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What do you do with a chica when you are not having sex? I have asked this question to many a man about their wives and have heard all kinds of answers. Now it’s your guys turn. I read all about guys paying for TLN and wanting to bring company to the beach and all that, but what the heck do you do with them when there is down time? My Uncle told me he plays cards and I believed him because his wife is a good card player. So please let me know. I was married once for eight miserable months and never did figure it out. Serious comments or funny comments please I can always use a laugh.

You can always give them their cellphone back.

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It is cheaper to pay now and get it over with.
It is also easier to get them to leave.

I give them someone's else CC and tell them to have fun and when to be back. Only good things can happen, 1) they will come back really happy with me for being a free spender 2) they don't come back a) they ran away with "my" CC b) cause the cops got them

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My best friend was the clock on the wall, and he turned out not to be much of a friend in the end

Pay her to leave and do whatever I feel like.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MwUtj_YnNoY

That what I like to do. Pay them escort them to the front of my hotel and go and enjoy my vacation!!

If it is a long term relationship I would send her to cooking school then in those down times she could expirement with new dishes for you to try. And if the cooking school worked out send her to massuse school next. This could cover a lot of down time.

I kind of enjoy taking them on dates to zoo's or aquariums or other nature type activities as possible given the location. This doesn't require a lot of education to appreciate versus a museum or such and allows them to take pictures and share with friends. Kind of amazing that despite most of them being basically "local" or long-term visitors they don't get out to some of these attractions on their own (ask and find something fresh for them, & locals tend to get discounts on admission). Shopping at the larger malls & catching a movie also fun, pending controlling the spending for the day. Most are happy with a basic shirt or such for everyday use, and good company for breakfast and lunch. For the TLN, having someone interested in staying til breakfast means a morning shower if they're into joint showering is an awesome way to start the day and can lead to the need for additional showering and increased appetite for breakfast.

And hanging around in public with a hot date who doesn't mind so much you checking out other hot potential dates is always a turn-on as well. Instant in person comparison versus going off memory...

_Arcadeguy_

D.A.T.Y Bill Said it's not SEX

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"THE TRUTH IS' EVERYBODY IS GOING TO HURT YOU. YOU JUST GOTTA FIND THE ONE WORTH SUFFERING FOR"
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I use the three F rule! Find'em f@*k'em and forget'em.

Pick a new goal. Try to just have fun with her and a lot of time, you'll end up having some of the best sex of your life.

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* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

The majority of my sessions in San Jose have been positive. Often chicas stay the night without asking they just fall asleep. But I will tell you this I will not pay them to stay and hog the bed. Mugsy say send her to cooking school? Which century are you in, most women nowadays either Phuck or cook not both, so I'll cook.
My real question is how many men actually, honestly like a womens company if there is nothing in it for them?

I don´t go to places like massage parlors and Del Rey for the company. I go there to have sex. Granted, I love spending time with a woman if they share my interests.. But thats not what I´m looking for in those kinds of places.

For me, if it's the right chica, the down time can be great fun. I like 4-5 hour afternoon/early evening sessions. At 65, that gives me enough recuperation time to enjoy some good sex a couple times and still lets me get a good night's sleep without someone else hogging the bed. In addition to attractiveness and sexual prowess, one of the important factors for me in deciding whether or not a chica is a repeat is just how well we get along during the down time.

Things I've enjoyed doing with favoritas have included:
--playing cards (like Sam's uncle)
--giving each other really long massages
--talking about families, goals, sports ( mostly futbol) and what's going on in the world (they may not be that knowledgeable, but I enjoy getting a different viewpoint)
--cooking (sometimes I'm the cook, sometimes she is, sometimes it's a joint venture)
--spending time poolside (maybe swimming, cooking on the grill and doing tequila shots)
--playing video games (a Wi can be a great investment)
--I taught one to play chess (she's not a great player, but it was fun teaching her)
--an occasional movie. restaurant or shopping trip (special occasions only)

These are things I primarily do with girls I know fairly well; but with a new girl I always try to find out what it is that we both enjoy doing together. Being able to spend a couple hours enjoyably with a chica is going to greatly improve the quality of the time you spend with her between the sheets (or with the sheets thrown onto the floor).

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It's faster horses, younger women, older whiskey, and more money--Tom T. Hall
No man is a failure who is enjoying life--William Faulkner

give them the remote , and take a nap . when you wake if they and your belongings are still there,do some window shoping but be prepaired to buy a few things behind those windows.just ask her what she wants to do. if she is a regular of yours its kind of fun spoiling her.[for a day]

+1

A little chemistry achieved through effective communication makes the sex soooooo much better.

mh

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