Chi_trekker wrote:
Well, lets start by saying they ARE BOTH high maintenance.
My puppy is having a difficult time with potty training. She shits and pisses all over the house. I have been forced to buy a crate and crate-train her. This still doesn't work.
My puppy is taking control of my life.
She likes to snuggle on the couch or in bed.
My ex-novia was also trying to take control of my life. I want this.
Is there a pattern here brother or what?
What is the dog doing on the furniture, much less the bed? I don't even let my dog in the bedroom.
Dogs are pack animals. You have to be the leader of the pack. If you don't establish that right away, then they think they are the leader of the pack. It is very important when training dogs to establish from the beginning that there is a hierarchy. If they know their place and you are consistent they will be well behaved and happy. The worst mistake people make is treating their dogs like Ch*ldren. They are not Ch*ldren, they are dogs and you have to adapt dog psychology. The worst thing that you can do is reinforce bad dog behavior with attention of any kind. The worst thing for a pack animal is to be ostracized from the pack. Use that.
Do yourself a favor and do not let your pets on the furniture. Establish a hierarchy and bounties for behavior from the beginning and you will end up with a much better dog in the long run.
I have raised 2 pit bulls that have perfect behavior and perfect manners. They are wonderful with Ch*ldren, completely non-violent and completely trustworthy. I never spoiled them and I never confused them. They know their place in the pack and are very well adjusted to it.
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Good luck with getting control over your life.