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Author:  Orange [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 11:32 am ]
Post subject:  Oh my god, I offended some gringas yesterday...
This happened to me yesterday and is pretty funny...

I'm also a member of another forum, one for for people who are in the process of getting a US visa for their foreign fiances and spouses. They help each other get the right documents, etc etc.

Anyway, yesterday morning a foreign woman who is waiting for a visa through her American fiance wanted to vent and posted how she was tired of people judging her. His "two-faced" family and friends tell him that she's using him to come to the US, etc.

Anyways, I had to add my opinion, as usual. :twisted: I responded in support of this woman because all of us who have a foreign fiancee have family and friends telling us to "be careful, she just wants to come to the US", "she doesn't really love you", etc. Some tell us this because of true concern, others have other motives.

But the words I chose probably weren't ideal for that audience. :oops: I kind of forgot that there are also gringas on the board (they are applying for their foreign boyfriends). And I said some things about gringas. I said pretty much what most on this board say about them (controlling, disrespectful, etc etc). But I bit my tongue and didn't mention anything about the physical appearance of gringas, in relation to foreign women (latinas). I really really wanted to, but didn't want to offend anybody. :roll: :lol:

Here's an excerpt from my comments:
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They want to be able to control men and be bitches and have all the power. Pay not attention to it, they're just angry and jealous that an American man would choose a foreigner over them.

Suffice to say, my comments were not received well. :lol: :lol: :lol: I got a few responses from angry (probably fat) gringas. Here's one or two typical gringas:

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you need to watch what you say there...

maybe in your personal experience, american women have been one way or another, but remember that were not just foreign women on this site..............

dont mind me, im just a biatch who wants to control my fiance...................


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First of all, your type is the reason I gave up on American men...I found a polite, caring gentleman...in England...one that didn't care that I had a career, or my own opinions, that accepted and respected me for the way I am, sometimes silly, sometimes intense, never a doormat, but completely and totally in love with him...
Author:  Spanky [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:16 pm ]
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So maybe I'm missing something here. It's not okay for you to have a foreign bride because you find American women distasteful but it's okay for them to a foreign dude because they find American men distasteful.

I find that somehow ironic.
Author:  Orange [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:38 pm ]
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I can't believe they called me an American women-hater. Image
I mean it's true, but still...
Author:  El Ciego [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 2:47 pm ]
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Orange! :lol: :lol: Nicely done.

Frankly, I would if I were you, go back to the forum and quote Spanky. There is certainly a double-standard here, dontcha think? :D

Good for you, Orange! :D
Author:  Partyanimal1984 [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 4:08 pm ]
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I spent some time talking with a guy who runs a dating website. He had some interesting observations from his years of setting up couples.

The one thing he said that really stuck in my mind was: "In all my years, I have never had a single success story between a gringa and a latin guy. Latinas and gringos though, seem to match up quite well."

-PA :P
Author:  Haywood Jablommi [ Thu Feb 28, 2008 6:41 pm ]
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Here is a telling stat: apparently the divorce rate when a gringa marries a foreign man is 70 percent. When an American man marries a foreign woman it is only 20 pecent ( far lower than the US. divorce rate.)
Author:  Orange [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:42 pm ]
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Now, I'm just going back and forth with bitchy gringas about how much they suck. The men on that forum are too beaten-down and afraid of gringas to say a word. Pussies!

I haven't even mentioned anything about weight. I'm saving that for when I run out of other arguments, which will probably never happen.
Author:  Orange [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:51 pm ]
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Haywood Jablommi wrote:
Here is a telling stat: apparently the divorce rate when a gringa marries a foreign man is 70 percent. When an American man marries a foreign woman it is only 20 pecent ( far lower than the US. divorce rate.)

I gave them that stat, and one overly angry femi-nazi called it "your nonsense analyses of divorce in america".
Author:  Cariden [ Fri Feb 29, 2008 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  yeah right
as one of my favorite comics says. "men are at a disadvantage when we argue with women, we<men> actually are trying to make sense."
Author:  JerseyGringo [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 12:34 am ]
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I couldn't agree with you more orange .Im glad you said what you did, it makes me smile . :o as a matter of fact I would love to Join the thread and add some firepower!!

I have been on a latinamerican date site and have meet or spoken with many . I can say ALL the Gringas tell me that the girls are all out looking for lonely older men so they can come here and get papers and my money .
I tell them thats ok all Im looking for is sex !!Its an even deal !! its shuts them up .

The guy say thats great bring one for me !!
Author:  CaptainCohiba [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 1:55 am ]
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Alright Orange, 'fess up, are you mongering for some prospects on that site? :lol: :lol:

I joke!

PURA VIDA!
Author:  Orange [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 11:26 am ]
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Captain Cohiba wrote:
Alright Orange, 'fess up, are you mongering for some prospects on that site? :lol: :lol:

:oops:

Kind of. The bitchiest gringa lives about 10-15 minutes from me. I think I will ask her out for coffee to further discuss this in person. Hee hee. That ought to get a noteworthy response. :lol:
Author:  MrLasVegas [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 2:58 am ]
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Too funny. I have been helping people fill out visa paperwork and get the applications for about 6 years on a volunteer basis. I brought my now ex to the states from Indonesia. There is a phenominal amount of bs they put you through. But for every bs tactic there is a trick to it. I have asked for another processer when a gringa at the embassy in Jakarta came up to help process the application. I ended up getting a gringo at the embassy who got the application through and approved in 7 days. I cannot and will not speak to or deal with gringa embassy employees anywhere. They are the worst of the worst and just there to cause trouble.
Especially on a marriage visa application. Definately time to bring up the fat issue, Orange. :lol:

I was on a board for ESL teachers in Mexico for quite a while. We had a few female teachers on there that had married Mexican guys. When I heard this my first question was "how much tequila did it take for him to propose"?
Author:  Raw [ Mon Mar 17, 2008 9:42 am ]
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Oh my god, what did you do, look at them smile and wave!
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