much more "alive" when I am with good company that appreciates a fair exchange that is agreed on. Many times this has been more straight up & less bull than real relationships (in a few ways but nothing beats a truly good woman IMHO).

Too many things are all about controlling us for the good of someone else’s desires. Man, I am not going to have my life used up by others when it is the only one I know for sure I have got. I am nice & respectful but I sure don't need someone else woman, Govt or religion doing my thinking for me. This is why I value fellow mongers advice . Down to earth advice with guys sharing similar wants & needs . Really comes down to how we want to get the most out of this ride IMHO. I would imagine I will have plenty of company in the future no mater what I do. Hopefully it will be good company .

Now what was this thread originally about??? Oh yeah control !

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

It begs the question then:

Why are you here?