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You guys could do what i do. Take there phone#s, call your favorite when your in town or just before you arrive. DO NOT give out your phone# or e-mail.

Why not just send them $300.00 before they ask. That way you could honestly say that you didn't recieve an RFM, so she must love you.

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this one is different, i think you should send her some $$ you can always get a freebie when you are down there next....[/quote]

Win Win! It often the simplest answer that makes the most sense.

If he sends the cash to her, thru me...I will pull out a little share for myself each time and then not only will he be due some freebie snatch next visit, the beer will be on me. Use frequent flyer miles and the whole trips a FREEBIE!

RFM can work out. This is one example. Others may have more.

Anyone who gave in to a RFM ever got like a thank you card from Chica's sick momma, or a gracias nota from Grandmama for the much needed coin while I was on life support type situation??

Come on now, lets hear that "my RFM story that turned out well" story.

Mike This is the best way in my book for us to do it. I always wonder why men invite trouble in their lives I guess do to loneliness? Since we are always the payers why give them tools to try to play games with you? We should absolutely stay in TOTAL CONTROL REMEMBER WE ARE THE PAYERS!

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You guys have me laughing my ass off from the irony: You are in TOTAL CONTROL yet you are afraid to give a little girl your phone number or email address? I guess if you have a real problem saying "No" to women this may be the best policy.

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Pacifica55 wrote: [quote]You guys have me laughing my ass off from the irony: You are in TOTAL CONTROL yet you are afraid to give a little girl your phone number or email address?[/quote]

True Stories:

1) Prostitute gets a phone number from another one and calls a guys friend at his corporate office demanding to speak to Mr. Bobby. Receptionist like a fool plays Q & A with the hooker until they discover who Mister Bobby is. Call is passed to the guy at his desk. Now, the question is, do you think that if word got out would it have a positive or negative impact on the guy's career?

2) Married guy romances a working girl for a while; he leaves her and goes back to his wife. She gets the guy's co-worker's phone number from a non-working girl that the co-worker was dating. The hooker calls this co-worker numerous times demanding to talk to the guy who "allegedly" got her pregnant.

The guy was not a friend of the co-worker and had in fact, pulled a mean spirited joke on him, so pay-back potential could have been severe.

Both stories are true and had the potential to result in some very big problems either affecting the professional or personal life. Avoiding these and other potential problems is simple; just don't give out your contact info unless you have absolutely nothing to lose by having your non-mongering friends, family members and business associates know that you cavort with prostitutes. If you can't understand that, I can only wish you good luck.

situation 1: Hey receptionist, don't forward that person's calls anymore, its some kind of shakedown situation, someone is harrassing me. if you aren't treated with that kind of respect at your job, sue them, or quit.

situation 2: no harm done, the co-worker already knew the guy was screwing a hooker, he didn't NEED her to call and remind him. choose better wingmen.

"demanding" callers seem to really concern you, just hang up on them. And don't sit down with the white shirt guys that come to your front door selling the watch tower stuff just cause they are "demanding" about it.

if YOU have problems, keep your info secret....YOU keep YOUR info secret. Let others make their own decision on what risks to take.

Neither one of your situations would be any different if you gave your number out to some woman at church as opposed to CR. They could harrass you....